Gentle caresses threesome. Gentle touches are the best prelude to sex
How to give pleasure in bed
In continuation of the theme of Sex and erotic caresses, how to please a man (woman) in bed, how to make it pleasant.
We all want to remain desirable, to be appreciated and just want good sex and variety. To do this, it is important not to stop there and look for something new, something of your own, special, something that will distinguish you from others. This will be your chip, which you need to master well.
And now about a few tricks in bed that you can apply, experience and give new unforgettable sensations to yourself and your partner (she).
In addition to the famous blowjob and cunnilingus, there are many other ways to please each other. Some caresses can be as unusual and pleasant as you can imagine, often it is not the size of the member that plays the main role, but how you use your tool and what you do with it.
It is not necessary to reduce everything only to penetration inside and rhythmic movements back and forth. yurky member and skillful actions can give odds to a large "aggregate". Especially when you consider that for many women, vaginal stimulation is much more important than caressing the clitoris and the area around it, as well as tenderness and speed of movements.
By the way, when we somehow lay in bed and began to talk about what and how is better in sex, my girlfriend told me: “The main thing is that“ He ”was nimble at the right time.” We began to joke in this spirit, chat about something like that, laugh, and she also called him “Yurka” on top of everything. In short, after that, such an “appeal” stuck to him for a long time. That's why I remember all this.
I don’t know if it was worth writing, I’m not very good by nature. big, but not short, and somehow I didn’t really think and worry about the size, but in the past I had a situation after which I completely stopped thinking about the size of my penis. Making love with one woman a little older than me, being from the top, she suddenly stopped and pushed away, took the penis in her hand and began to direct it herself, thus making it clear what was required of me.
The actions were very simple, I only penetrated her with one head from the top down while moving quickly enough, and at that time she pressed the cock to the clitoris more tightly, 2-3 minutes and her friend finished. The necessary touches and speed were what mattered, although each to his own, and often quick caresses are needed only at the very last moment.
Many men in sex want a woman to be excited only by his touches and caresses. But try to admit that a woman would be excited by herself too. 
It will be a kind of concern to please her. Stimulation will still be mutual.
How to give pleasure, a possible process
She squeezes her breasts on her back with each other, the man settles on her breasts and with a penis covered with lubricant, leads along her elastic hollow, at the same time she massages her own nipples with her palms. All this action, as a woman caresses and excites herself at the moment of your sex, looks entertaining and even causes a kind of delight. And as far as I know, she is very pleased.
And then, putting a pillow under the head of a friend so that her mouth is on the same line with the penis, you can combine caresses with a blowjob. She will move towards the meeting of the head of the penis, and you will go to her. At this point, it is important not to lose the rhythm and continue moving back and forth. With quick sucking, releasing and then diving back into the hollow between the breasts, this will give both of them a kind of pleasure. From such a game, you can easily finish.
Good way to get new feeling in a well-known and popular pose, a woman on her knees, a man behind. It is better to do this on the floor, lay something soft. A woman kneels with her back to a man, bending in her back, first you gently lead a member down between her labia, slightly penetrate inside and bring it back, insert it deeper and bring it out again - vivid sensations and constantly changing. And now, remaining standing (without kneeling or kneeling), you lower your pelvis to her, insert your penis and speed up your movements.
In this position, you can develop a very decent speed, and the penis enters it from a different angle, so the sensations for the partner will be somewhat different. Here it is important to lower the pelvis low, learn to stand confidently on your feet and make quick movements with them. It is not difficult, but the pose itself contributes to this.
One good way to please a woman in bed is — rhythmic circular movement of the penis at the top of the vulva, where the clitoris is located. This kind of action can be done when you feel that you will soon finish, and after, already ending to send a stream of sperm to her clitoris, it will be incomparable sensations for her, the main thing is not to miss. I think there should be no problems with this, because often we don’t just pour, but also aim somewhere, so the sight should work.
Some erotic caresses for many, they cause a stronger sensation than simply inserting a penis into the vagina. One of these ways, when a woman lying on her back tightly brings her hips together, and a man kneeling on his knees, directs his penis vertically down from above, leading them along and between the labia of the vagina.
