Women's manipulation "I have a bad character." Full list of negative moral qualities of a person with a description
For some time, people who, in the opinion of those surrounding, are attracted, are attracted. Probably, this is because in its address such statements often hear.
You have a bad character, my girlfriend says to me, you often go on a break. But it did not prevent her to work with me in the company and persuade me to open a joint business with her. Strange?
You have a bad character telling me my daughter and at the same time it does not get up to be surprised at my great patience.
You have a bad character, my parents told me and at the same time always trusted in everything. And in their words, they had never been ashamed for me or scary.
Well, back to the TV shows, she was the most ordinary, her hero told about the history of the Bravo group or can be said about the business he created.
If briefly, it all started with the fact that he met Zhanna Aguzarova, wrote songs, gathered a team, and success did not make himself wait long. She was a bright soloist and her care, which he was able to overestimate over the years, then he became crashes for him. They spun her, the face of the group was, and with her departure everything ended at one moment. From this state, Eugene Havtan went out for a whole year.
As a consultant, I can note that in fact initially incorrectly built business model, it could still destroy it, of course, if the creator of the group had no "bad character."
Then it will not repeat it with him more than once, and apparently everything because of a bad nature. I will not go into details, I am not a historian of this group, but just a person who loves to realize and for me it is only one of the examples, attitudes towards people with a bad or may be a strong character. In fairness of the sake of note that not one of the former soloists of the group "Bravo" did not achieve greater success than in collaboration with Evgeny Havtan.
If a person has the impudence to want something, and something else does, then the surrounding will necessarily hurry to devalue everything with the help of a banal personality assessment, saying a bad character.
Why? Maybe this is a desire to make society more homogeneous?
Bad features of character poisoning not only to loved ones, but also their owner. After all, if one's own character brings problems one after another, it is difficult to love yourself. Because of this, self-esteem falls and there is still a sea of \u200b\u200bconcomitant problems. In this case, it is difficult to find a more logical output how to fix a bad character. It is not too simple, but when regular self-control is possible.
So, what bad qualities of character can and need to correct?
Unreasonably overpriced, self-examination
To love yourself is very important, but it is important not to put it at the bottom. Love for yourself is like underwear: it should be chic, but no one wears it at the bottom. If you frankly consider yourself smarter than others and give it to understand, soon there will be no one in your surroundings. Is it possible to fix a bad character? Easily. Every day tell yourself that every person has the right to his opinion and respect on your part.
Rudeness, hot temper, hysterical
Inability to control your own emotions and the habit of spilling out them on other people is the worst trait of character. It is because of this families disintegrate, and children grow up with a damaged psyche. In order to control yourself, you can mentally count to 10, drink a glass of water before you continue to talk or take a time out. Learn to spill emotions elsewhere: sign up into the gym or engage in jogs.
Habit to lie, teach the situation, do not recognize your miss
In the list bad devil The character of a person will always be present on the leading positions lie. Why are people lying? To seem better to hide your flaws in order not to receive well-deserved punishment. In general, a lie is a manifestation of a banal procoon of character. Learn to accept responsibility for your actions, words and behavior, and the need to lie will go by itself. If you can not believe, they are empty. And if you speak empty words all the time - then you yourself are an empty person.
Habit of whining, offended, complaining
If you have a habit of talking about the bad, then your character is bad. In fact, it is very difficult to stay near a person who only makes that in everything he sees problems and obstacles, depressing, is experiencing over any occasion. Help yourself: Include in the diet of bananas, bitter chocolate, nuts, citrus - these products contain serotonin, hormone joy. Take the rule in any complex situation Finding at least three advantages - and life will change!
There is a lot of good and bad character traits - choose for yourself only what will help you to be happy, light man!
For example, because he has his own point of view. And if this person sees that pressure is pressure, and not a request - it begins to rebel.
If you have seen such a person, you can imagine that he is hard to re-educate himself. And all third-party attempts to remake him - do not bring any success.
Teamwork \u003d\u003d\u003d
Work is a special place when the final result of the work depends on the activities of the entire team. This is especially visible in business. When everyone gets some thing, then something does something with it and transfers to another employee.
