All the people in our life are not accidental, acquaintance with them was in the plans of God.

So, why do we feel joy next to some people, annoyance with others, attraction with others, longing with others? What causes such different emotions?

Because each of those whom we meet on our way came for a reason. He came to help us. And each carries its own task and emotion for us.

The point is that we are one organism. Humanity. I wasn't the first to tell you about this. This is the basis of many philosophical worldviews.

And we attract to ourselves those “cells” of a single human organism that we need. Of course, a single human organism is controlled from above, you can call it God, but for the convenience of the theory about the organism, let's say - the Unified Brain.

The organism itself is not aware of this control. Just like our body is not aware of how it breathes and how it digests food. This is controlled by the brain. So in a single humanity, where each of us is a “cell”, we do not understand why and how events occur, but the Brain knows exactly what it is doing.

Sometimes these people "treat" the hurt. Sometimes with love. It all depends on the "disease". The most painful in treatment are stuck in illusions and pride. These two diagnoses call into our lives people who begin to destroy our attitudes, principles, outlook on life. It's very painful. The man begins to grumble: “What do I need all this for? What have I done? Why me?" But if you understand the whole process as a whole, pain can be avoided. If you treat with gratitude those who came to “treat” you, the “treatment” will be faster and more efficient.

So, if in your life appeared: aggressors, people with opposite views on life, and with an active life position, i.e. they will not be silent, people who interfere with your progress, humiliate you, educate you, etc. - you are ill with pride. Doctors have been sent to you. And you should not think that "doctors" are pleased with their "work". They do it unconsciously, sometimes genuinely wondering why you are so unpleasant to them.

Pride is cured by acceptance. By the way, I, as a person with great experience in terms of pride, can say that acceptance even the best medicine than forgiveness. I recently released a course half of which is devoted to the practices of acceptance, and they work just amazing! Moreover, all you need to do is listen to meditations.

Don't forget that you, in turn, are other people's doctors too. These are our common lessons.

The second painful lesson, as I said, is illusion. We are accustomed to consider life as we imagine it to be. Those. in fact, we are starting to get out of common organism, build a special, fantastic world around you. That's how cancer cells behave, by the way. The One Brain will be forced to try and bring you back to reality. Initially, it was conceived as a state of freedom and love. But we stay in it only in infancy. Then we begin to actively invent non-existent worlds.

As soon as you have invented an illusion for yourself, people are sent to you who are able to destroy it. For example, you read novels and believed that people should be faithful friend friend. Moreover, they believed so strongly that do not imagine a relationship where at least a shadow of betrayal could flash by. Everything. A "landing force" of traitors has already been sent to you. They will "teach" you until you understand. Everything happens in life. Life cannot be limited. Relationships are part of development. Everything can be forgiven. And so it is with any illusion if it becomes vital to you. If without it you cannot imagine happiness.

Of course, everyone would like to be joyful, rich and healthy. But if these qualities are too significant for you, “doctors” will come and destroy your illusions.

Because the world is unpredictable. It is based on freedom of choice and therefore changes constantly. Freedom of choice is not only yours. You must respect the freedom of choice of each individual. And this means not to experience negative emotions when the other person chooses to act this way and not otherwise. He has a right to it. And they will also send "doctors" to him.

And these endless treatments will continue for as long as it takes for you to understand - you are being looked after. You are helping to grow the one body of humanity. Grow and develop. You are a cell of a single organism in which everything is going right, despite the fact that you, the cell, think that you could arrange everything much better. Despite the fact that you, a cell that does not see the whole organism and does not suspect how it works, it seems that you could become different, better, bigger, stronger ... Until you realize that you are already perfection. That you are in the right place. That all you need to do is follow your heart, consider those around you, and love everything around you, because that's what reality is. When you learn this, then such a desired prosperity will come.

The people who are "sent" to us are of several kinds.

1. directly doctor. Ambulance. It is called in emergency cases when a person does not hear either intuition, or signals from outside, or the heart, when he is immersed in his illusions so much that he can only be pulled out with a "hit on the head." In general, they call an ambulance. Most of the world's population prefers this method of treatment, alas.

2. castle man. A person suddenly appears beside you, whom you cannot guess. It is not clear to you, but it is interesting. He is not always cute, it happens that the man-castle is annoying. You are trying with all your might to find the key to him, to understand his motives, his thoughts. Such people are sent to us when the time has come for spiritual growth, new relationships, new achievements. It's time to step outside the boundaries of your own world.

