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Friendship always faces challenges. The main thing today is a changed way of life. With the acceleration of the pace of life, the understanding of the importance of time came. When time is the price of achieving your goal, relaxation and hospitality are no longer important. Frequent meetings and leisurely conversations have ceased to be companions of friendship.

The paradox: earlier the social circle was limited, today a person is oppressed by the redundancy of forced communication. This is especially noticeable in cities with a high population density. We strive to isolate ourselves, choose a secluded place.

Such redundancy in communication and the desire for isolation should reduce the need for friendship in our time to a minimum. But this is not the case. Relationships with friends remain in the first place.

Each of us once had favorite toys, which are associated with bright and tender memories, cherished in our hearts.

In the age of computer technology, real toys no longer attract as much attention as virtual ones. The toy still remains irreplaceable in its own way. Nothing teaches and develops a child like a toy with which he can communicate, play, gain life experience.

A toy is the key to the consciousness of a little person. Choose your toy carefully. She will bring her image, behavior, attributes, system of values ​​and worldviews into the child's world. It is impossible to raise a full-fledged person with the help of negative toys.

When I was ten years old, someone's caring hand planted a volume of "Animal Heroes" on me. I consider it my "alarm clock" for the feeling of nature. There is no need to enumerate everything that can awaken in human childhood interest and reverence for the great mystery of life.

Growing up, a person must comprehend with his mind how difficult everything in the living world is intertwined, interconnected, how this world is vulnerable. This school of comprehension of the world must be there.

And yet, at the beginning of everything, there is Love. Awakened in time, she makes the knowledge of the world interesting and exciting. With her, a person also gains a certain point of support, an important point of reference for all the values ​​of life.

No matter how interesting homework and school life child, do not read precious books - he is deprived. Adults can read a book today or in a year - the difference is small. In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day there are discoveries. Early impressions can affect a lifetime.

Childhood impressions are the most vivid and lasting. This is the foundation of spiritual life, a golden fund. Seeds are sown in childhood. Not everyone will sprout. Biography human soul is the germination of seeds sown in childhood.

Subsequent life is complex and varied. Every character trait of an adult, every quality of his soul and every deed of him was sown in childhood, had its own embryo, its own seed.

We often talk about the difficulties associated with the upbringing of a person who is starting life. The most a big problem- a decrease in the importance of the family in the upbringing of a child. If in early years the family did not put anything solid in the moral sense into a person, then society will have a lot of trouble with this citizen.

The other extreme is overprotective parenting of the child. This is a consequence of the weakening of the family principle. Parents did not give their child warmth and strive in the future to pay the inner spiritual debt with petty care and material benefits.

The world is changing, becoming different. If the parents were unable to establish internal contact with the child, it is not surprising that the child early acquires cynicism and disbelief in selflessness. His life becomes impoverished, becomes flat and dry.

One person was told that an acquaintance of his spoke of him in unflattering terms. "Are you kidding! the man exclaimed. - I didn’t do anything good for him ... ”. This is an algorithm of black ingratitude, when good is answered with evil.

Morality is a guide to life. If you behave ungratefully towards others, then people have the right to behave towards you in the same way.

How to relate to this phenomenon? Philosophically. Do good and know that it will surely pay off. You will be happy. And this is the goal in life - to live it happily. Sublime natures do good.

Times are changing, new generations are coming in which everything is not the same as the previous ones: tastes, interests, life goals... Difficult personal questions remain unchanged. Today's adolescents, like their parents at one time, are worried about the same thing: how to attract the attention of someone you like? How to distinguish infatuation from true love?

A youthful dream of love is a dream of mutual understanding. After all, a teenager definitely needs to realize himself in communication with peers, to show his qualities and abilities in front of those who are kindly disposed towards him, who are ready to understand him.

Love is the trust of two people in each other. Real love certainly includes friendships, but is not limited to them. She is always more than friendship. This is all that makes up our world.

Self-doubt is an ancient problem. In the XX century, it became clear: ever increasing self-doubt can cause a lot of trouble - up to serious illnesses.

Self-doubt can serve as the basis for constant dependence on someone else's opinion. How uncomfortable it is to feel dependent: other people's assessments seem more important and meaningful to a person than their own. Such a person becomes indecisive and cannot correctly assess the life situation.

How to overcome self-doubt? Some scientists are looking for an answer to this question in physiology, while others rely on psychology. You can overcome self-doubt if a person is able to set goals correctly, correlate them with external circumstances and evaluate the results positively.

The essence of the concept of "power" lies in the ability of one person to force another to do what he would not voluntarily do. The tree grows straight up. But even if it does not grow evenly, then it tries to get out of the obstacles and again reaches up. So is the person. Submissive people suffer, but if once they managed to throw off their "burden", then they often turn into tyrants themselves.

If you command everywhere, then a person will be lonely as the finale of life. He feels calm when people follow his orders unquestioningly. Commanders are unhappy people, even if they get good results.

Commanding and controlling people are two different things. The one who manages knows how to take responsibility for actions. This approach preserves the mental health of both the person himself and those around him.

Can one comprehensive formula define what art is? No. Art is charm and witchcraft, it is the revelation of the funny and the tragic, it is morality and immorality, it is the knowledge of the world and man.

The moment a person turns to creativity is greatest discovery... Art allows you to get in touch with individuals, peoples and civilizations that are distant from us in time and space, to know and understand them. The language of art makes it possible for humanity to feel itself as one with them.

Since ancient times, an attitude has been formed towards art as a mighty force, capable not only of capturing the image of time and man, but also of transmitting it to descendants.

The war was a cruel school for children. They were sitting not at their desks, but in frozen trenches, and in front of them were not notebooks, but armor-piercing shells and machine-gun belts. They did not have life experience, did not understand true value simple things that you do not attach importance to in a peaceful life.

The war has filled the emotional experience of people to the limit. Those who survived returned from the war, having managed to preserve in themselves a pure, radiant peace, faith and hope, becoming more implacable to injustice, kinder to good.

Although the war has become history, the memory of it must live on. The main participants in history are People and Time. Not forgetting Time means not forgetting People, not forgetting People means not forgetting Time.

The universal recipe, how to choose the right way in life, no. The final choice remains with the person. We make this choice already in childhood.

Majority critical decisions we take in adolescence. At this time, a person chooses the most important thing for life: a close friend, a circle of basic interests, a profession.

Such a choice is a responsible business. Do not hope that the error can be corrected afterwards. And the wrong decisions will not remain without consequences. Success comes to those who know what they want, decisively make a choice, believe in themselves and persistently achieve their goals.

There are values ​​that change, are lost, and disappear. No matter how society changes, over the millennia there remain values ​​that are of great importance for people of all generations and cultures. One of these values ​​is friendship.

People very often use this word in their language, they call certain people their friends, but few can articulate what friendship is. All definitions of friendship are similar in one thing: friendship is a relationship based on mutual openness of people, trust and willingness to come to the aid of a friend at any time.

The main thing is that friends have the same life values, similar spiritual guidelines. True friendship is unaffected by time and distance. Such constancy - distinctive feature true friendship.

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The word "mom" is a special word. It is born with us, accompanies us in the years of growing up and maturity. In the language of any nation there is this word, in all languages ​​it sounds tender and affectionate.

The place of the mother in our life is special, exclusive. We always bring our joy and pain to her and find understanding. Mother's love inspires, gives strength, inspires to exploits. In difficult life circumstances, we always remember our mother. The word "mother" becomes equivalent to the word life.

Artists, composers, poets have created wonderful works about the mother. We realize too late that we forgot to say a lot of good and kind words to their mothers. You need to give mothers joy every day and hour. After all, grateful children - best gift for moms.

In a society where the idea of ​​individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten about mutual assistance and mutual assistance. And human society was formed thanks to a common cause and help to the weak. Should your own interests be above others?

It is in this issue that personal and public interests are intertwined. This is deeper than it sounds. Individualism destroys society and weakens us. Mutual support will preserve and strengthen society.

What is more important - mutual assistance or primitive egoism? We must understand each other if we want to live well together and not depend on anyone. Helping people in difficult moment, do not seek gratitude and benefits for yourself. Then they will definitely help in response.

I remember hundreds of boys' answers to the question: what kind of person do you want to become. Nobody said kind. Why is kindness not put on a par with courage and bravery? But without kindness, the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.

Good feelings should be rooted in childhood. If they are not raised in childhood, they will never be raised. The main value is the value of life, someone else's, one's own, the life of the animal world and plants.

Good feelings, emotional culture is the focus of humanity. Today we should be more tolerant towards each other, towards the world around us. The path of goodness is the most acceptable and only path for man.

In childhood, a person is happy by default. By nature, a child is a creature instinctively predisposed to happiness. He rejoices because there is nothing to compare life with. He still does not suspect that it could be somehow different, that the soul has not yet had time to be covered with a shell and is more open to goodness and hope.

And with age, everything seems to be turned inside out. And we believe in the drama we have invented, we sincerely complain about it to our friends, spend time, health, and mental strength on experiences.