It is like on the conveyor. Suppose this is the factory. And you work in the implementation department already finished products. It depends on you whether it will be sold that the factory is manufactured, whether the employees of the plant will receive (turcy, guards, storekeepers, drivers, technicals, ...) in time the salary on which they were calculated.
External manifestations of the "absence" of an employee in his post \u003d\u003d\u003d
It happens that some worker falls out of the general rhythm of the team. Look around. Persically look at those who keep a mansion in your group. He does not show initiative. In his eyes there is no interest. Says monotonously, only when he is asked to say something. In the workplace is often distracted from fulfilling their duties.
Even if this person could do a lot, even when he needs very money - he will not be able to force himself to join full power.
From such a person you can wait for anything, even the fact that he will throw everything and leaves from his workplace. It does not matter whether it works to the turner on the machine, guard or even the head of the workshop. Fortunately, legislation allows the employee to quit and leave among the working day. No material and all the more criminal responsibility he will not suffer. In addition to some professions, such as a doctor or fireman.
How the world is arranged
Suppose it happened to you. This is not your interest in work. When your well-being depends on you. Because, even if you force yourself to go to this work, it will come to this work, and you will be replaced by another employee.
And this will not happen from the fact that you will change the boss, or it will begin to treat you worse. You continue to go to work. Just every year the requirements to productivity In the workplace are tightened. Performance is the amount of product produced in your workplace. For Tokar, this is the number of details of the warehouse. For employee sales department - the number of applications received and paid for customers. The employee needs more and more and more completed operations at its workplace.
And this implies an increase in labor productivity. Visual example Accounting work. Where 20 years ago worked up to 10 accountants - today copes - one or two! Where 20 employees of the implementation department worked - 2-3 remained.
What to do you?
If you do not find in this workplace. You do not like the thought itself to get up in the mornings and go to this hard work ... Change the bosses, or marry the boss. Why spoil nerves and yourself and people? The boss is not to blame that you have such a character.
But, with subordinates will have to train themselves. You may have to go through training on the "settlement of communication problems".
In any case, there are no hopeless provisions. The people inhabiting the land before us - all this was done and we left the rules of normal communication.
Almost any situation is solvable if you have a successful coach.
Is it possible to become a coach for yourself
We know many cases when a person did his operations on his body. This is loved to show in plenty films. Although today, even a precinct therapist is forbidden to stitch small wounds. He is obliged to call an ambulance and impose a bandage.
Of course, training specialists will tell you that it is impossible to lead yourself to the working condition, it needs a psychotraining specialist here.
However, if you really want, although it is impossible, it is possible to do it. But a few tips - how?
1. The same books can be read differently. You can run through your eyes all over the book and say, - Okay, I understood everything. Or feel What nothing is clear and discard this book.
2. Next, this observation of work successful peopleThe result, in which you would like to achieve themselves. For example, you saw how quickly the head approves the work plan of his subordinates for the week. Do not ask for some sin, which allows you to quickly sign the work plan.
3. All successful, enthusiastic people like to count, record the results. If a person really starts or hurt - he will keep records. Athlete has a diary of achievements. A man with increased arterial pressure regularly measures and records pressure test. Start your income accounting system by day and weeks. Take yourself or accountant to do it without skipping.
Conclusions and decision-making on accounting data
If you see that according to your accounting data, your interlocutors have more time to listen to you carefully, for example, the average amount of your video browsing time has increased from 3 minutes to 5, then you go to the right direction.
If your income fell - quickly nourish the source of income fall. Do not listen to those who talk about the crisis in the economy.
The crisis for the bad workers to be broken, and good selected from his bad customers and increased the number of customers and paid orders.
How to distinguish bad character from good
Character is an individual person's originality, the fact that characterizes Its in the main features of the person. In special literature you can meet, for example, such a phrase: "Gas with a characteristic smell". That is, one characteristic smell can be distinguished by this gas from a variety of others. Also with the character of a person - he, if there is, shows well distinctive features This person, as if "gives out" his owner.
1. Character makes a person predictable. But this predictability concerns only some situations, not all. If a person does not like to lie, he is only predictable that he will not lie (or will be, but extremely reluctant). We will not be able to foresee what it will say to us. If someone is inclined to verbal aggression (evil in the tongue), then we can be sure that he sooner or later throws on someone with reproaches or insults, but for whom it is certain - we cannot know this.