The same thing can be done when a woman on her stomach or kneeling presses them under her, as anyone likes. The sensations can be very strong, a few up and down movements and a woman may well reach an orgasm. With such stimulation, pressure is provided on the clitoris itself, and friction will not be hard.
A pat on the butt. I'm sure you've often seen this in porn, and it works, and how. Many women experience from such punishments simply indescribable 
pleasure. Moreover, this can be attributed to both hot and at first glance calm, shy people. Do not be embarrassed and boldly put it into practice. Moreover, such claps can be both light and quite strong and painful, it is better to ask your partner about this, as she likes it more.
So-called postillonage or inserting a finger into the anus. For many, such caresses are simply a necessity, for others a pleasant innovation, and for others unacceptable. Such caresses during sex spur and get hot not only a woman, but also a man. Positions in sex with such stimulation can be varied.
Sex plays too significant a role in our life, so as not to develop and pay attention to it. Magazines, websites and TV give a lot of useful, interesting information about how to take it and experiment. You will find something of your own that will decorate your sex life, and therefore your relationship in general.
Let's talk about the eternal male dream - "he and two gentle houris." And at the same time, consider another option - also quite common: "me and two passionate machos." Faced?
Many couples have such experience, but it is usually single - according to statistics, only 2% practice such sex all the time. Why do such thoughts creep into the heads of even the most faithful, respectable wives and husbands? Sexologists say that threesome love can make relationships bright and unforgettable, but they warn that you need to be prepared for such relationships not only physically, but also mentally.
Relatively massive, if not fashionable, sex scenes MFF (two women and one man) and MMF (two men and one woman) have become around the 1960s - thanks to the sexual revolution.
Sharing a bed with two beauties at once is the cherished dream of men of all times and peoples. Look through men's magazines, read ads on dating sites. “A married couple is looking for a liberated girl for a relationship”, “Two beauties will meet an interesting gentleman.” Why is this happening? The answer is clear, although the men themselves are not very fond of voicing it.
Firstly, a man is terribly afraid of leaving a woman unsatisfied. And two girlfriends will be able to entertain each other if the man was not up to par.
Secondly, he has the hope that there will be plenty of sex - simply because two women in bed are more than one.
Thirdly, men love with their eyes - the sight of two naked women will turn him on not like a child.
Fourth, men are vain. Which of them can resist the next morning not to casually drop in the smoking room: “I had a group sex yesterday ...”
And fifthly, in this way the most primitive instincts of the male are realized - to gather a harem and enjoy everyone's attention. Among chimpanzees and gorillas, one such “sultan” leads a flock of six to eight females, protecting and satisfying them all, and his furry wives take care of him in every possible way. Men, of course, for the most part, are still different from monkeys, but the motives for their behavior are sometimes strikingly similar.
As for women, the motivation is a little different. Many try the MZHZH option because the “F” in this combination interests them no less than the “M”, and such a trio allows a woman to realize her lesbian inclinations without risking relationships. Sometimes a woman joins a couple in order to attract the attention of her beloved man, and later, if she's lucky, to take him away. Very young girls often participate in the MFF combination “for the company” or just out of curiosity.
For a sexually and psychologically mature man who is not prone to homosexuality and other frills, the idea of \u200b\u200bsharing his wife or girlfriend with someone else's uncle is usually completely unattractive - healthy instincts outweigh any fantasies.
Young men of hypersexual age sometimes make contact with MMF out of desperation - if there is only one kind, sociable and understanding girl for the entire male company, you will have to put up with competition willy-nilly.
But, surprisingly, it also happens that a man agrees to such an option out of love for a woman if she expressed a desire to try a threesome.
Women in this matter are easier to understand - it's nice when not one but two men carry you in their arms, admire all parts of the body and try their best to deliver maximum pleasure. As a rule, ladies in such combinations are hypersexual, uninhibited mature women who like sex in all its manifestations, and one man is already not enough for complete happiness.
Will you be third?
The question of how to convince your partner (partner) to agree to a threesome is one of the most popular on specialized forums. And not by accident. Many couples intuitively refuse this option, clearly anticipating serious problems in the relationship.
No matter how liberated we are and no matter how much we talk about sexual freedom, for most of us the situation when a loved one makes love to another before our eyes is an unbearable sight, which can also seriously injure the psyche. Even if the lady herself brought the second "F" into the bedroom; even if a man on his knees begged his girlfriend to try "three of us with my friend Vasya" - the logic in this situation completely fails.
