Quotes about the dead. Death of a loved one

Love yourself for the good of others.

A woman dies, and Death comes to her. The woman, seeing Death, smiled and said she was ready.
- What are you ready for? Death asked.
- I'm ready for God to take me to Paradise! the woman replied.
- And why did you decide that God would take you to himself? Death asked.
- Well, how? I suffered so much that I deserved the peace and love of God, the woman replied.
What exactly did you suffer from? Death asked.
- When I was little, I was always unfairly punished by my parents. They beat me, put me in a corner, yelled at me as if I had done something terrible. When I was in school, my classmates bullied me and also beat and humiliated me. When I got married, my husband drank all the time and cheated on me. My children exhausted my whole soul, and in the end they didn’t even come to my funeral. When I worked, my boss yelled at me all the time, delayed my salary, left me on weekends, and then fired me altogether without paying me. Neighbors gossiped about me behind my back, saying that I was a walking woman. And one day a robber attacked me and stole my bag and raped me.
- Well, what did you do good in your life? Death asked.
- I was always kind to everyone, went to church, prayed, took care of everyone, pulled everything on myself. I experienced so much pain from this world, like Christ, that I deserve Paradise ...
- Well, well ... - Death answered - I understand you. There remains a small formality. Sign one contract and go straight to Paradise.
Death handed her a piece of paper with one sentence to tick. The woman looked at Death and, as if she had been doused ice water, said she couldn't tick that sentence.
It was written on the piece of paper: "I forgive all my offenders and ask for forgiveness from everyone whom I offended."
Why can't you forgive them all and ask for forgiveness? Death asked.
- Because they did not deserve my forgiveness, because if I forgive them, it means that nothing happened, it means that they will not answer for their deeds. And I have no one to ask for forgiveness ... I didn’t do anything bad to anyone!
- Are you sure about that? Death asked.
- Absolutely!
- What do you feel for those who caused you so much pain? Death asked.
- I feel anger, anger, resentment! It is unfair that I should forget and erase from my memory the evil that people have done to me!
- What if you forgive them and stop experiencing these feelings? Death asked.
The woman thought for a while and replied that there would be emptiness inside!
- You have always experienced this emptiness in your heart, and this emptiness has devalued you and your life, and the feelings that you experience give meaning to your life. Now tell me, why do you feel emptiness?
- Because all my life I thought that those whom I loved and those for whom I lived would appreciate me, but in the end they disappointed me. I gave my life to my husband, children, parents, friends, but they did not appreciate it and turned out to be ungrateful!
- Before God said goodbye to his son and let him go to earth, he said one last phrase to him, which was supposed to help him realize life in himself and himself in this life ...
- What? the woman asked.
- THE WORLD STARTS WITH YOU..!
- What does it mean?
- So he did not understand what God told him about ... This is about the fact that only you are responsible for everything that happens in your life! You choose to suffer or be happy! So explain to me who exactly caused you so much pain?
- It turns out I'm on my own ... - the woman answered in a trembling voice.
- So who can't you forgive?
- Myself? The woman answered in a weeping voice.
- Forgive yourself - it means admitting your mistake! To forgive yourself is to accept your imperfection! Forgiving yourself means opening up to yourself! You hurt yourself and decided that the whole world is to blame for this, and they do not deserve your forgiveness ... And you want God to accept you with open arms?! Have you decided that God is like a soft-bodied stupid old man who will open doors for fools and evil sufferers?! Do you think he created the perfect place for people like you? That's when you create your own paradise, where first of all you, and then the rest, will feel good, then you will knock on the doors of the heavenly abode, but for now God has given me instructions to send you back to earth so that you learn how to create a world in which reigns love and care. And the one who cannot take care of himself lives in a deep delusion that he can take care of others. Do you know how God punishes a woman who considers herself an ideal mother?
- How? the woman asked.
- He sends her children, whose fates break before her eyes ...
- I understood ... I could not make my husband loving and devoted. She failed to raise happy and successful children. I couldn’t keep a hearth where there would be peace and harmony… In my world, everyone suffered…
- Why? Death asked.
- I wanted everyone to feel sorry for me and sympathize ... But no one took pity on me ... And I thought that God would definitely take pity on me and hug me!
- Remember that the most dangerous people on earth they are those who want to arouse pity and compassion… They are called “victims”… Your greatest ignorance is that you think that God needs someone's sacrifice! He will never let into his abode one who knows nothing but pain and suffering, for this sacrifice will sow pain and suffering in his world...! Go back and learn to love and take care of yourself, and then those who live in your world. And to begin with, ask forgiveness for your ignorance and forgive yourself for it!
The woman closed her eyes and started the journey again, but only under a different name and with different parents.