People are without character, on the contrary, or completely predictable, or completely unpredictable. Predictability is a consequence of a passive life position, and unpredictability - a consequence of "porridge in the head" and (or) a complete dependence on third parties. Remember it: passivity issues in man only lack of character.
2. Good character or bad - in many ways it is a matter of taste. Learn ourselves (as they say, at your own risk) to understand people, in their characters. If you are looking for a friend or spouse, you will be suitable for a person with a constructive, harmonious character. But if you suddenly want to suffer, experience a lot of unpleasant adventures, then you will be quite suitable for a person with destructive, disharmonious, selfish character.
A man with a constructive character is aimed at cooperation. He is confident that you are both won by cooperation. He will not oppose his interests and yours.
A man with a destructive character is constantly looking for personal benefits, after time he makes one and the same mistake: "The best enemy is good." He sees only his personal benefit as soon as he notices that it was not all possible with a relationship with you yet, he still "tightens the nut" of relations. Sooner or later in the relationship "Carving breaks down", and the Egoist then looks for new friends.
If you are just starting to look after a person, then arrange him a few checks (tests, so to speak). Try to find out the degree of readiness of this person to cooperate.
Not in vain they say that "with such a person, even porridge do not cook." So try to start combining efforts to cook anything: weld together the borsch, put the dumplings and so on. If a person calmly and judge the case and completes it, this is one. If he starts to eat, constantly get out, look for personal benefit, take a unpleasant job on you, draw, blame you, it's the other.
IN joint activity A bad character will show itself very quickly. Therefore, arrange other checks. You can, for example, go to the campaign or take care of a sick grandmother. If a person immediately refuses one or another idea, it does not say anything. If he took, but then he could not do anything, while putting you guilty, then this is the opposite about many things.
3. A human constructive character develops its abilities. After all, for the development of abilities, you need a lot of time, diligence and others positive qualities. Even if a person is simply nice manners, it says a lot. This means that a person loves and knows how to work on himself. If he has sports or intellectual achievements, then it is even better.
If all the "abilities" of a person consist only from the ability to lie and adapt, then with such a person exactly no porridge. Sooner or later he will deceive you. Will wait for the best possible moment when you least expect a deception and when you deceive most advantageous, and deceive.
Therefore, always pay attention to human abilitiesThey are not only a consequence of some natural deposits, but also the result of character.
Studying a person's personality, whether it is a woman, a man or a child, you can always reveal a bad tendency to be disgusting because of, for example, mistakes in education, psychological injuries. But even bad heredity can be secure. Consider the main negative features of a human character.
Authoritarianism
The desire to dominate everything, ignoring any needs of other people. An explicit or hidden requirement of subordination and discipline from everyone, with whom the person intersects. Alien opinion is not taken into account, any unpleasant breaks without trying to find mutual favorable solution. It is believed that this is a typical negative trait of Russian.
Aggressiveness
The desire to conflict with others. In early childhood, this is a mandatory negative feature of the character of a child studying ways to protect their interests. For aggressive adult, provocative, sometimes obviously false statements, increased tone, insults. Sometimes attempts are performed on the opponent physically.
Azatry
The painful desire to achieve the goal, despite the size of the risks, ignoring their and other people's logical arguments about the exceedment of spending over the value of the desired result. Often it becomes the cause of situations leading to full outcome, loss of health or significant financial losses.
Greed
Pathological desire for personal material benefit in any situation. Getting profit by at any cost becomes the only source. positive emotions in life. At the same time, the duration of pleasant sensations from the obtained benefits is extremely short-lived - due to the uncontrolled constant desire to go even more.
Apathetoma
The lack of an emotional reaction to most external irritants due to the characteristics of the temperament or due to the protective reaction of the body into stress. It is one of the reasons for the impossibility of achieving even simple goals due to the inability or reluctance to concentrate, make volitional efforts.
Pre -alaberity
Careless fulfillment of obligations due to the unwillingness to act on all the rules or misunderstanding of the algorithms necessary for the rapid and least costly achievement of the existing goals. Often this is a typical negative trait of the character of a woman, just escaped from under excessive parental care.