What to do? Follow your desires, but be sensitive to your partner's feelings. You need to honestly explain to him why you want to try love in a threesome. It is important to dispel his fears, jealousy and resentment, to convey that you will not stop loving him and will not part, that it is not about his appearance or ability to satisfy you. Answer all questions, talk in detail about how and where this will happen, let this topic become the object of jokes. Approach it as if you were talking about some unusual but very exciting adventure.
Where to look?
There are many specialized forums where couples are looking for a partner. However, finding a combination in which all participants will be satisfied and happy is an almost unrealistic task. After all, you are actually inviting a stranger into the holy of holies - into your bedroom.
Be prepared for the fact that the expectation of the feast of the flesh can easily be replaced by disgust. In addition, there are many potential dangers - ranging from various diseases to banal theft, uncleanliness, or threats to compromise you. Therefore, when registering on thematic forums and making acquaintances there, be careful and be careful again.
Reminder for Adventurers
1. If you have already decided to take this step, leave the thought that you are a pervert. Threesome love is a phenomenon as ancient as the history of mankind. Even the biblical patriarch Abraham actually offered his wife Sarah to the Egyptian pharaoh, and then conceived a child with the lawful concubine Hagar. His grandson Jacob quite officially had two wives - Rachel and Leah. Catherine the Great, who was in connection with Potemkin, turned on young favorites with his approval. The fatal beauty Lilya lived for many years in the same family with her husband Osip and the poet Vladimir Mayakovsky. Psychologist Sigmund Freud entered into an ambiguous relationship with Minna, the unmarried sister of Martha's beloved wife. And this list can be continued for a long time.
2. Friends are taboo. Never invite a third friend or girlfriend. With a probability of 99.9%, after such experiments, you will lose these friends. It is safer to find a person who is only interested in the sexual side of the relationship - which will save you from jealousy too.
3. This desire must be mutual. If one of the partners is against it, in no case do not insist and do not press. In addition, such thoughts are often impulsive - today you want to, and tomorrow you ask yourself with surprise and disgust: “How could this come to mind?”
4. Discuss with your partner the scenario of his or her behavior before the guest is in your bedroom. It is possible that a partner will object to kissing a third person or oral sex. These things need to be discussed in advance.
5. Before you go looking, ask yourself again why you need this. Often in this way, couples try to solve some long-standing internal problems. However, this is a dead end move - relations will only worsen. If behind this is a desire to take revenge or punish, you need to seek help from a family psychologist. When the question “either the third in bed, or we part” is posed with an edge, it is better to disperse immediately - anyway, the relationship will end with this.
6. Remember what you are risking. The threat to health and reputation is far from fiction. In fact, you invite a stranger to your place, who can be anyone.
In conclusion, we note that, despite all the sexual revolutions, there are people for whom the option of threesome love is still unacceptable in principle. I would like to add - "fortunately." But we will be tolerant and politically correct.
1. And your mother too
Director: Alfonso Cuaron
Two guys meet a girl and invite her to go on a journey together. It would seem that the topic is to sleep and run away, leaving the audience the opportunity to sympathize with the heroes or wonder at their youth and recklessness. But instead, the creators paint a very multifaceted realistic canvas with dirt, political squabbles, complex feelings and vague hopes. The picture will appeal to lovers of philosophizing and complaining about the imperfection of the surrounding world, writes depo.ua.
2. Gloomy Sunday
Director: Rolf Schuebel
Two men fall in love with the same waitress, and the girl cannot quite understand what she wants from life. Beauty inspires one of them to write a song that becomes a sad theme song for many lives. The action takes place in Hungary on the eve of World War II - the audience is drawn into the oppressive and at the same time exciting world of sensuality and hopelessness.
3. Especially dangerous
Director: Oliver Stone
Two guys sell marijuana and share the love of one girl without any problems. That's just their profitable business attracts the attention of the leaders of the local mafia. A common sweetheart is the perfect way to force the heroes to submit to someone else's will. The girl is kidnapped, and the guys have to find a way to return their beloved. The action-packed action movie looks quite easy, the actors delight with a talented game, but the tape does not indulge in an abundance of meanings.