The status of a deceased person should be as restrained as possible, but at the same time, express the strong emotions of the sufferer. This is a difficult topic to discuss, but as you know, friends are the people with whom you need to share everything.

The hardest thing is to erase the memories

  1. The more time passes, the longer I live without you. And this is terrible.
  2. I have countless questions for you. To which I never get answers.
  3. When a star falls in the sky, I no longer make wishes. I just hope that at this moment you are somewhere and thinking of me.
  4. Everyone says forget and let go. But how to do it if you were the most important person in my life?!
  5. When those you truly appreciate leave, you begin to realize that you took too few pictures and talked too little about important things.
  6. It's hard to imagine that I'll ever be able to attach to someone even for a second in the same way as to you.
  7. If traces remain from the steps, then deep wounds in the heart remain from the departure of loved ones.
  8. You know, it’s easier for me to accept that you are in hell or left me for another than to realize that you are no longer in the whole wide world ...
  9. I'm not going to forget you. Whoever says anything, and whoever claims anything ...
  10. You weren't the prettiest, and you weren't the funniest. But now I realized that you were the closest to my heart!
  11. I know that I am only obliged to remember you, but in fact I am in love to the point of unconsciousness.
  12. How sad it is when you bring only sweets and inanimate flowers to meet your mother.
  13. You get used to everything, even to the fact that you no longer have the most beloved person. But true love does not die even in such conditions ...
  14. Time passed, and quarrels left the memory. And now I remember you as the most beautiful, kindest and good person.
  15. Although you are gone, I know, dad, from the immense height of heaven you are praying for me ...
  16. I will definitely remember you. I will also remember the pain I felt when you left.

How I wish death was just a stranger

The pain of loss is the strongest emotion a person can experience. At this moment, a person wants to be understood - sad statuses about death.

  1. You are my main sorrow. Even if you don't exist.
  2. Death loved one It's definitely not something that can be described. It's always something too deep.
  3. Now I can become selfish, sociopathic and even alcoholic. Because I have no one else to be good to.
  4. Death is what destroys plans. This is what turns the mind around. This is something that is inexorable.
  5. At first, I thought that I would scream or not be able to survive at all. But everything turned out to be simpler - the world instantly became unusually empty.
  6. Since you left, I often have to lie. Lie that I'm fine...
  7. The pain is unbearable when you have to part by the will of fate, and not by the will of at least one of you.
  8. I'm glad I was able to love someone like you. But if the pain of loss would just as easily go away ...
  9. I have no one to blame for our separation, except perhaps death. And what is death in the end?
  10. I hope that where you are now, you are well. And I don't need more.
  11. Burial is not for the deceased. Funerals are needed for the living to make sure they are not forgotten.
  12. In this life, you can't count on anything. Is that the fact that this very life will ever end.
  13. What difference does it make what happens to your body after death? You don't think about what will happen to the nails you cut...
  14. After the departure of great people, the world always changes. It doesn't matter if good or bad.
  15. We are all afraid of the unknown. And the most striking fear of this is, of course, the fear of death.
  16. Many of us feel sorry for dying because our dreams have not yet come true. But we are not afraid to live with unfulfilled dreams.

Most of the time, death is sudden.

The status about the death of a person is for those who care about high concepts. And also - for those who know how to feel the phrase with all their heart.

  1. When your loved one dies, you will feel guilty anyway. Just think about it!
  2. Time is a terrible thing. She kills you, and most importantly, your loved ones.
  3. In order not to think about death, you need to be distracted. For example, thoughts about life.
  4. Like it or not, life in all its essence is revealed only when we experience the death of a loved one.
  5. We have to deal with the death of our parents. We must try to get over the death of a spouse. But the death of a child... no, it defies explanation.
  6. Sooner or later, the pain of leaving native person subside. But you will never be the same again.
  7. There are people who are not afraid to show sincerity, kindness, and in general are afraid of little. They leave first.
  8. It is impossible to be prepared for the death of a loved one. Don't trust anyone.
  9. No matter how tragic the death of a loved one, time passes, and you regain sensitivity to ordinary things.
  10. It remains only to believe. That you still exist. And also in the fact that where you are, you will certainly feel good.
  11. I don't need any money. I would like to know that my parents will always be alive.
  12. I don't want to be under any illusions. I know we won't be together forever. Therefore, here and now I want to be with you.

Serious phrases about death are rarely found in the status bar of someone. However, if you like any of the statuses listed above, don't be afraid to show your personality!