When a truly real tragedy happens, we understand how ridiculous the made-up suffering is and how trivial the reason for it is. Then we grab our heads and understand that we should have enjoyed every minute.

Betrayed me native person, betrayed best friend... We hear such statements quite often. Most often, those in whom we have invested our souls betray. The pattern is as follows: the more beneficence, the stronger the betrayal.

Many endure mockery of themselves, hoping that the traitor will wake up a conscience. But something that does not exist cannot wake up. Conscience is a function of the soul, and a traitor does not have it. A traitor usually explains his act by the interests of the case, but in order to justify the first betrayal, he commits the second, third ...

Betrayal destroys human dignity. The life of a traitor becomes empty, worthless and meaningless.

Four years of war cannot be compared with any other years of our history. A person's memory weakens over time. There are fewer and fewer veterans. If the feat is not reflected in documents and works of art, then the bitter experience of past years will be forgotten.

Great theme Patriotic War has nurtured literature and art for decades. The most important thing in a conversation on this topic is the preservation of measure and tact in relation to the truth of the war.

V modern world there is no person who does not come into contact with art. Its significance in our life is great. Fiction especially strongly affects a person.

Contact with the world of art gives us joy and disinterested pleasure. It would be wrong to see in the works of writers, composers, artists only a means of obtaining pleasure. Art helps a person to see and understand better the world and myself.

Art becomes a repository of memory for future generations, forms views and feelings, character, tastes of a person, awakens love for beauty. In difficult moments of life, art becomes a source of spiritual strength and courage for people.

To appreciate kindness and understand its meaning, you must certainly experience it yourself. One must perceive the ray of someone else's kindness and live in it. Kindness comes as a gift.

Someone else's kindness is the warmth from which the heart warms up and comes in response. A person who has once experienced kindness cannot but respond sooner or later, confidently or uncertainly, with his kindness.

It is a great happiness to feel the fire of kindness in your heart and give it free rein in life. The “I” and “mine” are forgotten, the alien disappears, because it becomes “mine” and “me”. There is no room left for enmity and hatred in the soul.

If you take away the ability to dream from a person, then the desire to fight for a wonderful future will disappear. But dreams should not be divorced from reality. They should foresee the future and create in us the feeling that we already live in this future and ourselves are becoming different.

The dream is needed not only for children, but also for adults. It evokes excitement, a source of high feelings. This is its value.

Only a hypocrite can say that it is necessary to calm down on what has been achieved and stop. To fight for the future, you need to be able to dream passionately, deeply and effectively. You need to cultivate in yourself a continuous desire for meaningful and beautiful things.

What is the use of reading? Is it true that reading is helpful? Why do so many keep reading? After all, not only to relax or take free time.

The benefits of reading books are obvious. Books broaden a person's horizons, enrich him inner world, increase vocabulary a person, develop clear and clear thinking. Everyone can make sure of this on own example... The reading person speaks more competently. Reading develops logical thinking... After reading, you will think faster, your mind will become sharper, and you will understand that reading is useful and beneficial.

Books have a significant impact on our moral guidelines and spiritual development... After reading a classic work, people sometimes begin to change into better side.

What good book? The book should be fascinating and interesting, written in a rich language, carry deep meaning... Original and unusual ideas make the book useful.

You should not get carried away with any one genre or kind of literature. Passion only for the fantasy genre can turn young readers into goblins and elves who know the way to Avalon much better than the way home.

If you have not read books from school curriculum or read them in abbreviated form, you should start with them. Classical literature is an obligatory base for every person. It will help you see the beauty of the world, understand yourself and people. Popular science literature will expand the horizons, form knowledge about the world, help determine the path in life, and provide an opportunity for self-development. (based on materials from the Internet)

It is necessary and natural to have a family and children, as it is necessary and natural to work. The family has long been held together by the moral authority of the father, who has traditionally been considered the head. All the burden of peasant labor was shared by his adult sons.

Household management was in the hands of the wife and mother. She did not do all the housework alone: ​​even the children, having barely learned to walk, little by little, along with the game, began to do something useful.

Kindness, tolerance, mutual forgiveness of grievances grew into mutual love in a good family. Grumpiness and quarrelsomeness were considered a punishment of fate and aroused pity for their carriers. It is difficult to expect respect for other people from a person who does not love and respect his relatives. (according to Belov)

The word "culture" is multifaceted. She carries the concept of spirituality, light, knowledge and true beauty. If people understand this, our country will become prosperous. It will be very good if every city and village has its own cultural center.
True culture is always aimed at upbringing and education. At the head of such centers should be people who understand what culture is, what it is composed of, what is its meaning.
The key note of culture can be the concepts: peace, truth, beauty. It would be nice if people devoted to their work were engaged in culture. Culture is an ocean of creativity. And if we all together begin to participate in its creation and strengthening, then our entire planet will become more beautiful. (according to M. Tsvetaeva)

What does it mean to be a cultured person? A cultured person, educated, well-mannered, responsible, respects himself and those around him, is distinguished by creative work, striving for the high, the ability to be grateful, love for nature and homeland, compassion and sympathy for one's neighbor, goodwill.

A cultured person will never lie. He will maintain composure and dignity in all situations of life. the main objective a cultured person - to increase goodness in the world. Genuine humanity is the ideal of a cultured person.

In our time, people devote too little time to culture. In a cultured person, the process of familiarizing with culture should begin in childhood. The child absorbs the positive experience of the family and homeland. As an adult, he can be useful to society. (based on materials from the Internet)

Some believe that a person grows up at a certain age when he becomes an adult. What does it mean to be an adult?

Adulthood is independence, the ability to do without anyone's help. A person understands that he must overcome his difficulties himself. There are situations when a person cannot cope alone. Then you have to ask for help. But in general, it is not typical for an independent, adult person to rely on others.

There is such an expression: the hand should expect help only from the shoulder. An independent person knows how to be responsible for himself, his deeds and actions. Being an adult means taking responsibility for someone else. Adulthood does not depend on age, but on life experience, on the desire to live life without nannies.

What is friendship? You will meet friends most often among people with a common destiny, one profession, common thoughts. It cannot be said with certainty that such a community defines friendship.

Can two opposite characters be friends? Friendship is not equality or similarity. One is friends and gives his experience, the other in friendship is enriched with experience. Friendship is based on similarities, but manifests itself in differences, contradictions, and dissimilarities.

A friend is the one who asserts your rightness, talent, merit. A friend is the one who lovingly exposes you in your weaknesses, shortcomings and vices.

Friendship is not something external. Friendship lies deep in the heart. You cannot force yourself to be a friend to someone or force someone to be your friend.

For friendship, first of all, mutual respect is needed, which is manifested in words and deeds. A friend who is respected feels valued as a person. Trust is important in friendship.

A friend can make mistakes. Common moral values, common interests or hobbies are important for friendship. Friendly feelings do not depend on age, can be very strong and bring a lot of experiences to a person. Life is unthinkable without friendship.

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Friendship always faces challenges. The main one today is a changed way of life, a change in the image and routine of life. With the acceleration of the pace of life, with the desire to quickly realize oneself, an understanding of the importance of time came. Previously, it was impossible to imagine, for example, that the hosts were burdened by guests, now, when time is the price of achieving your goal, relaxation and hospitality are no longer significant. Frequent meetings and leisurely conversations are no longer indispensable companions of friendship. Due to the fact that we live in different rhythms, meetings of friends are becoming rare.

But here's the paradox: earlier the social circle was limited, today a person is oppressed by the redundancy of forced communication. This is especially noticeable in cities with a high population density. We strive to isolate ourselves, choose a secluded place in the subway, in a cafe, in the reading room of the library.

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Each of us once had our favorite toys. Perhaps each person has bright and tender memories associated with them, which he carefully keeps in his heart. A favorite toy is the most vivid childhood memory of every person.

In the age of computer technology, real toys no longer attract such attention as virtual ones, but despite all the emerging new items such as phones and computer technology, the toy still remains unique and irreplaceable in its own way. After all, nothing teaches and develops a child like a toy with which he can communicate, play and even gain life experience.

The toy is the key to the consciousness of a little person. To develop and strengthen in him positive traits, to make him mentally healthy, to instill love for others, to form the correct understanding of good and evil, it is necessary to carefully choose a toy, remembering that it will bring into his world not only its image, but also behavior, attributes, as well as a system of values ​​and worldviews. It is impossible to raise a full-fledged person with the help of negative toys.

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When I was ten years old, someone's caring hand planted a volume of "Animal Heroes" on me. I consider it my "alarm clock". I know from other people that for them the "alarm clock" for the sense of nature was a month spent in the summer in the village, a walk in the forest with a man who "opened his eyes to everything," the first trip with a backpack. There is no need to enumerate everything that can awaken in human childhood interest and reverence for the great mystery of life.

Growing up, a person must comprehend with his mind how difficult everything in the living world is intertwined, interconnected, how this world is strong and at the same time vulnerable, how everything in our life depends on the wealth of the earth, on the health of living nature. This school must be there.