4. Dreamers
Director: Bernardo Bertolucci
A young American meets a French couple. Despite the fact that the guy and the girl are brother and sister, they are not afraid to indulge in lovemaking. It does not come to incest, but this form of relationship at first shocks the protagonist. However, then the world of art, tenderness, bold thoughts draws the guy into their networks. All three move away from reality, their universe is beautiful and almost perfect. However, a revolution is raging outside the windows... Hiding in the shell of pink dreams is becoming more and more difficult.
5. Etudes for three
Director: Salvador Garcia Ruiz
The main characters are young and talented. All three are students of the art academy. And it just so happened that two guys love one girl. At first, the characters give vent to passions, without making problems out of non-standard relationships. After all, art and free love are quite tasty and inspirational cocktails. That's just human nature takes over - the thirst for property destroys the idyll.
6. Vicky Cristina Barcelona
Director: Woody Allen
A colorful and light film by the legendary director tells about difficult but beautiful relationships. Two friends fall in love with a temperamental artist. One of them begins to actively flirt with a man, but the other seizes the initiative. And everything would be fine, but the eccentric wife of the artist appears on the horizon. Instead of driving away her husband and mistress, the girl becomes an active participant in their romance.
7. The beauty of vice
Director: Zivko Nikolic
A married girl from a traditional family, by the will of fate, gets a job as a waitress on a nudist beach. The sight of nudity and the caresses of vacationers are shocking at first, and then they begin to attract. The culmination of the story is a passionate and beautiful threesome love. But a jealous husband is waiting at home, and according to the traditions of her circle, it is customary to kill for treason. A beautiful and at the same time tragic story allows viewers to draw their own conclusions, choosing between freedom and dogma.
8. Threesome love
Director: Tom Tykwer
The heroes live in a civil marriage, but over time, the relationship begins to crack. Then a third appears in the lives of both - a man with whom both she and ... he enter into an erotic relationship. Not quite a standard love triangle is flavored with intellectual conversations. The creators of the picture offer viewers a fresh look at the forms of relations between people accepted in traditional society. 10. On the road
Director: Walter Salles
The protagonist seeks to know life from different angles. He meets a married couple who prefer creativity, psychedelic drugs and travel to routine. The whole trio will have to make an exciting trip, getting into problems with the law, thinking about the meaning of life and indulging in love pleasures. Moral dogmas recede into the background - after all, on the road you can, for example, sit naked in the front seat three of us and caress each other. However, the illusory paradise does not last long - life forces the heroes who have played dissidence to return to reality.
There are no unused sense organs in having sex, but still the main role is given to touch. Nerve receptors located all over the body respond to touch and send signals to the brain.
The intensity of this signal depends mainly on the method of exposure and its intensity. There are a great many ways of influencing through tactile reactions. These are gentle touches, and gentle stroking, and light scratching with nails, and intense massage with the palms. The list can be continued for a long time, it all depends solely on the imagination of the partners.
Reverse effect
Tactile caresses are a mutual pleasure, because they excite both the active and the passive side equally. However, you should not act only as a host, real pleasure can only be obtained by exchanging mutual caresses, especially since their choice is wide and varied.
Emotional coloring of caresses
The quality of tactile caresses rises to incredible heights when partners experience a feeling of love for each other. In the case when the lover is unpleasant, even the most exquisite caresses will cause disgust rather than awaken desire.
When excitement reaches its peak, sometimes a couple of touches are enough to delight a loved one. In more relaxed environments, caresses last longer and become more varied.
Let's dwell on the most "effective" tactile caresses
An experienced man knows how sensitive the female neck and scalp are, so he starts with gentle touches, stroking the neck and combing through the hair. Such caresses make the girl feel a pleasant excitement with erotic overtones.
Extremely sensitive skin on the face in the area of the upper and lower lips. This area is usually covered with delicate, inconspicuous hairs that react sharply to gentle touches.
Remember that the most effective caresses will be the impact on the areas where the skin passes into the mucous membranes - on the lips, nostrils and in the genital area. A very refined caress is the "butterfly kiss" described in the Kama Sutra, in which the partner, blinking rapidly, acts on sensitive areas of the lips or neck with his eyelashes.