The fear of death completely takes possession of those who live selfishly. - Georgy Valentinovich Plekhanov

We are much calmer about the death of millions of people due to an explosion than about the death of one acquaintance. - Erich Maria Remarque

Wisdom is the highest in accepting death. It is important to understand that life does not end. We are all immortal. Our death is a tragedy only for our loved ones. - Mikhail Mikhailovich Prishvin

Before you even look back, the time of death will come. Therefore, there is no need to be afraid of life - there is very little of it left. - Friedrich Nietzsche

There is no need to turn away from death. Look into her face - and life will be filled with colors. – Georges Bztay

A good man, whose life is full of virtue, will not be afraid of his own death. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy

Understanding death gives understanding of new life. — Oswald Spengler

It's not stupid to be afraid to die. Moreover, it is vital, this fear is the main condition for survival, the main natural law. If not for this fear, humanity would have died out a long time ago. – Jean Jacques Rousseau

Continuation best aphorisms and quotes read on the pages:

If you truly want to see the spirit of death, open your heart to the flesh of life. For life and death are one, as the river and the sea are one. – Kahlil Gibran Gibran

Death, like birth, is a mystery of nature. These are the same elements, on the one hand, uniting, on the other, decomposing into the same beginnings. There is nothing repulsive in death to a rational being or to the plan of our structure. — Marcus Aurelius

A person sentenced to death immediately before execution begins to believe that he will be pardoned at the last moment. – Victor Frankl

People would be unhappy if they knew the day of their death. - Unknown author

Fear of death is the best sign of a false one, that is bad life. — Ludwig Wittgenstein

Do not be afraid last day but don't call him. - Martial Mark Valery

Death is not evil. - You ask what she is? - The only thing in which the entire human race is equal. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)

Death is that after which nothing is interesting. - Vasily Vasilyevich Rozanov

Death is not an act or even an event for the dying person. She will be both for the living. — Eric Byrne

An unchanging and great consolation in the death of people who died from the disease is its inevitability. - Pliny the Younger

We must live in such a way as not to be afraid of death and not to desire it. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy

The death of a sage is death without fear of death. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)

The higher the piles of dead bodies over which the survivor stands, the more often he experiences these moments, the stronger and more irresistible the need for them becomes. – Elias Canetti

Dying at eighty and dying at 10 each has only a second of death. – Alexander Vvedensky

Civilization is concentrated in big cities; suicide too. — Emile Durkheim

May the earth be easy for you. May the earth rest in peace for you. - The usual formula of Latin epitaphs.

Some of the dead rest in peace, others are deprived of it. — Benito Galdos

Some do not succeed in life: a poisonous worm gnaws at their heart. May they use all their strength to make death a better success for them! - Friedrich Nietzsche

God Himself commands you to remember death. - Martial Mark Valery

Only the individual dies completely. – Georg Simmel

If we know so little about life, what can we know about death? – Confucius (Kung Tzu)

The only brotherhood possible in our time, the only one that is offered and allowed to us, is the vile and dubious brotherhood of soldiers in the face of death. — Albert Camus

The best proof that the fear of death is not a fear of death, but of a false life, is that often people kill themselves out of fear of death. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy

Nobody can avoid death. - Unknown author

In the birth of an individual, the world is born; in his death, the whole world dies. – Lev Karsavin

To wish for death when one is living is just as cowardly as to lament over life when it is time to die. — Anatole France

Here rests the one who has never rested, keep quiet! - Unknown author

Death is life, closed on me alone and therefore lost in advance. — Maurice Blanchot

Death manifests itself primarily as the destruction of life. — Jacques Lacan

Death is the more complete for a being, the more individual it is. – Georg Simmel

If there were no death, life would be deprived of all poetry. – Arturo Graf

Do not hope that you will know which path death will take you. – Frantisek Krykka

Communion in death is a substitute for true communion. — Maurice Blanchot

The dead have neither a sovereign above nor subjects below; they have no worries that the four seasons bring. Careless and free, they are as eternal as heaven and earth, and even the joys of the kings who sit with their faces turned to the south cannot be compared with their bliss. – Unknown Chinese author

Many die too late, and others too soon. For the time being, the teaching will seem strange: Die on time! - Friedrich Nietzsche

Man will not be free until he overcomes the fear of death. But not by suicide. You can't overcome by giving up. To be able to die, looking death in the eyes, without bitterness. — Albert Camus

Death informs new form love - as well as life, it turns love into destiny. — Albert Camus

The one who is happy should not have fear. Even before death. — Ludwig Wittgenstein