And yet, at the beginning of everything, there is Love. Awakened in time, she makes the knowledge of the world interesting and exciting. With her, a person also gains a certain point of support, an important point of reference for all the values ​​of life. Love for everything that turns green, breathes, makes sounds, sparkles with colors - and there is love that brings a person closer to happiness.

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No matter how interesting the child's home and school life may be, if he does not read precious books - he is deprived. Such losses are irreplaceable. Adults can read a book today or in a year - the difference is small. In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day there are discoveries. And the acuity of perception in the days of childhood is such that early impressions can then affect the whole life.

Childhood impressions are the most vivid and lasting impressions. This is the foundation of the future spiritual life, the golden fund. Seeds are sown in childhood. Not everyone will sprout, not everyone will blossom. But the biography of the human soul is a gradual germination of seeds sown in childhood.

Subsequent life is complex and varied. It consists of millions of actions that are determined by many character traits and, in turn, shape this character. But if you trace and find the connection between phenomena, it will become obvious that every trait of an adult's character, every quality of his soul and, perhaps, even every deed of his were sown in childhood, had since then their embryo, their own seed.

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We often talk about the difficulties associated with the upbringing of a person who is starting life. And the biggest problem is the weakening of family ties, a decrease in the importance of the family in raising a child. And if in the early years nothing solid in the moral sense was laid in a person by the family, then then society will have a lot of trouble with this citizen.

The other extreme is overprotective parenting of the child. This is also a consequence of the weakening of the family principle. Parents did not give their child warmth and, feeling this guilt, they strive in the future to pay their inner spiritual debt with belated petty care and material benefits.

The world is changing, becoming different. But if the parents could not establish internal contact with the child, shifting the main concerns onto the grandparents, or public organizations, then one should not be surprised that another child so early acquires cynicism and disbelief in unselfishness that his life becomes impoverished, becomes flat and dry.

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One person was told that an acquaintance of his spoke of him in unflattering terms. "Are you kidding! The man exclaimed. “I didn’t do anything good for him…”. Here it is, the algorithm of black ingratitude, when good is answered with evil. In life, one must assume, this man has met more than once with people who have confused the landmarks on the compass of morality.

Morality is a guide to life. And if you deviate from the road, you may well wander into a windbreak, a thorny bush, or even drown altogether. That is, if you behave ungratefully towards others, then people have the right to behave towards you in the same way.

How to relate to this phenomenon? Be philosophical. Do good and know that it will surely pay off. I assure you that you yourself will enjoy doing good. That is, you will be happy. And this is the goal in life - to live it happily. And remember: elevated natures do good.

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Times are changing, new generations are coming, for which, it would seem, everything is not the same as the previous ones: tastes, interests, life goals. But intractable personal questions meanwhile for some reason remain unchanged. Today's adolescents, like their parents at one time, are worried about the same thing: how to attract the attention of someone you like? How to distinguish infatuation from true love?

The youthful dream of love is, no matter what they say, first of all, the dream of mutual understanding. After all, a teenager definitely needs to realize himself in communication with peers: to show his ability to sympathy, empathy. And just show your qualities and abilities in front of those who are disposed towards him kindly, who are ready to understand him.

Love is the unconditional and unlimited trust of two to each other. Trust, which reveals in everyone all the best that a person is only capable of. True love certainly includes friendships, but is not limited to them. It is always more than friendship, because only in love do we recognize for another person the full right to everything that makes up our world.

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Self-doubt is an ancient problem, but it attracted the attention of doctors, educators and psychologists relatively recently - in the middle of the 20th century. It was then that it became clear: the ever-increasing self-doubt can cause a lot of trouble - up to serious illnesses, not to mention everyday problems.

And the problems are psychological, because self-doubt can serve as a basis for constant dependence on someone else's opinion. Imagine how uncomfortable it is to feel dependent: other people's assessments seem to him more important and significant than his own. He sees each of his actions primarily through the eyes of those around him. And most importantly, he wants approval from everyone: from loved ones to passengers on the tram. Such a person becomes indecisive and cannot correctly assess the life situation.

How to overcome self-doubt? Some scientists are looking for an answer to this question based on physiological processes, others are based on psychology. One thing is clear: to overcome self-doubt is possible only if a person is able to correctly set goals, correlate them with external circumstances and positively assess their results.

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The essence of the concept of "power" lies in the ability of one person to force another to do what he would not voluntarily do. The tree, if not disturbed, grows straight up. But even if it does not manage to grow evenly, it, bending under the obstacles, tries to get out from under them and again reach up. So is the person. Sooner or later, he will want to get out of obedience. Submissive people usually suffer, but if once they managed to throw off their "burden", then they often turn into tyrants themselves.

If you command everyone and everywhere, then loneliness awaits a person as the finale of life. Such a person will always be alone. After all, he does not know how to communicate on equal terms. Inside he has a dull, sometimes unconscious anxiety. And he feels calm only when people follow his orders unquestioningly. The commanders themselves are unhappy people, and they breed unhappiness, even if they achieve good results.

Commanding and controlling people are two different things. The one who manages knows how to take responsibility for actions. This approach preserves the mental health of both the person himself and those around him.

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Can one comprehensive formula define what art is? Of course not. Art is charm and witchcraft, it is the revelation of the funny and the tragic, it is morality and immorality, it is the knowledge of the world and man. In art, a person creates his image as something separate, capable of existing outside himself and remaining after him as his trace in history.

The moment a person turns to creativity is perhaps the greatest discovery that has no equal in history. After all, through art, each individual person and nation as a whole comprehends their own characteristics, their life, their place in the world. Art allows you to get in touch with individuals, peoples and civilizations that are distant from us in time and space. And not just to touch, but to recognize and understand them, because the language of art is universal, and it is this language that makes it possible for humanity to feel itself as a whole.

That is why, since ancient times, an attitude to art has been formed not as entertainment or fun, but as a mighty force capable of not only capturing the image of time and man, but also transmitting it to descendants.

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The war was a cruel and rude school for children. They were sitting not at their desks, but in frozen trenches, and in front of them were not notebooks, but armor-piercing shells and machine-gun belts. They did not yet have life experience and therefore did not understand the true value of simple things that you do not attach importance to in everyday peaceful life.

The war filled their emotional experience to the limit. They could cry not from grief, but from hatred, they could childishly rejoice at the spring crane wedge, as they never rejoiced, either before the war or after the war, with tenderness to keep in their souls the warmth of their departed youth. Those who survived returned from the war, having managed to preserve in themselves a pure, radiant peace, faith and hope, becoming more implacable to injustice, kinder to good.

Although the war has already become history, the memory of it must live on, because the main participants in history are People and Time. Not to forget Time - it means not to forget People, not to forget People - it means not to forget Time. Text 12

There is simply no universal recipe for how to choose the correct, the only correct path in life intended only for you, and there simply cannot be. And the final choice always remains with the person. We make this choice already in childhood, when we choose friends, learn to build relationships with peers, and play.

But most of the most important decisions that determine the path of life, we still make in our youth. According to scientists, the second half of the second decade of life is the most crucial period. It is at this time that a person, as a rule, chooses the most important thing for life: a close friend, a circle of basic interests, a profession.

It is clear that such a choice is a responsible business. It cannot be dismissed, it cannot be postponed for later. Do not hope that the mistake can be corrected later: it will be in time, the whole life is ahead! Something, of course, can be corrected, changed, but not all. And the wrong decisions will not remain without consequences. After all, success comes to those who know what they want, decisively make a choice, believe in themselves and stubbornly achieve their goals.

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There are values ​​that change, are lost, disappear, becoming the dust of time. But no matter how society changes, all the same, for millennia, there remain eternal values ​​that are of great importance for people of all generations and cultures. One of such eternal values, of course, is friendship.

People very often use this word in their language, they call certain people their friends, but few can articulate what friendship is, who is a real friend, what he should be. All definitions of friendship are similar in one thing: friendship is a relationship based on mutual openness of people, complete trust and constant readiness to come to each other's aid at any time.

The main thing is that friends have the same life values, similar spiritual guidelines. Then they will be able to be friends, even if their attitudes to certain phenomena of life are different. And then real friendship is not affected by time and distance. People can talk to each other only occasionally, be apart for many years, but still remain very close friends. This consistency is the hallmark of true friendship.

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The word "mom" is a special word. It is born with us, accompanies us in the years of growing up and maturity. It is babbled by a child in the cradle, a young man and a deep old man pronounces it with love. In the language of any nation there is this word, and in all languages ​​it sounds tender and affectionate.

The place of the mother in our life is special, exclusive. We always bring our joy and pain to her and find understanding. Mother's love inspires, gives strength, inspires to exploits. In difficult life circumstances, we always remember our mother, and at this moment we only need her. A man calls his mother and believes that wherever she is, she hears him, is compassionate and hurries to help. The word "mother" becomes equivalent to the word life.

How many artists, composers, poets have created wonderful works about the mother. "Take care of mothers!" - the famous poet Rasul Gamzatov proclaimed in his poem. Unfortunately, we realize too late that we forgot to say a lot of good and kind words to our mothers. To prevent this from happening, you need to give them joy every day and hour, because grateful children are the best gift for them.