Indifference
Real or deliberately demonstrated lack of interest to a specific subject, object, event, duties due to congenital emotional coldness, experienced strong stress or patched with infancy, feelings of superiority over people with other social status, other faith, nationality, races.
Irresponsibility
Consciously chosen, imposed on education or caused by the moral immaturity, the position of refusal from real awareness of the effects of eigenvocal action, the unwillingness to make decisions affecting their and someone else's quality of life. In difficult everyday situations Active actions are not carried out because of the expectation that the problem will be sent independently.
Bloomless
The absence of individual traits, because of which a separate subject is easily "lost" in the total mass of those like people. In the process of communication, the "gray man" does not cause sympathy due to loopedness on randomless topics, in the elevity team, boring, fears in innovations and opposes them in every way.
Ruthlessness
Emotional indifference to someone's troubles, inability or reluctance to condolese, sympathize with people in particular and living beings in general, experiencing physical or emotional pain. Sometimes it is intentional inhumanity in actions leading to suffering and even the death of objects chosen as victims.
Unceremonia
Intentional or unconscious violation of the norms, the sequence of actions adopted in this society in a relationship with some specific situation. The reason for the intentional disconnection may be the desire to provoke a conflict or attract attention to its own person, unconscious - the error of education, emotional immaturity.
Cattle
The painful need to constantly participate in a dialogue with one or more interlocutors, despite the content of the conversation, the degree of passionism to them by the rest of the participants, the relevance of the conversation. The main purpose of such an interlocutor is not receiving new information, and the role of the storytellor when contacting someone. At the same time, it can distribute the information that others would prefer to keep secret.
Windiness
Inability to restrain any promises and take into account other people's interests, the absence of a long time to move for the achievement of one goal, the desire to constantly change the circle of communication, partners. The lack of principles and clear behavioral borders, the rapid focus of interest in a specific lesson, man.
Plosolubie
Passionate desire for control over all and waiting for unquestionless subordination, the desire of infinite power, especially over more educated and skillful. Eusting its own superior position in situations where others are forced to seek help or search for protection, material support.
Suggestibility
In pathological form, this is a subconscious tendency to perceive the behavior imposed from outside without its own conscious understanding and weighing the results from its actions carried out under the influence of someone else's authority. However, reduced suggestibility can cause difficulties with learning.
Vulgarity
Inability to find a balance between originality and vulnerability in communication, when choosing clothes, social landmarks, and so on. For example, with a dialogue, the interlocutor communicates on elevated colors, mannical, does not happen with silent jokes. When choosing a dress prefers catchy things, and composite elements Often, poorly combined with each other.
Stupidity
Inability or reluctance to determine the logically loyal conclusions, even from the simplest everyday tasks, the tendency to see common grain in pseudo-native and populist statements, the inability to undergo informant critical analysis information from sources on their own erected to authoritative status.
Pride
Confidence in social, moral, mental insignificance of others, the inability to forgive personal and other people's misses, the denial of the possibility of presence of decent features in other subjects of society. Develops against the background of distillations made in the upbringing, degradation of the personality due to illness, the immaturity of the person to associate with a high social status.
Coarseness
The reluctance to adhere to the polite, adopted in the normal society of communication format with the interlocutors due to the deformation of the personality against the background of the disease, injury, stress or frequent necessity to occupy a defensive position in encroachment into the territory and law. Typical manifestations: Communication on elevated colors, rudeness, obscene vocabulary.
Greed, stupidity
The desire to minimize expenses even to the detriment of health, elementary hygiene and common sense. Pathological pursuit of material stability can manifest itself in the form of refusal to get rid of garbage, trash, ignoring reasonable requests close man On the acquisition of things of essentials.
Cruelty
The desire to cause discomfort to live actors for personal moral satisfaction. The impact on the victim can be as intangible - in the form of insults and refusal to satisfy some important emotional needs and physical - through the causing pain, torment, encroachment on life.
Forgetfulness
Inability to remember some data necessary in consumer life, a combination of actions to achieve a specific purpose, the launch or deactive algorithm. It occurs due to age-related changes in the brain, overload information. May be a consequence stressful situationthat you want to forget.