When you retreat, death stands behind you and your meeting with it is inevitable. - Ali ibn Abi Talib

The fear of natural death will be destroyed by a deep knowledge of nature. - Konstantin Eduardovich Tsiolkovsky

What really happened is death. – Alexander Vvedensky

Death is certain, but its hour is unknown. - Unknown author

There is probably no society that does not show respect for the dead. – Claude Levi-Strauss

The moment of survival is the moment of power. The horror from the feeling of death turns into satisfaction from the fact that it is not you who is dead, but another. – Elias Canetti

Before you die or later, it doesn't matter; good or bad, that's what matters. And to die well means to avoid the danger of living badly. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)

There is only one freedom - to find out your relationship with death. After that, everything becomes possible. I can't make you believe in God. To believe in God means to come to terms with death. If you were reconciled to death, God's problem would be solved - but not vice versa. — Albert Camus

The only freedom that can be opposed to the freedom to kill is the freedom to die, that is, to free oneself from the fear of death and find a place for this accident in nature ... - Albert Camus

There is a group of people who were born on earth just to talk about death. There is a peculiar beauty in the slow fading, like the beauty of the sky at sunset, and this fascinates them. – Rabindranath Tagore

Another descends into the grave of a hundred years, and died as soon as he was born. – Jean Jacques Rousseau

In order not to be afraid of death, always think about it. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)

The shadows of death are reborn against our will. — Georges Bataille

Death is the first and oldest, one would like to say - the only fact. It is monstrously ancient and new every hour. – Elias Canetti

Knowing that he himself is mortal, the slave also knows that the master can also die. — Jacques Lacan

We will rise above death if we discover God in it. - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

I wanted a violent death - the kind where it's forgivable to scream in pain because your soul is being torn out of your chest. On other days, I dreamed of dying for a long time and in full consciousness - so that at least no one could say that death took me by surprise, that it came in my absence - in a word, to know ... But it is so stuffy in the earth. — Albert Camus

The death of those who do immortal deeds is always premature. - Pliny the Younger

A poem about death ... Why, in fact, should this not be a poem? - That's why it is sung that it's hard. – Lev Karsavin

Let us try, while life is given to us, so that death gets as little as possible of what it can destroy. - Pliny the Younger

The life of the deceased seems to us smoothed out, as if we see it through a haze. — Ludwig Wittgenstein

Death chases the fleeing. - Unknown author

It is death that must finally reveal us. - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

About the dead, as well as about the living, neither good nor bad, but only the truth. - Unknown author

The worst thing that can be is to die alive. – Martin Andersen-Nexo

Death is a serious matter, it enters into life. You have to die with dignity. - Anatoly Vasilyevich Lunacharsky

Death is only powerful to produce a temporary separation. - Sergei Nikolaevich Bulgakov

The death wish for another is really everywhere, and in order to find it, you don’t have to delve into it for a particularly long time. human soul. – Elias Canetti

If you cannot escape death, die at least with glory. – Aesop

Death is evil only because of what follows it. – Aurelius Augustine

The day will come and you will die an idiot. — Georges Bataille

You don't have to go far for death. - Petronius Arbiter Gaius

Later or earlier we hurry to one dwelling (grave). - Unknown author

If you called unfortunate only those who are destined to die, you would not miss anyone living. - Unknown author

Death is the last argument. - Unknown author

What is life, such is death. - Unknown author

A person is not yet able to overcome death, but premature death, premature old age is possible and necessary. - Alexander Evdokimovich Korneichuk

Suicide appears only with civilization. — Emile Durkheim

I'm not afraid of death. So life is mine. - Vasily Makarovich Shukshin

Those who invoke death upon themselves know it only by hearsay. — Wilson Mizner

Every organism begins to die from the moment of birth and carries within itself the causes of its impending destruction. – Jean Jacques Rousseau

Death so immeasurably surpasses any earthly darkness. — Ernst Simon Bloch

If you are afraid of death, you will not do anything good; if you die anyway because of some stone in the bladder, from an attack of gout, or from another equally ridiculous reason it's better to die for some great cause. — Denis Diderot

The fear of death is explained solely by a sense of self-preservation. - Lev Shestov

Death always has one cause or another. - Unknown author

Usually people have a good idea of ​​their funeral. — Eric Byrne

There is no such tribe, clan or people, which would not indulge in long thoughts about their dead. – Elias Canetti

It is possible for someone who does not like to live to die. - Unknown author

The fear of death is inversely proportional to the good life. - Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy

We are all like that. We remember each other towards the end of life, when someone becomes seriously ill or dies. Then it suddenly becomes clear to all of us who was lost, what he was like, what he was famous for, what deeds he did. - Chingiz Torekulovich Aitmatov

Omniscience about death will not cancel the fact that death is not component life, and we have no choice but to accept the very fact of death; no matter how much we worry about our life, it will end in destruction. — Erich Fromm

In the depths of your hopes and desires lies a silent knowledge of the beyond; and like seeds dormant under the snow, your heart dreams of spring. Believe in dreams, for the gates to eternity are hidden in them. Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd standing before the king, who will soon lay his hand on him as a token of mercy. Doesn't the shepherd's trembling rejoice at the fact that he will be marked by the king? And isn't it trembling that worries him most of all? – Kahlil Gibran Gibran

If death were a blessing, the gods would not be immortal. - Sappho (Sappho)

Dying is quick and easy; living is much more difficult. — Lion Feuchtwanger

Death is exactly what it means to be light. — Maurice Blanchot

Death is the resolution and end of all sorrows, the limit beyond which our sorrows do not cross. - Seneca Lucius Annaeus (the Younger)

When you are disturbed or upset by something worldly, then remember that you will have to die, and then what you previously thought was an important misfortune and worried you will become in your eyes an insignificant nuisance that is not worth worrying about. – Epictetus

Everyone stubbornly believes that he should not die. – Elias Canetti

The bitter waters of death - Albert Camus

For some reason, it is perhaps more pleasant to die than to sit and wait for death like that. - Nikolai Georgievich Garin-Mikhailovsky

With mortality statistics, society reduces life to chemical process. — Theodor Adorno

Death is the greatest of all possible types slavery. – Vladimir Frantsevich Ern

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In trying not to lose a loved one - the most important thing is not to lose yourself ...

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When a person close and beloved to you leaves your life, A strange feeling, As if a piece of the soul was torn out, Emptiness,

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It's TERRIBLE when it seemed that the people you loved were NOT afraid to lose you...

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I'm lost without you. I'm really scared. Please find me quickly. After all, it is impossible for me not to have me ...

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They don’t lose their loved ones - they are kept inside ...
Fate is not repeated - the forgotten are not called ...

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Love cannot be given away and lost.

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Baby, what are you doing? Smile ... After all, he will never have another like you!

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Passed by her big love, which is repeated only once in a thousand years.

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“I don’t regret what I lived, I don’t curse the past ... There is a lot of good in life, albeit a little crazy ... And the loss of a find will turn into an accident ... In this short life there is nothing accidental ... "

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Don't be afraid to lose in life - be afraid to get lost.

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... and a shiver will run through your skin, and your heart will beat driven, when one day you will understand - she is gone and will not return ...

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... sometimes ... you need to lose everything you have in order to get everything you dream of ...

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Happiness is not stolen from us, we ourselves faithfully give it away!!!

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Of course, you can live your whole life without failures, losses and mistakes - it's as easy as running between raindrops!

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The biggest stupidity is when a man in the presence of one woman talks about another!

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Lost the thought that the world was left without good people, contact the lost and found office of the central station.

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The one who takes care of his love will never get poorer on it!

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“You start to feel sorry for time when it stops feeling sorry for you.”

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How easy it is to lose everything that, it would seem, is given to you for life.

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It's so sad when you watch every day
How friends leave the "Subscription" lists.
It's like you're losing someone's trust
And it feels like you're losing a part of yourself...

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I thought the hardest and worst thing was to wait and catch up… but I didn’t know… what’s the worst… it’s the fear of losing…

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Is there a greater loss in life than the loss of loved ones and health?

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Look to the sky for an answer
Where are you, love... You disappeared somewhere...

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Why do we rejoice more in the return of found favorite things than in their permanent possession?

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You really become yourself the day you lose your parents.

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We love those who do not love us, and we lose those who are dear to us ...

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Love is torn apart, only by those who themselves were not at the mercy of its losses !!!

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Trying to glue faith together is the same as holding on to emptiness.

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Everything a person loses over the years: youth, beauty, health, impulses of ambition. And only one stupidity does not leave people.

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Love has its own honor. It is worth losing her - and love comes to an end.

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Five years there is no dear person with me - PAPA. For mother - there is no HUSBAND. For the grandson - there is no GRANDFATHER. Sorry (((It's cold.

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Ahi, sighs, a woman's howl ...
The ruble is falling, and with it my mood!

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What I can? I'm sorry dear, I'm not a sorceress and I'm not a doctor! Oh, if only I could give my life for salvation, but only crying from impotence.

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