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In a society where the idea of ​​individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten about such things as mutual assistance and mutual assistance. And human society has just been formed, and continues to exist thanks to a common cause and help to the weak, thanks to the fact that each of us complements each other. And how can we now support the absolutely opposite point of view, which says that there are no interests other than our own?

And it's not even that it sounds selfish. The fact is that it is in this issue that personal and public interests are intertwined. Do you see how much deeper this is than it seems? After all, individualism destroys society, and, therefore, weakens us. And only mutual support can preserve and strengthen society.

And what is more in our interests - mutual assistance or primitive egoism? There can be no two opinions here. We must understand each other if we want to live well together and not depend on anyone. And, helping people in difficult times, you don't have to wait for gratitude, you just need to help, not looking for benefits for yourself. Then they will certainly help you in return.

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I remember hundreds of boys' answers to the question: what kind of person do you want to become. Strong, brave, courageous, intelligent, resourceful, fearless ... And no one said - kind. Why is kindness not put on a par with such valor as courage and bravery? But without kindness, genuine warmth of heart, the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.

And experience confirms that good feelings should be rooted in childhood. If they are not brought up in childhood, you will never bring them up, because they are assimilated simultaneously with the knowledge of the first and most important truths, the main of which is the value of life, someone else's, your own, life of the animal world and plants. Humanity, kindness, benevolence are born in excitement, joy and sorrow.

Good feelings, emotional culture is the focus of humanity. Today, when there is enough evil in the world, we should be more tolerant, attentive and kind in relation to each other, in relation to the surrounding living world and to perform the most daring deeds in the name of good. Following the path of good is the most acceptable and only path for a person. He is tested, he is faithful, he is useful both to a person alone and to society as a whole.

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In childhood, a person is happy, as they say now, by default. By nature, a child is a creature instinctively predisposed to happiness. No matter how difficult and even tragic his life may be, he still rejoices and constantly finds new and new reasons for this. Perhaps because there is nothing to compare life with yet. He still does not suspect that it could be somehow different, but most likely, all the same, because the soul has not yet had time to be covered with a shell and is more open to goodness and hope than the soul of an adult.

And with age, everything seems to be turned inside out. No matter how calmly and safely life develops, we will not rest until we find in it some kind of splinter, awkwardness, malfunction, cling to it and feel deeply unhappy. And we believe in the drama we have invented, we sincerely complain about it to our friends, spend time, health, and mental strength on experiences.

It is only when a truly real tragedy occurs that we understand how absurd the invented suffering is and how trivial the reason for it is. Then we grab our heads and say to ourselves: “Lord, what a fool I was when I suffered because of some nonsense. No, to live in your own pleasure and enjoy every minute. "

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I was betrayed by my own person, my best friend betrayed me. Unfortunately, we hear such statements quite often. Most often, those in whom we have invested our souls betray. The pattern is as follows: the more beneficence, the stronger the betrayal. In such situations, I recall the statement of Victor Hugo: "I am indifferent to the knife strikes of the enemy, but the pin prick of a friend agonizes me."

Many endure mockery of themselves, hoping that the traitor will wake up a conscience. But something that does not exist cannot wake up. Conscience is a function of the soul, and a traitor does not have it. A traitor usually explains his act by the interests of the case, but in order to justify the first betrayal, he commits the second, third, and so on ad infinitum.

Betrayal destroys a person's dignity with precision, and as a result, traitors behave in different ways. Someone defends their behavior, trying to justify their actions, someone falls into a feeling of guilt and fear of impending retaliation, and someone just tries to forget everything, without burdening themselves with either emotions or reflections. In any case, the life of a traitor becomes empty, worthless and meaningless.

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The Great Patriotic War is going farther and farther into the past, but the memory of it is alive in the hearts and souls of people. Indeed, how can one forget our unparalleled feat, our irreplaceable sacrifices made in the name of victory over the most insidious and cruel enemy - German fascism.

Four years of war cannot be compared with any other years of our history in terms of the severity of the experience. But the memory of a person weakens over time, from it, bit by bit, the secondary leaves first: less significant and vivid; and then the essential. In addition, there are fewer and fewer veterans, those who went through the war and could talk about it. If the self-sacrifice and resilience of the people are not reflected in documents and works of art, then the bitter experience of past years will be forgotten. And this must not be allowed!

The theme of the Great Patriotic War has been feeding literature and art for decades. Many wonderful films have been shot about the life and heroism of a person in the war, wonderful works of literature have been created. And here there is no intentionality, there is pain that does not leave the soul of the people, who lost millions during the war years. human lives... But the most important thing in a conversation on this topic is the preservation of measure and tact in relation to the truth of the war, to its participants, the living, but mainly the dead.

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To appreciate kindness and understand its meaning, you must certainly experience it yourself. One must perceive the ray of someone else's kindness and live in it. One must feel how a ray of this kindness takes possession of the heart, word and deeds of all life. Kindness comes not out of duty, not out of duty, but as a gift.

Someone else's kindness is a premonition of something more, which is not even immediately believed in. This is the warmth from which the heart warms up and comes in response. A person who has once experienced kindness cannot but respond sooner or later, confidently or uncertainly, with his kindness.

It is a great happiness to feel the fire of kindness in your heart and give it free rein in life. At this moment, at these hours, a person finds his best in himself, hears the singing of his heart. The “I” and “mine” are forgotten, the alien disappears, because it becomes “mine” and “me”. And there is no room for enmity and hatred in the soul. (138 words)

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If you take away the ability to dream from a person, then one of the most powerful incentives that give rise to culture, art, science and the desire to fight for a wonderful future will disappear. But dreams should not be divorced from reality. They should foresee the future and create in us the feeling that we already live in this future and ourselves are becoming different.

The dream is needed not only for children, but also for adults. It evokes excitement, a source of high feelings. She does not let us calm down and always shows new sparkling distances, a different life. It disturbs and makes you passionately desire this life. This is its value.

Only a hypocrite can say that it is necessary to calm down on what has been achieved and stop. To fight for the future, you need to be able to dream passionately, deeply and effectively. You need to cultivate in yourself a continuous desire for meaningful and beautiful things. (123 words)

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What is the use of reading? Is it true that reading is helpful? Why do so many keep reading? After all, not only to relax or take free time.

The benefits of reading books are obvious. Books broaden a person's horizons, enrich his inner world, make him smarter. It is also important to read books because it increases a person's vocabulary, develops clear and clear thinking. Everyone can be convinced of this by their own example. One has only to thoughtfully read some classical work, and you will notice how it has become easier with the help of speech to express your own thoughts, to choose the right words. The reading person speaks more competently. Reading serious works makes us constantly think, it develops logical thinking. Don't believe me? And you read something from the classics of the detective genre, for example, "The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes" by Conan Doyle. After reading, you will think faster, your mind will become sharper and you will understand that reading is useful and beneficial.

It is also useful to read books because they have a significant impact on our moral guidelines and on our spiritual development. After reading this or that classic work, people sometimes begin to change for the better. (based on materials from the Internet) 168 words

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What is a good book? First, the book must be fun and interesting. After reading the first pages, you shouldn't feel like putting it on the shelf. We are talking about books that make us think, express emotions. Second, the book must be written in rich language. Thirdly, it must carry a deep meaning. Original and unusual ideas also make the book useful.

You should not get carried away with any one genre or kind of literature. So, a hobby only for the fantasy genre can turn young readers into goblins and elves who know the way to Avalon much better than the way home.

If you have not read books from the school curriculum or read them in abridged form, you should start with them. Classical literature is an obligatory base for every person. Great works have disappointment and joy, love and pain, tragedy and comedy. They will teach you to be empathetic, emotional, help you see the beauty of the world, understand yourself and people. Naturally, read popular science literature. It will broaden your horizons, form knowledge about the world, help you determine your path in life, and give you the opportunity for self-development. We hope that these reasons for reading will make the book your best friend. (based on materials from the Internet) 174 words

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Having a family and children is as necessary and natural as it is necessary and natural to work. The family has long been held together by the moral authority of the father, who has traditionally been considered the head. The children respected and obeyed their father. He was engaged in agricultural work, construction, logging and firewood. All the burden of peasant labor was shared by his adult sons.

Household management was in the hands of the wife and mother. She was in charge of everything in the house: she looked after the livestock, took care of food, clothing. She did not do all these works alone: ​​even the children, having barely learned to walk, little by little, along with the game, began to do something useful.

Kindness, tolerance, mutual forgiveness of grievances grew into mutual love in a good family. Grumpiness and quarrelsomeness were considered a punishment of fate and aroused pity for their carriers. You had to be able to give in, forget the insult, respond kindly or keep silent. Love and harmony between relatives gave rise to love outside the home. It is difficult to expect respect for other people from a person who does not love and respect his relatives. (according to Belov) 148 words

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The word "culture" is multifaceted. What is true culture in the first place? She carries the concept of spirituality, light, knowledge and true beauty. And if people understand this, then our country will become prosperous. And that is why it would be very good if every city and village had its own center of culture, a center of creativity not only for children, but also for people of all ages.