To achieve excitement, it is extremely important to choose the right tactics of caresses, since nerve receptors react sluggishly to prolonged monotonous strokes. The most effective will be rhythmic caresses, carried out by intermittent movements. Otherwise, instead of arousal, a woman may feel sleepy.
The study of the erogenous zones of the beloved is the most important task for an attentive partner, since in addition to the "well-known" zones, each girl can have "individual" ones, the caresses of which will be most pleasant to her. Usually the most sensitive are those areas of the skin that are least in contact with clothing.
One of the ancient sages said that a woman, like a violin, can only sound in the hands of a skilled tuner. Having patiently and carefully studied all the erogenous zones, a man will surely be rewarded with the fact that his "violin" will sound a beautiful melody in his hands, Azbukasexa recommends.
As reported, it often happens that the most outwardly attractive in bed bring the full. Confidence in their own irresistibility prevents them from acquiring at least some "technical" skills. “Everyone hangs on me anyway,” such a man proudly justifies his ignorance. However, a smart woman will find the key to any potential life partner - the main thing is to correctly determine his type and develop tactics of behavior.
clitoral caresses
In skillful hands, the ice will melt.
For most women, the main organ of pleasure, which determines whether she will experience an orgasm, is the clitoris. Important erogenous zones are also the labia minora, the entrance to the vagina and the external opening of the urethra.
In a calm state, outwardly the clitoris can be almost indistinguishable, under the fingers it is felt as a soft seal the size of a millet grain or as a soft papilla. It is covered with a delicate fold. If this fold is very tight, then the sensitivity of the clitoris may be reduced. The clitoris, and especially its head, contains 3-4 times more nerve endings than the head of the penis. The excitability of the clitoris and the erotic reaction of a woman do not depend on its size. In a state of sexual arousal of a woman, it increases one and a half to two times, becomes dense, its head approaches the entrance to the vagina.
Stimulation of the clitoris causes an erotic reaction only if it is preceded by general caresses that increase the woman's arousal.
The only physiological role of the clitoris is to induce feelings of lust. Its participation in the occurrence of orgasm is 70%. The remaining 30% fall on the anterior or posterior wall of the vagina, cervix and breast nipples. So the clitoris has a clearly dominant role.
In some women with the most optimal structure of the genital organs (sexologists call such an organ "princess" - the name speaks for itself), the clitoris is stimulated by the penis during intercourse. But there are few such women. All other women do not have contact of the clitoris with the penis during intercourse, so they need preliminary (before intercourse) or combined (during intercourse) stimulation of the clitoris. If ordinary intercourse is practiced, without additional stimulation of the clitoris, then the woman will not be satisfied.
Ball. Natasha Rostova approaches Rzhevsky.
- Lieutenant!
- Yes, sir!
- Why don't you dance?
- And we'll show you in bed, sir.
Joke
You can start caressing the clitoris only after caressing other erogenous zones. He is very excitable, and any woman immediately reacts to touching him, but if the partner immediately starts stimulating him, this can lead to the opposite effect. A woman unprepared by foreplay can even experience pain, especially if a man is eager to excite her as soon as possible, therefore he is hasty, rude or indelicate. Don't forget Dr. Ferrier's wise advice:
A true husband cannot exist without tenderness;
caution is the best companion for anyone on the path to enjoyment!
Immediately make direct contact with the clitoris should not be. After stroking and kissing the labia majora and labia minora and entering the vagina, you can stimulate the clitoris indirectly by grabbing the labia majora with your fingers and massage it in this way, and then move on to direct touching the clitoris.
The most effective way is oral-clitoral caresses with the tongue and lips (this is called cunnilingus), but if the partner prefers another, for example, with a finger or a vibrator, then only her desires should be guided.
“Doctor, my wife is as cold as ice cream,” the man complains.
- And you try to lick, - it will melt, - the sex therapist advises.
Joke
Manual stimulation (finger, hand) can also be used if the partner is shy. Oral caresses (tongue, lips) suggest that the partner sees the woman's vulva, and besides, they are best done in the light, since the sight of the female vulva is the most powerful erotic irritant for a man. The shy partner is not yet ready for this and at first may reject oral stimulation. Therefore, in order not to test her bashfulness, accustom her first to manual caresses, and when the orgasm from this stimulation becomes familiar to her, the partner will no longer be so squeezed.