3. key man. These are the people next to whom you open new horizons in yourself. You suddenly discover that, it turns out, you are not shy about singing loudly in the street. That you can think outside the box. That you have goals and dreams. That you, it turns out, know how to be brave (cowardly, aggressive, etc. - it doesn’t matter what exactly you discover, the main thing is that it’s new for you). Such people are sent to us when the time has come to know ourselves more deeply.

4. Alarm clock man. People of high spiritual level. Not necessarily gurus or saints. But these are high vibrating people. Next to them you feel out of place. You then get lost, as in front of a teacher at school. Either you feel good next to him, then he starts to annoy. And the longer you are near the "alarm clock", the more transformations are launched in your personality. Insights dawn on you. You suddenly understand something you thought you always knew—in a new way. You change your attitude to ordinary things. You start to see things differently. You wake up. And not always the “alarm clock” does something for this. He might just live next door. But more often "alarm clocks" are those.

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Nothing is accidental.

In this world where we were lucky enough to live, every meeting and chance acquaintance serves a specific purpose.

Sometimes we need people to wake us up and help change the direction of our lives; sometimes - to cheer us up and remind us who we are on this earth. And sometimes these are the ones that meet us only for a moment.

Ironically, we don't have to know the purpose of every person we meet, but we must remain open to everything that each new acquaintance brings with it.

Sometimes it is worth looking at the whole world as an interweaving of threads - silver or red, each of which reflects a meeting with a specific person, maybe not even happened yet.

Our whole life is interaction with each other. And although modern technologies, the Internet, social networks are trying to convince us that this interaction can be minimized, something changes in our minds when we understand that everything in life does not happen by chance.

Not all meetings have to be long: sometimes they can only last a moment. Maybe to slow you down so you don't get into a car accident, or to meet potential love. Sometimes the Universe sends us people to help us in our lives, even if they do not become something important for us.

And although we cannot predict it, we can prepare ourselves for these life surprises.

People who should wake us up.

These are the ones who come for a long time. Sometimes they are our partners soul mates. These are the ones who completely change our lives.

People who help remind us who we are.

Sometimes on life path we start to lose ourselves. In everyday bustle and worries, we forget about who we wanted to become, what we dreamed about (and still dream of), who we really are. We just sell ourselves to an adult and responsible life, forgetting how real we are. And it's not even about a place of work or a city for life, it's about the soul and inner worldview.

And now there are people who come into our lives to help us understand who we are, so that we begin to be ourselves.

People who are important for a moment.

When we start a conversation with a random fellow traveler and just can't stop. Or when we just exchange smiles with a person who has passed on a nearby escalator. And it really seems like some kind of unearthly connection that just has to be.

Just because someone doesn't stay in our lives for long doesn't mean there's no point or purpose in meeting them. Everything has a meaning. And it is these invisible threads that connect us to each other that make life in this world so amazingly unpredictable, because we never know when we will meet someone who will make us change our lives.

All life near each person there is a cycle of acquaintances and not so familiar.
we communicate with someone, we are friends with someone, we just ran into someone periodically in transport or on the street ..
people come into our lives and leave it - either gradually and imperceptibly, or abruptly, in one minute.
and from each departed in the soul there is some kind of trace. it may be a fleeting memory, or it may remain open wound...

they say that all world-theatre, and we are all actors in it ..
it’s the same in life - every person, whether it’s a friend or an enemy, comes at the appointed time, plays his role, in the course of the play, he teaches something, and leaves ..
someone comes back, someone watches from the side, and someone stays with you forever .. and all this is not accidental. people come into our lives for a reason, but to play some role in it.

You meet people on your way, some appear in life and disappear from it like ghosts, and when they leave, you understand that a part of them remains in you.
they say that all the people that appear in your life are just mirrors. they appear, reflecting you, and disappear in the same way, although you do not always notice their disappearance, because at that moment you are already looking into another mirror ...
funny, isn't it?

And everyone carries something of their own, something personal: sometimes even offensive and sad, but each of these someone is very important.
and all these pieces that they leave us bringing with them - are they able to change us, are they able to re-evaluate us?

Our life becomes like a sketchbook for other people who come in and out of our lives.
after all, over time, we leaf through this album, and we call all this a memory, look through each page, and find the pressed words, not written, but pressed, and already perceive them differently, and those actions, and think how it was possible to do otherwise. and so each person has his own album, his own people there, his own happiness and his own pain.

and every person we meet in our life is not accidental, he comes to fulfill his mission in relation to us, to teach something or to help.
and as soon as his mission is completed, he goes aside, as if he has exhausted the resource, and went to refuel in order to come back, but to other people, or to you, but already improved ...