True culture is always aimed at upbringing and education. And at the head of such centers should be people who understand well what a real culture is, what it is composed of, what is its meaning.

The key note of culture can be such concepts as peace, truth, beauty. It would be good if people who were honest and disinterested, selflessly devoted to their work, respecting each other, were engaged in culture. Culture is a huge ocean of creativity, there is enough space for everyone, there is something for everyone. And if we all together begin to participate in its creation and strengthening, then our entire planet will become more beautiful. (by M. Tsvetaeva) 152 words

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What does it mean to be a cultured person? A cultured person can be considered an educated, well-mannered, responsible person. He respects himself and those around him. A cultured person is also distinguished by creative work, striving for the high, the ability to be grateful, love for nature and homeland, compassion and sympathy for others, goodwill.

A cultured person will never lie. He will maintain composure and dignity in all situations of life. He has a clearly defined goal and achieves it. The main goal of such a person is to increase the good in the world, to strive to ensure that all people are happy. Genuine humanity is the ideal of a cultured person.

In our time, people devote too little time to culture. And many do not even think about it throughout their lives. It is good if a person has a process of familiarizing himself with culture from childhood. The child gets acquainted with the traditions passed from generation to generation, absorbs the positive experience of the family and his homeland, learns cultural values. As an adult, he can be useful to society. (based on materials from the Internet) 143 words

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Some people believe that a person grows up at a certain age, for example, at the age of 18, when he becomes an adult. But there are people who remain children at an older age. What does it mean to be an adult?

Adulthood means independence, that is, the ability to do without anyone's help or guardianship. A person with this quality does everything himself and does not expect support from others. He understands that he must overcome his difficulties himself. Of course, there are situations when a person cannot cope alone. Then you have to ask for help from friends, relatives and acquaintances. But in general, it is not typical for an independent, adult person to rely on others.

There is such an expression: the hand should expect help only from the shoulder. An independent person knows how to be responsible for himself, his deeds and actions. He plans his life and evaluates himself, not relying on someone else's opinion. He understands that much in life depends on himself. Being an adult means taking responsibility for someone else. But for this you also need to become independent, to be able to make decisions. Adulthood does not depend on age, but on life experience, on the desire to live life without nannies.

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What is friendship? How do you become friends? You will meet friends most often among people with a common destiny, one profession, common thoughts. And yet, one cannot say with confidence that such a community defines friendship, because people of different professions can make friends.

Can two opposite characters be friends? Of course! Friendship is equality and similarity. But at the same time, friendship is inequality and dissimilarity. Friends always need each other, but friends do not always get equal benefits from friendship. One is friends and gives his experience, the other in friendship is enriched with experience. One, helping a weak, inexperienced, young friend, learns his strength, maturity. Another, weak, recognizes in a friend his ideal, strength, experience, maturity. So, one in friendship gives, the other rejoices in gifts. Friendship is based on similarities, but manifests itself in differences, contradictions, and dissimilarities.

A friend is the one who asserts your rightness, talent, merit. A friend is the one who lovingly exposes you in your weaknesses, shortcomings and vices.

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Friendship is not something external. Friendship lies deep in the heart. You cannot force yourself to be a friend to someone or force someone to be your friend.

A lot is needed for friendship, above all mutual respect. What does it mean to respect your friend? It means to reckon with his opinion and recognize him. positive features... Respect is shown in words and deeds. A respected friend feels valued as a person, respected for his dignity, and not only out of a sense of duty is helped. In friendship, trust is important, that is, confidence in the sincerity of a friend, that he will not betray or deceive. Of course, a friend can make mistakes. But we are all imperfect. These are the two main and main conditions for friendship. In addition, common moral values ​​are important for friendship, for example. People who have different views of what is good and what is evil will find it difficult to be friends. The reason is simple: will we be able to show our friend deep respect and, possibly, trust if we see that he does things that are unacceptable, in our opinion, and considers it the norm. Strengthen friendships and common interests or hobbies. However, for a friendship that has existed for a long time and has been tested by time, this does not matter.

Friendly feelings do not depend on age. They can be very powerful and bring a lot of experiences to a person. But life is unthinkable without friendship.

In order to appreciate kindness and understand its meaning, one must certainly experience it oneself: one must perceive the ray of someone else's kindness and live in it, one must feel how the ray of this kindness takes possession of the heart, word and deeds of all life. Kindness comes not out of duty, not out of duty, but as a gift.

Someone else's kindness is a premonition of something more, which is not even immediately believed in; it is the warmth from which the heart is warmed and comes in response. A person who has once experienced kindness cannot but respond (sooner or later, confidently or uncertainly) with his kindness.

It is a great happiness to feel the fire of kindness in your heart and give it the will to live. At this moment, at these hours, a person finds his best in himself, hears the singing of his heart. The “I” and “mine” are forgotten, the “alien” disappears, because it becomes “mine” and “me”. And there is no room for enmity and hatred in the soul.

If you take away the ability to dream from a person, then one of the most powerful incentives that give rise to culture, art, science and the desire to fight for a wonderful future will disappear. But dreams should not be divorced from reality. They should foresee the future and create in us the feeling that we already live in this future and ourselves are becoming different.

The dream is needed not only for children, but also for adults. It evokes excitement, a source of high feelings. She does not let us calm down and always shows new sparkling distances, a different life. It disturbs and makes you passionately desire this life. This is its value.

Only a hypocrite can say that it is necessary to calm down on what has been achieved and stop. To fight for the future, you need to be able to dream passionately, deeply and effectively. You need to cultivate in yourself a continuous desire for meaningful and beautiful things.

What is the use of reading? Is it true that reading is helpful? Why do so many keep reading? After all, not only to relax or take free time.

The benefits of reading books are obvious. Books broaden a person's horizons, enrich his inner world, make him smarter. It is also important to read books because it increases a person's vocabulary, develops clear and clear thinking. Everyone can be convinced of this by their own example. One has only to thoughtfully read some classical work, and you will notice how it has become easier with the help of speech to express your own thoughts, to choose the right words. The reading person speaks more competently. Reading serious works makes us constantly think, it develops logical thinking. Don't believe me? And you read something from the classics of the detective genre, for example, "The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes" by Conan Doyle. After reading, you will think faster, your mind will become sharper and you will understand that reading is useful and beneficial.

It is also useful to read books because they have a significant impact on our moral guidelines and on our spiritual development. After reading this or that classic work, people sometimes begin to change for the better.

What is a good book? First, the book must be fun and interesting. After reading the first pages, you shouldn't feel like putting it on the shelf. We are talking about books that make us think, express emotions. Second, the book must be written in rich language. Thirdly, it must carry a deep meaning. Original and unusual ideas also make the book useful.
You should not get carried away with any one genre or kind of literature. So, a hobby only for the fantasy genre can turn young readers into goblins and elves who know the way to Avalon much better than the way home. If you have not read books from the school curriculum or read them in abridged form, you should start with them. Classical literature is an obligatory base for every person. Great works have disappointment and joy, love and pain, tragedy and comedy. They will teach you to be empathetic, emotional, help you see the beauty of the world, understand yourself and people. Naturally, read popular science literature. It will broaden your horizons, form knowledge about the world, help you determine your path in life, and give you the opportunity for self-development.
We hope that these reasons for reading will make the book your best friend.

One person was told that an acquaintance of his spoke of him in unflattering terms. "Are you kidding! the man exclaimed. - I didn’t do anything good for him ... ”. Here it is, the algorithm of black ingratitude, when good is answered with evil. In life, one must assume, this man has met more than once with people who have confused the landmarks on the compass of morality.
Morality is a guide to life. And if you deviate from the road, you may well wander into a windbreak, a thorny bush, or even drown altogether. That is, if you behave ungratefully towards others, then people have the right to behave towards you in the same way.
How to relate to this phenomenon? Be philosophical. Do good and know that it will surely pay off. I assure you that you yourself will enjoy doing good. That is, you will be happy. And this is the goal in life - to live it happily. And remember: elevated natures do good.

There are values ​​that change, are lost, disappear, becoming the dust of time. But no matter how society changes, all the same, for millennia, there remain eternal values ​​that are of great importance for people of all generations and cultures. One of such eternal values, of course, is friendship.
People very often use this word in their language, they call certain people their friends, but few can articulate what friendship is, who is a real friend, what he should be. All definitions of friendship are similar in one thing: friendship is a relationship based on mutual openness of people, complete trust and constant readiness to come to each other's aid at any time.
The main thing is that friends have the same life values, similar spiritual guidelines. Then they will be able to be friends, even if their attitudes to certain phenomena of life are different. And then real friendship is not affected by time and distance. People can talk to each other only occasionally, be apart for many years, but still remain very close friends. This consistency is the hallmark of true friendship.

The war was a cruel and rude school for children. They were sitting not at their desks, but in frozen trenches, and in front of them were not notebooks, but armor-piercing shells and machine-gun belts. They did not yet have life experience and therefore did not understand the true value of simple things that you do not attach importance to in everyday peaceful life.
The war filled their emotional experience to the limit. They could cry not from grief, but from hatred, they could childishly rejoice at the spring crane wedge, as they never rejoiced, either before the war or after the war, with tenderness to keep in their souls the warmth of their departed youth. Those who survived returned from the war, having managed to preserve in themselves a pure, radiant peace, faith and hope, becoming more implacable to injustice, kinder to good.
Although the war has already become history, the memory of it must live on, because the main participants in history are People and Time. Not to forget Time - it means not to forget People, not to forget People - it means not to forget Time.