Addiction
The desire to enjoy the action or use of a certain substance even if the source of pleasant emotions is harmful to health, relations with others, leads to large cash spending, pushes into a crime due to the desire to achieve "Kaifa", in the absence of legal access.
Envy
Inability to enjoy any personal benefits, achievements, qualities. Next to the constant comparing the values \u200b\u200bavailable at home and others. Moreover, the "crumbs" on someone else's side always seem more, tastier and more desirable "placers". In pathological form deprives cheerfulness, the ability to soberly assess their own and other votes.
Complexation
Constant damping in his own eyes of its own natural talents, trained abilities, the denial of the values \u200b\u200bof personal developments, the inability to force themselves to declare their personal achievements in the circle of authoritative individuals. Is formed due to excessively strict education, psychological injury or illness nervous system.
Nude
The habit of everyone and everywhere to teach, repeatedly to discuss the same topic to the same topic, despite the obvious lack of interest in people who are trying to draw into the dialogue. The reason lies in pathological love to attention and infinite conversations on any topic, even if it is in the topic discussed, the conversation instigator has a full profan.
Anger
Emotional manifestation of strong dissatisfaction with something, a reference point indicating the presence of conditions clearly uncomfortable for a person. In the absence of actions that eliminate the cause of the formation of a feeling, over time it can push the offense to commit, so it is not worth ignoring the manifestations of anger.
Spoolenity
The harmful habit of demanding the fulfillment of its desire in the shortest possible time, without taking into account the possibilities of who a claim is presented. Failure to control and restrain your own needs, tolerate the slightest inconvenience and personally attach emotional and physical effort to achieve what I want.
Laziness
The lack of desire to strain for personal needs, the tendency to idle the days of the days. The behavior traced the desire to obtain comfort by working around the surrounding, deep disgust for beneficial activities even in minimal volumes. When you need to write this negative character for a resume, you should not specify this negative trait.
False
Conscious systematic statement to interlocutors of unreliable information with a slanderous target, for the sake of their own benefit or masking personal misses in some kind of activity. The pathological form is inherent in unsure of the personalities trying to make an impression on others.
Hypocrisy
The preliminary assurances of love, sincere admiration and benevolence towards the interlocutor during a conversation with him. The goal of such behavior is the enlargement and desire to flatter the sake of their own benefit, at the same time, the true, perhaps even evil moods in relation to the dialogue or conversation object.
Flattering
The tendency to excessive constant praising of other people's real and imaginary advantages, virtues, for their own pearly. The object exceeding may be obviously negative actions, Acts of an influential person, specially mounted lets and voiced by him as the only correct decision in the situation under consideration.
Curiosity
In a pathological form, it is a desire to know the information that interests is notninking about the decency, the personal feelings of the asked and the situation at which communication occurs. The reason for unhealthy curiosity is a painful desire to be aware of even those events that are not related to the manifestation of interest.
Pettiness
Habital to attach great value By its insignificant statements, actions. The ubiquitous protrusion of its imaginary achievements in opposition is really important and heroic actions surrounding people. Attention to ordinary details to the detail of values, the desire to obtain reporting on costs of expenditures to the "one thousandth".
Avenue
The tendency to focus personal attention on all small and large troubles, everyday conflicts, contrived resentment, so that with time, it is necessary to pay a hundredfold with each of the offenders. In this case, the duration of the time interval from the moment of obtaining a real or imaginary insult does not matter.
Impudence
Unceremonious behavior in any situations, the desire to achieve the desired minimal cost And "through the heads" surrounding. Such behavior is formed with improper upbringing, due to difficult childhood or, on the contrary, due to the spoil, the habit of always getting the desired at any cost.
Arrogance
The perception of the majority of those surrounding as subjects is a deliberately low category due to a fictional difference in social status or a real discrepancy on a material, national, racial or other sign. The reason may be a protective response to the vulnerament of vulnerass in the past or throughout the upbringing.
Annoying
Inability or unwillingness to understand independently with emerging problems, having fun or relax. The reason may wage in emotional immaturity, fear of loneliness, desire to increase self-esteem due to active participation in the lives of other people, even if they experience explicit discomfort from this and openly declare it.