And who are the people who are always with us? perhaps permanent missionaries in our lives...

each human teacher. someone teaches us to be stronger, someone - wiser, someone teaches us to forgive, someone - to enjoy every day.
and someone does not teach us at all - but simply breaks us, but from this we gain experience.
and if this person is yours, then he will appear again and again in your life.
after all, someone is given happiness, and someone is for experience ..
if someone suddenly left, let him go, he was for the experiment, and whoever needs it will be there ...
not everything is so simple - we teach someone, and someone us.

maybe people appear in our life because we call them? or just everything is pre-programmed.

*** All people appear in your life, and all events occur only because you attracted them there.
And what will you do with them next,
you choose. - Richard Davis Bach

We meet people not by chance. There is always some reason why someone comes into our life and leaves it. And the hardest thing to realize is that some people are destined to be with us only for a little while.

The people who come and go quickly from our lives are usually the ones who open us up to new opportunities and ways to grow and develop.

We don't want to let these people go because we start to get used to them. But we do not understand that some people are destined to be temporary in our lives, no matter how much we would like the opposite.

“Not everything has to become something beautiful and durable. Some people come into your life to show you what is right and wrong, to show you who you can be, to teach you how to love yourself, to make you feel better, or just to be someone you can hang out with at night and pour out your soul. Not everyone will stay forever, but we must keep going and be grateful to them for what they have given us.”, - Writer Emery Allen.

I remember my brightest acquaintances and now I understand why each person came into my life, and how he influenced who I am today. I have shared my deepest thoughts, fears, secrets and dreams with people who are no longer in my life. I do not regret it, because at that moment it was exactly what I wanted to do.

I always thought it was amazing that our lives intersect with the lives of so many people, and even if you know someone for only a short time, you can influence his life and his story. To look at all this from this point of view is very exciting.

The sooner we understand that not everyone is destined to be a part of our lives, the easier it will be for us to plunge into new relationships and appreciate the time with certain person letting him go when the time is right. We need to make the most of the time we have with each other and focus on the present. Let go of expectations, assumptions, and saturate yourself with as much communication with people as possible.

“I see a lot of people in unstimulating relationships – not just between guys and girls. Many find themselves in stagnant friendships. If people were less afraid of finishing something, they would get more out of life ... You meet right person at the right time and it fills something in your life. You fill something into it. But there is a limit to this,” singer Laura Marling.

If you lose someone in your life, don't lose yourself.

Always remember that just because some people are temporary in your life, it doesn't make your memories and experiences with them any less important.

People don't come into our lives by chance
Though sometimes we marvel at fate.
And she's a cheat, it seems to be by accident
Brings the people we need into our lives.
All of them, whatever they are.
They leave a trace in our Souls.
And it doesn’t matter joyful, offended,
After all, there are no accidents in nature.
If in life you met a person.
It means that God decided to tell you something.
So you better take your courage
And try to learn all the "lessons".
Analyze carefully, diligently.
Paragraph by paragraph, following correctly.
Happiness, joy - be sure to remember.
They entered your life for a reason.
All grievances, fears, mistrust,
Learn, close your textbooks.
And forget what's been done
To keep the pain out of step with you.
Now think how much joy
God sent to you through people.
So rejoice at each new meeting,
The Almighty has thousands of ideas.

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Ninochka thank you very much)) but I'm so tired of this. It seems useless to me even to try to prove something of my own. They’ll take it away anyway ((I think it’s the same for everyone. True, I don’t understand the meaning of these actions, but)) once I posted a quatrain as a status in classmates - I didn’t post it here - I thought I’d add it - and went into shock when I saw how it was taken away. There is even one smart guy who corrected the verse from the masculine gender and posted it here. Can you imagine? There is no limit to human rudeness

I also started with the fact that I first found one of my poems on one site, and then ... on 12 more sites. Basically, the author is honestly written everywhere - me, people just inserted my lines in the discussions, but I was most offended when I saw my poems on commercial sites either without authorship, or, like this, for example, I sent you, under a different name. This spurred me on so much, I was not too lazy and sent letters to everyone saying that they violate my copyright, and I have to turn to the judicial authorities. There were those who apologized and deleted my works, while the correspondence continues with the rest ...
As for rudeness, I agree with you. I terribly disrespect it in people and also get tired of its ubiquitous distribution in any form. Yes, spiritual purity is now oh how lacking for many!
Thank you for answering me.
Sincerely,

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