The word "mom" is a special word. It is born with us, accompanies us in the years of growing up and maturity. It is babbled by a child in the cradle, a young man and a deep old man pronounces it with love. In the language of any nation there is this word, and in all languages ​​it sounds tender and affectionate.
The place of the mother in our life is special, exclusive. We always bring our joy and pain to her and find understanding. Mother's love inspires, gives strength, inspires to exploits. In difficult life circumstances, we always remember our mother, and at this moment we only need her. A man calls his mother and believes that wherever she is, she hears him, is compassionate and hurries to help. The word "mother" becomes equivalent to the word life.
How many artists, composers, poets have created wonderful works about the mother. "Take care of mothers!" - the famous poet Rasul Gamzatov proclaimed in his poem. Unfortunately, we realize too late that we forgot to say a lot of good and kind words to our mothers. To prevent this from happening, you need to give them joy every day and hour, because grateful children are the best gift for them.

Each of us once had our favorite toys. Perhaps each person has bright and tender memories associated with them, which he carefully keeps in his heart. A favorite toy is the most vivid childhood memory of every person.
In the age of computer technology, real toys no longer attract such attention as virtual ones, but despite all the emerging new items such as telephones and computer equipment, the toy still remains unique and irreplaceable in its own way. After all, nothing teaches and develops a child like a toy with which he can communicate, play and even gain life experience.
The toy is the key to the consciousness of a little person. To develop and strengthen positive qualities in him, to make him mentally healthy, to instill love for others, to form a correct understanding of good and evil, it is necessary to carefully choose a toy, remembering that it will bring into his world not only its image, but also behavior, attributes, as well as a system of values ​​and worldviews. It is impossible to raise a full-fledged person with the help of negative toys.

Times are changing, new generations are coming, for which, it would seem, everything is not the same as the previous ones: tastes, interests, life goals. But intractable personal questions meanwhile for some reason remain unchanged. Today's adolescents, like their parents at one time, are worried about the same thing: how to attract the attention of someone you like? How to distinguish infatuation from true love?
A youthful dream of love is, no matter what they say, first of all, a dream of mutual understanding. After all, a teenager definitely needs to realize himself in communication with peers: to show his ability to sympathy, empathy. And just show your qualities and abilities in front of those who are disposed towards him kindly, who are ready to understand him.
Love is the unconditional and unlimited trust of two to each other. Trust, which reveals in everyone all the best that a person is only capable of. True love certainly includes friendships, but is not limited to them. It is always more than friendship, because only in love do we recognize for another person the full right to everything that makes up our world.

The essence of the concept of "power" lies in the ability of one person to force another to do what he would not voluntarily do. The tree, if not disturbed, grows straight up. But even if it does not manage to grow evenly, it, bending under the obstacles, tries to get out from under them and again reach up. So is the person. Sooner or later, he will want to get out of obedience. Submissive people usually suffer, but if once they managed to throw off their "burden", then they often turn into tyrants themselves.
If you command everyone and everywhere, then loneliness awaits a person as the finale of life. Such a person will always be alone. After all, he does not know how to communicate on equal terms. Inside he has a dull, sometimes unconscious anxiety. And he feels calm only when people follow his orders unquestioningly. The commanders themselves are unhappy people, and they breed unhappiness, even if they achieve good results.
Commanding and controlling people are two different things. The one who manages knows how to take responsibility for actions. This approach preserves the mental health of both the person himself and those around him.

I was betrayed by my own person, my best friend betrayed me. Unfortunately, we hear such statements quite often. Most often, those in whom we have invested our souls betray. The pattern is as follows: the more beneficence, the stronger the betrayal. In such situations, I recall the statement of Victor Hugo: "I am indifferent to the knife strikes of the enemy, but the pin prick of a friend agonizes me."
Many endure mockery of themselves, hoping that the traitor will wake up a conscience. But something that does not exist cannot wake up. Conscience is a function of the soul, and a traitor does not have it. A traitor usually explains his act by the interests of the case, but in order to justify the first betrayal, he commits the second, third, and so on ad infinitum.
Betrayal destroys a person's dignity with precision, and as a result, traitors behave in different ways. Someone defends their behavior, trying to justify their actions, someone falls into a feeling of guilt and fear of impending retaliation, and someone just tries to forget everything, without burdening themselves with either emotions or reflections. In any case, the life of a traitor becomes empty, worthless and meaningless.

No matter how interesting the child's home and school life may be, if he does not read precious books - he is deprived. Such losses are irreplaceable. Adults can read a book today or in a year - the difference is small. In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day there are discoveries. And the acuity of perception in the days of childhood is such that early impressions can then affect the whole life.
Childhood impressions are the most vivid and lasting impressions. This is the foundation of the future spiritual life, the golden fund. Seeds are sown in childhood. Not everyone will sprout, not everyone will blossom. But the biography of the human soul is a gradual germination of seeds sown in childhood.
Subsequent life is complex and varied. It consists of millions of actions that are determined by many character traits and, in turn, shape this character. But if you trace and find the connection between phenomena, it will become obvious that every trait of an adult's character, every quality of his soul and, perhaps, even every deed of his were sown in childhood, had since then their embryo, their own seed.

Friendship always faces challenges. The main one today is a changed way of life, a change in the image and routine of life. With the acceleration of the pace of life, with the desire to quickly realize oneself, an understanding of the importance of time came. Previously, it was impossible to imagine, for example, that the hosts were burdened by guests, now that time is the price of achieving their goal, relaxation and hospitality are no longer significant. Frequent meetings and leisurely conversations are no longer indispensable companions of friendship. Due to the fact that we live in different rhythms, meetings of friends are becoming rare.

But here's the paradox: earlier the social circle was limited, today a person is oppressed by the redundancy of forced communication. This is especially noticeable in cities with a high population density. We strive to isolate ourselves, choose a secluded place in the subway, in a cafe, in the reading room of the library.

There is simply no universal recipe for how to choose the correct, the only correct path in life intended only for you, and there simply cannot be. And the final choice always remains with the person. We make this choice already in childhood, when we choose friends, learn to build relationships with peers, and play.

But most of the most important decisions that determine the path of life, we still make in our youth. According to scientists, the second half of the second decade of life is the most crucial period. It is at this time that a person, as a rule, chooses the most important thing for life: a close friend, a circle of basic interests, a profession.

It is clear that such a choice is a responsible business. It cannot be dismissed, it cannot be postponed for later. Do not hope that the mistake can be corrected later: it will be in time, the whole life is ahead! Something, of course, can be corrected, changed, but not all. And the wrong decisions will not remain without consequences. After all, success comes to those who know what they want, decisively make a choice, believe in themselves and stubbornly achieve their goals.

Self-doubt is an ancient problem, but it attracted the attention of doctors, educators and psychologists relatively recently - in the middle of the 20th century. It was then that it became clear: the ever-increasing self-doubt can cause a lot of trouble - up to serious illness, not to mention everyday problems.

And the problems are psychological, because self-doubt can serve as a basis for constant dependence on someone else's opinion. Imagine how uncomfortable it is to feel dependent: other people's assessments seem to him more important and significant than his own. He sees each of his actions primarily through the eyes of those around him. And most importantly, he wants approval from everyone: from loved ones to passengers on the tram. Such a person becomes indecisive and cannot correctly assess the life situation.

How to overcome self-doubt? Some scientists are looking for an answer to this question based on physiological processes, others are based on psychology. One thing is clear: to overcome self-doubt is possible only if a person is able to correctly set goals, correlate them with external circumstances and positively assess their results.

When I was ten years old, someone's caring hand planted a volume of "Animal Heroes" on me. I consider it my "alarm clock". I know from other people that for them the "alarm clock" for the sense of nature was a month spent in the summer in the village, a walk in the forest with a man who "opened his eyes to everything," the first trip with a backpack. There is no need to enumerate everything that can awaken in human childhood interest and reverence for the great mystery of life.

Growing up, a person must comprehend with his mind how difficult everything in the living world is intertwined, interconnected, how this world is strong and at the same time vulnerable, how everything in our life depends on the wealth of the earth, on the health of living nature. This school must be there.

And yet, at the beginning of everything, there is Love. Awakened in time, she makes the knowledge of the world interesting and exciting. With her, a person also gains a certain point of support, an important point of reference for all the values ​​of life. Love for everything that turns green, breathes, makes sounds, sparkles with colors - and there is love that brings a person closer to happiness.

Can one comprehensive formula define what art is? Of course not. Art is charm and witchcraft, it is the revelation of the funny and the tragic, it is morality and immorality, it is the knowledge of the world and man. In art, a person creates his image as something separate, capable of existing outside himself and remaining after him as his trace in history.