Narcissism
Unfortunate and unfounded praise itself, self-examination under any circumstances, the desire to embellish the results of their actions and the actions undertaken, selfishness, indifferent attitude not only to someone else's, but also to close people, interest only in personal comfort and benefits.
Negligence
Unwillingness to perform qualitatively or entrusted obligations, negligence in behavior with people in domestic or professional relations, insufficient attention to trusted values, inability - due to weak education or personal deformation, understand the importance of diligence when working on something.
Sugiability
Increased negative reaction to everyday troubles due to hypertrophied egoism. It is because of him that he wants the world to spit away from your feet, and those surrounding, forgetting about their own needs, round the clock and yearly corresponded to expectations: they were polite, generous and caring, sought to ensure someone else's comfort.
Limitation
The confidence is that the truthful picture of the world is available only to you, and other explanations of the device of the universe and the principles of human interaction and ambient - Solid fiction of near-mecky men. It arises due to insufficient education, a congenital defect of development that impede adequate learning learning information.
Alarmism
The tendency to take as reality imaginary catastrophicity of the consequences from any, even minor incidents in their own life and the world as a whole. It is a manifestation of evil education by a person-reinsurer, an overly stormy fantasy or disorder of the nervous system due to stress, illness.
Vulgarity
The tendency towards the finished outfits, demonstrations of real or showing material security through the acquisition of unnecessary luxury items. Or, sometimes there is a couple, enthusiastic jokes, silent jokes, often voiced in an absolutely inappropriate situation for calling the feeling of awkwardness from the bulk of the listeners.
Irritability
A negative reaction to an irritant, expressed in an excessive manifestation of emotions, the saturation of which does not correspond to the power of the impact of an unpleasant for some reason. The cause of irritability can be external or internal, caused by the overload of the nervous system or the exhaustion of the body.
Wastefulness
The inability to rationally spend income, including the desire to systematically or constantly make acquisitions for the sake of the process itself, and not in order to use the item of the item or things. It is based on the desire to feel "the Lord of the world", to meet the status of a materially secured person.
Jealousy
Decoration of discontent or distrust to a subject having a jealous value. It is expressed by suspicion of infidelity or more emotional predisposition to another person (on the site of the accused may not only be a spouse, but also mother, sister, friend - the list can be infinite).
Self-member
Habit is reasonable and unreasonable to catch himself in a variety of sins of different magnitude. For example, in insufficient attention to the fulfillment of duties, although in reality at work or in relationships a person is laid out completely. Possible reasons: Low self-esteem, actively supporting the stakeholder, perfectionism.
Self-confidence
Unreasonable exceeding its abilities, allegedly allow you to cope with a certain or any task. It is the cause of the barrafficness and risky actions, often performed with the rejection of the security rules, laws of physics and the arguments of logic. Based on inexperience, depending on the desire to live on the edge of the foul.
Weakness
The absence of the ability to perform a volitional effort for the desired goal or for confrontation with dangerous, illegal temptations, morally degraded personalities. Next to submission to other people's decisions even in the case when they require serious victims. Such a negative trait of the character of a man can make it the object of ridicule in the team.
Cowardice
The inability to resist the opponent due to insufficiently developed power Will, exposure to phobia. Can be trapped from the place of some events due to imaginary or real danger for own health, life, despite the remaining in the danger of other possible participants in the incident.
Vanity
The desire to receive praise for real and imaginary merit. The desire primarily have a positive image, and not to be worthy of compliments. Inspection as a voiced approval - flattery is also perceived favorably. And there is no ability to distinguish it from sincere statements.
Stubbornness
The desire to do only according to its own ideas about the loyalty of the selected path, the rejection of authorities, ignoring the well-known rules of purely due to the habit of acting as he himself decided. The absence of the ability to be flexible when colliding interests, reluctance or inability to take into account the goals and possibilities of others.
Egoism
Animated selfishness, the desire to live with comfort, not believing with possible inconveniences, following this for others. It is always overwhelmed over the desires of other people, the opinions of the latter on this and other reasons are never taken into account. All decisions are based only on their own gain.