The moment a person turns to creativity is perhaps the greatest discovery that has no equal in history. After all, through art, each individual person and nation as a whole comprehends their own characteristics, their life, their place in the world. Art allows you to get in touch with individuals, peoples and civilizations that are distant from us in time and space. And not just to touch, but to recognize and understand them, because the language of art is universal, and it is this language that makes it possible for humanity to feel itself as a whole.

That is why, since ancient times, an attitude to art has been formed not as entertainment or fun, but as a mighty force capable of not only capturing the image of time and man, but also transmitting it to descendants.

In a society where the idea of ​​individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten about such things as mutual assistance and mutual assistance. And human society has just been formed, and continues to exist thanks to a common cause and help to the weak, thanks to the fact that each of us complements each other. And how can we now support the absolutely opposite point of view, which says that there are no interests other than our own?

And it's not even that it sounds selfish. The fact is that it is in this issue that personal and public interests are intertwined. Do you see how much deeper this is than it seems? After all, individualism destroys society, and, therefore, weakens us. And only mutual support can preserve and strengthen society.

And what is more in our interests - mutual assistance or primitive egoism? There can be no two opinions here. We must understand each other if we want to live well together and not depend on anyone. And, helping people in difficult times, you don't have to wait for gratitude, you just need to help, not looking for benefits for yourself. Then they will certainly help you in return.

I remember hundreds of boys' answers to the question: what kind of person do you want to become. Strong, brave, courageous, intelligent, resourceful, fearless ... And no one said - kind. Why is kindness not put on a par with such valor as courage and bravery? But without kindness, genuine warmth of heart, the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.

And experience confirms that good feelings should be rooted in childhood. If they are not brought up in childhood, you will never bring them up, because they are assimilated simultaneously with the knowledge of the first and most important truths, the main of which is the value of life, someone else's, your own, the life of the animal world and plants. Humanity, kindness, benevolence are born in excitement, joy and sorrow.

Good feelings, emotional culture is the focus of humanity. Today, when there is enough evil in the world, we should be more tolerant, attentive and kind in relation to each other, in relation to the surrounding living world and to commit the most daring deeds in the name of good. Following the path of good is the most acceptable and only path for a person. He is tested, he is faithful, he is useful both to a person alone and to society as a whole.

In childhood, a person is happy, as they say now, by default. By nature, a child is a creature instinctively predisposed to happiness. No matter how difficult and even tragic his life may be, he still rejoices and constantly finds new and new reasons for this. Perhaps because there is nothing to compare life with yet. He still does not suspect that it could be somehow different, but most likely, all the same, because the soul has not yet had time to be covered with a shell and is more open to goodness and hope than the soul of an adult.

And with age, everything seems to be turned inside out. No matter how calmly and safely life develops, we will not rest until we find in it some kind of splinter, awkwardness, malfunction, cling to it and feel deeply unhappy. And we believe in the drama we have invented, we sincerely complain about it to our friends, spend time, health, and mental strength on experiences.

It is only when a truly real tragedy occurs that we understand how absurd the invented suffering is and how trivial the reason for it is. Then we grab our heads and say to ourselves: “Lord, what a fool I was when I suffered because of some nonsense. No, to live in your own pleasure and enjoy every minute. "

Concise texts from the Russian language OBZ OGE-2016

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One person was told that an acquaintance of his spoke of him in unflattering terms. "Are you kidding! The man exclaimed. - I didn’t do anything good for him ... ”. Here it is, the algorithm of black ingratitude, when good is answered with evil. In life, one must assume, this man has met more than once with people who have confused the landmarks on the compass of morality.
Morality is a guide to life. And if you deviate from the road, you may well wander into a windbreak, a thorny bush, or even drown altogether. That is, if you behave ungratefully towards others, then people have the right to behave towards you in the same way.
How to relate to this phenomenon? Be philosophical. Do good and know that it will surely pay off. I assure you that you yourself will enjoy doing good. That is, you will be happy. And this is the goal in life - to live it happily. And remember: elevated natures do good.

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We often talk about the difficulties associated with the upbringing of a person who is starting life. And the biggest problem is the weakening of family ties, a decrease in the importance of the family in raising a child. And if in the early years nothing solid in the moral sense was laid in a person by the family, then then society will have a lot of trouble with this citizen.
The other extreme is overprotective parenting of the child. This is also a consequence of the weakening of the family principle. Parents did not give their child warmth and, feeling this guilt, they strive in the future to pay their inner spiritual debt with belated petty care and material benefits.
The world is changing, becoming different. But if the parents were unable to establish internal contact with the child, shifting the main concerns to grandparents or public organizations, then it should not be surprising that another child so early acquires cynicism and disbelief in selflessness that his life becomes impoverished, becomes flat and dry.

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There are values ​​that change, are lost, disappear, becoming the dust of time. But no matter how society changes, all the same, for millennia, there remain eternal values ​​that are of great importance for people of all generations and cultures. One of such eternal values, of course, is friendship.
People very often use this word in their language, they call certain people their friends, but few can articulate what friendship is, who is a real friend, what he should be. All definitions of friendship are similar in one thing: friendship is a relationship based on mutual openness of people, complete trust and constant readiness to come to each other's aid at any time.
The main thing is that friends have the same life values, similar spiritual guidelines. Then they will be able to be friends, even if their attitudes to certain phenomena of life are different. And then real friendship is not affected by time and distance. People can talk to each other only occasionally, be apart for many years, but still remain very close friends. This consistency is the hallmark of true friendship.

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The war was a cruel and rude school for children. They were sitting not at their desks, but in frozen trenches, and in front of them were not notebooks, but armor-piercing shells and machine-gun belts. They did not yet have life experience and therefore did not understand the true value of simple things that you do not attach importance to in everyday peaceful life.
The war filled their emotional experience to the limit. They could cry not from grief, but from hatred, they could childishly rejoice at the spring crane wedge, as they never rejoiced, either before the war or after the war, with tenderness to keep in their souls the warmth of their departed youth. Those who survived returned from the war, having managed to preserve in themselves a pure, radiant peace, faith and hope, becoming more implacable to injustice, kinder to good.
Although the war has already become history, the memory of it must live on, because the main participants in history are People and Time. Not to forget Time - it means not to forget People, not to forget People - it means not to forget Time.

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The word "mom" is a special word. It is born with us, accompanies us in the years of growing up and maturity. It is babbled by a child in the cradle, a young man and a deep old man pronounces it with love. In the language of any nation there is this word, and in all languages ​​it sounds tender and affectionate.
The place of the mother in our life is special, exclusive. We always bring our joy and pain to her and find understanding. Mother's love inspires, gives strength, inspires to exploits. In difficult life circumstances, we always remember our mother, and at this moment we only need her. A man calls his mother and believes that wherever she is, she hears him, is compassionate and hurries to help. The word "mother" becomes equivalent to the word life.
How many artists, composers, poets have created wonderful works about the mother. "Take care of mothers!" - the famous poet Rasul Gamzatov proclaimed in his poem. Unfortunately, we realize too late that we forgot to say a lot of good and kind words to our mothers. To prevent this from happening, you need to give them joy every day and hour, because grateful children are the best gift for them.

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Each of us once had our favorite toys. Perhaps each person has bright and tender memories associated with them, which he carefully keeps in his heart. A favorite toy is the most vivid childhood memory of every person.
In the age of computer technology, real toys no longer attract such attention as virtual ones, but despite all the emerging new items such as telephones and computer equipment, the toy still remains unique and irreplaceable in its own way. After all, nothing teaches and develops a child like a toy with which he can communicate, play and even gain life experience.
The toy is the key to the consciousness of a little person. To develop and strengthen positive qualities in him, to make him mentally healthy, to instill love for others, to form a correct understanding of good and evil, it is necessary to carefully choose a toy, remembering that it will bring into his world not only its image, but also behavior, attributes, as well as a system of values ​​and worldviews. It is impossible to raise a full-fledged person with the help of negative toys.

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Times are changing, new generations are coming, for which, it would seem, everything is not the same as the previous ones: tastes, interests, life goals. But intractable personal questions meanwhile for some reason remain unchanged. Today's adolescents, like their parents at one time, are worried about the same thing: how to attract the attention of someone you like? How to distinguish infatuation from true love?
A youthful dream of love is, no matter what they say, first of all, a dream of mutual understanding. After all, a teenager definitely needs to realize himself in communication with peers: to show his ability to sympathy, empathy. And just show your qualities and abilities in front of those who are disposed towards him kindly, who are ready to understand him.
Love is the unconditional and unlimited trust of two to each other. Trust, which reveals in everyone all the best that a person is only capable of. True love certainly includes friendships, but is not limited to them. It is always more than friendship, because only in love do we recognize for another person the full right to everything that makes up our world.

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The essence of the concept of "power" lies in the ability of one person to force another to do what he would not voluntarily do. The tree, if not disturbed, grows straight up. But even if it does not manage to grow evenly, it, bending under the obstacles, tries to get out from under them and again reach up. So is the person. Sooner or later, he will want to get out of obedience. Submissive people usually suffer, but if once they managed to throw off their "burden", then they often turn into tyrants themselves.
If you command everyone and everywhere, then loneliness awaits a person as the finale of life. Such a person will always be alone. After all, he does not know how to communicate on equal terms. Inside he has a dull, sometimes unconscious anxiety. And he feels calm only when people follow his orders unquestioningly. The commanders themselves are unhappy people, and they breed unhappiness, even if they achieve good results.
Commanding and controlling people are two different things. The one who manages knows how to take responsibility for actions. This approach preserves the mental health of both the person himself and those around him.

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I was betrayed by my own person, my best friend betrayed me. Unfortunately, we hear such statements quite often. Most often, those in whom we have invested our souls betray. The pattern is as follows: the more beneficence, the stronger the betrayal. In such situations, I recall the statement of Victor Hugo: "I am indifferent to the knife strikes of the enemy, but the pin prick of a friend agonizes me."
Many endure mockery of themselves, hoping that the traitor will wake up a conscience. But something that does not exist cannot wake up. Conscience is a function of the soul, and a traitor does not have it. A traitor usually explains his act by the interests of the case, but in order to justify the first betrayal, he commits the second, third, and so on ad infinitum.
Betrayal destroys a person's dignity with precision, and as a result, traitors behave in different ways. Someone defends their behavior, trying to justify their actions, someone falls into a feeling of guilt and fear of impending retaliation, and someone just tries to forget everything, without burdening themselves with either emotions or reflections. In any case, the life of a traitor becomes empty, worthless and meaningless.

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No matter how interesting the child's home and school life may be, if he does not read precious books - he is deprived. Such losses are irreplaceable. Adults can read a book today or in a year - the difference is small. In childhood, time is counted differently, here every day there are discoveries. And the acuity of perception in the days of childhood is such that early impressions can then affect the whole life.
Childhood impressions are the most vivid and lasting impressions. This is the foundation of the future spiritual life, the golden fund. Seeds are sown in childhood. Not everyone will sprout, not everyone will blossom. But the biography of the human soul is a gradual germination of seeds sown in childhood.
Subsequent life is complex and varied. It consists of millions of actions that are determined by many character traits and, in turn, shape this character. But if you trace and find the connection between phenomena, it will become obvious that every trait of an adult's character, every quality of his soul and, perhaps, even every deed of his were sown in childhood, had since then their embryo, their own seed.


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Friendship always faces challenges. The main one today is a changed way of life, a change in the image and routine of life. With the acceleration of the pace of life, with the desire to quickly realize oneself, an understanding of the importance of time came. Previously, it was impossible to imagine, for example, that the hosts were burdened by guests, now, when time is the price of achieving your goal, relaxation and hospitality are no longer significant. Frequent meetings and leisurely conversations are no longer indispensable companions of friendship. Due to the fact that we live in different rhythms, meetings of friends are becoming rare.

But here's the paradox: earlier the social circle was limited, today a person is oppressed by the redundancy of forced communication. This is especially noticeable in cities with a high population density. We strive to isolate ourselves, choose a secluded place in the subway, in a cafe, in the reading room of the library.

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There is simply no universal recipe for how to choose the correct, the only correct path in life intended only for you, and there simply cannot be. And the final choice always remains with the person. We make this choice already in childhood, when we choose friends, learn to build relationships with peers, and play.

But most of the most important decisions that determine the path of life, we still make in our youth. According to scientists, the second half of the second decade of life is the most crucial period. It is at this time that a person, as a rule, chooses the most important thing for life: a close friend, a circle of basic interests, a profession.

It is clear that such a choice is a responsible business. It cannot be dismissed, it cannot be postponed for later. Do not hope that the mistake can be corrected later: it will be in time, the whole life is ahead! Something, of course, can be corrected, changed, but not all. And the wrong decisions will not remain without consequences. After all, success comes to those who know what they want, decisively make a choice, believe in themselves and stubbornly achieve their goals.

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Self-doubt is an ancient problem, but it attracted the attention of doctors, educators and psychologists relatively recently - in the middle of the 20th century. It was then that it became clear: the ever-increasing self-doubt can cause a lot of trouble - up to serious illness, not to mention everyday problems.

And the problems are psychological, because self-doubt can serve as a basis for constant dependence on someone else's opinion. Imagine how uncomfortable it is to feel dependent: other people's assessments seem to him more important and significant than his own. He sees each of his actions primarily through the eyes of those around him. And most importantly, he wants approval from everyone: from loved ones to passengers on the tram. Such a person becomes indecisive and cannot correctly assess the life situation.

How to overcome self-doubt? Some scientists are looking for an answer to this question based on physiological processes, others are based on psychology. One thing is clear: to overcome self-doubt is possible only if a person is able to correctly set goals, correlate them with external circumstances and positively assess their results.

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When I was ten years old, someone's caring hand planted a volume of "Animal Heroes" on me. I consider it my "alarm clock". I know from other people that for them the "alarm clock" for the sense of nature was a month spent in the summer in the village, a walk in the forest with a man who "opened his eyes to everything," the first trip with a backpack. There is no need to enumerate everything that can awaken in human childhood interest and reverence for the great mystery of life.

Growing up, a person must comprehend with his mind how difficult everything in the living world is intertwined, interconnected, how this world is strong and at the same time vulnerable, how everything in our life depends on the wealth of the earth, on the health of living nature. This school must be there.

And yet, at the beginning of everything, there is Love. Awakened in time, she makes the knowledge of the world interesting and exciting. With her, a person also gains a certain point of support, an important point of reference for all the values ​​of life. Love for everything that turns green, breathes, makes sounds, sparkles with colors - and there is love that brings a person closer to happiness.

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Can one comprehensive formula define what art is? Of course not. Art is charm and witchcraft, it is the revelation of the funny and the tragic, it is morality and immorality, it is the knowledge of the world and man. In art, a person creates his image as something separate, capable of existing outside himself and remaining after him as his trace in history.

The moment a person turns to creativity is perhaps the greatest discovery that has no equal in history. After all, through art, each individual person and nation as a whole comprehends their own characteristics, their life, their place in the world. Art allows you to get in touch with individuals, peoples and civilizations that are distant from us in time and space. And not just to touch, but to recognize and understand them, because the language of art is universal, and it is this language that makes it possible for humanity to feel itself as a whole.

That is why, since ancient times, an attitude to art has been formed not as entertainment or fun, but as a mighty force capable of not only capturing the image of time and man, but also transmitting it to descendants.

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In a society where the idea of ​​individualism is cultivated, many have forgotten about such things as mutual assistance and mutual assistance. And human society has just been formed, and continues to exist thanks to a common cause and help to the weak, thanks to the fact that each of us complements each other. And how can we now support the absolutely opposite point of view, which says that there are no interests other than our own?

And it's not even that it sounds selfish. The fact is that it is in this issue that personal and public interests are intertwined. Do you see how much deeper this is than it seems? After all, individualism destroys society, and, therefore, weakens us. And only mutual support can preserve and strengthen society.

And what is more in our interests - mutual assistance or primitive egoism? There can be no two opinions here. We must understand each other if we want to live well together and not depend on anyone. And, helping people in difficult times, you don't have to wait for gratitude, you just need to help, not looking for benefits for yourself. Then they will certainly help you in return.

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I remember hundreds of boys' answers to the question: what kind of person do you want to become. Strong, brave, courageous, intelligent, resourceful, fearless ... And no one said - kind. Why is kindness not put on a par with such valor as courage and bravery? But without kindness, genuine warmth of heart, the spiritual beauty of a person is impossible.

And experience confirms that good feelings should be rooted in childhood. If they are not brought up in childhood, you will never bring them up, because they are assimilated simultaneously with the knowledge of the first and most important truths, the main of which is the value of life, someone else's, our own, the life of the animal world and plants. Humanity, kindness, benevolence are born in excitement, joy and sorrow.

Good feelings, emotional culture is the focus of humanity. Today, when there is enough evil in the world, we should be more tolerant, attentive and kind in relation to each other, in relation to the surrounding living world and to commit the most daring deeds in the name of good. Following the path of good is the most acceptable and only path for a person. He is tested, he is faithful, he is useful both to a person alone and to society as a whole.

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In childhood, a person is happy, as they say now, by default. By nature, a child is a creature instinctively predisposed to happiness. No matter how difficult and even tragic his life may be, he still rejoices and constantly finds new and new reasons for this. Perhaps because there is nothing to compare life with yet. He still does not suspect that it could be somehow different, but most likely, all the same, because the soul has not yet had time to be covered with a shell and is more open to goodness and hope than the soul of an adult.

And with age, everything seems to be turned inside out. No matter how calmly and safely life develops, we will not rest until we find in it some kind of splinter, awkwardness, malfunction, cling to it and feel deeply unhappy. And we believe in the drama we have invented, we sincerely complain about it to our friends, spend time, health, and mental strength on experiences.

It is only when a truly real tragedy occurs that we understand how absurd the invented suffering is and how trivial the reason for it is. Then we grab our heads and say to ourselves: “Lord, what a fool I was when I suffered because of some nonsense. No, to live in your own pleasure and enjoy every minute. "