You can do without sex, but you don't have to.
All sexologists believe that stimulation of the clitoris and any caresses of this area do not bring any harm to health and are not only morally permissible, but also mandatory.
Additional stimulation of the clitoris is especially needed by those women whose clitoris is located high (more than 2.5 cm from the entrance to the vagina). At the same time, during intercourse, the penis does not touch the clitoris, regardless of the size of the male organ.
And with manual (that is, with a hand or finger), and with oral (mouth and tongue) stimulation of the clitoris, pleasant sensations in a woman do not cause any touches, but those that meet her needs.
Some men, when performing clitoral caresses, are guided by their own ideas about stimulation, based on the experience of masturbation, so they make quick and intense movements with a finger or hand.
Georgian girl is going on a date. Worried, does not know how to behave. The mother noticed this and gives her advice:
Let him do everything - hug, kiss, and when he crawls between his legs, say that it’s impossible, it’s hot there, like in an oven.
The girl comes home in the morning and laughs. The mother asks what is the matter.
We kissed, then he climbed in there, and I told him that it was impossible, it was like in an oven, and he said - then let's fry my barbecue. Well, we fried until the morning, and in the morning I took it in my mouth to try it, and it was raw!
Joke
However, such stimulation does not suit women at all. The clitoris is very sensitive, requiring light, gentle touches, and any roughness and intense pressure or friction will cause pain in a woman, and in the future she will reject all attempts by a man to stimulate her clitoris with a finger.
The most optimal thing is to ask a woman to say what she wants, or to show exactly how the partner should perform manual stimulation, and correct his actions during the stimulation of the erogenous zone.
If the genitals of a woman are not moistened with a secret, then irritation of the clitoris and small lips with a “dry” finger will very soon cause discomfort and soreness in a woman, which can persist even after intercourse. And if the partner was awkward or caused damage to her by strong friction, then soreness in the genital area can persist for quite a long time. A woman will never again allow her inept partner to touch her genitals with her hands.
When stimulating the clitoris and small lips with a hand or finger, it is best to lubricate the woman's genitals with a special cream. You can use "Baby Cream", there are no perfume additives that can irritate the mucous membrane of the female genital organs. Vegetable oil is also recommended, which will not cause irritation of the mucous membrane. Some people use boron vaseline, but vaseline only initially gives the effect of lubrication and sliding, but it is very “drying”, so the woman will soon feel strong friction. You can buy special creams that are sold in Intim stores. Some of them increase the excitability of erogenous zones.
If a man does not know how to do anything and begins to torment the woman’s genitals in the same way as he stimulates his penis during masturbation, causing only pain to this partner, then it is best for him to leave both the woman’s erogenous zones and the woman herself alone, or learn how to caress correctly her.
Some women say that they are so pissed off by their partner's ineptitude that they would rather have him no longer touch their clitoris than needlessly get turned on and end up aroused but unsatisfied.
If the partner is sexually relaxed and "without complexes", then you can ask her to stimulate the clitoris in your presence. Many women have masturbation experience and will show you what rhythm of movement and intensity of pressure is most enjoyable.
In bed, you can do anything that pleases both of you, such as eating, drinking coffee, smoking, watching TV, reading.
Most men dream of seeing a woman masturbate. If the partner manages to convince the woman of this, then both of them will win - this scene will greatly excite the man, and if he learns to stimulate the woman's clitoris in the same way, then in the future he will be able to caress in accordance with her requirements.
Only those women who do not know what pleasure is are sexually constrained.
If your partner at least once feels ecstasy, she will stop resisting caresses.
Went to dance - you have to cuddle.
Spanish proverb
You will be rewarded a hundredfold and you will be surprised how your girlfriend will change, moving from an army of sexually unsatisfied women to a squad of sexually satisfied ones. She will have a different look, a different smile, a different posture and gait, a turn of the shoulders and a landing of the head. And most importantly, it will become different psychologically, softer, more emotional, sincere and warmer.
Bitches are always sexually unsatisfied women.
In the eyes of a woman who knows what pleasure is, some special light shines. I don’t know if you can see him, but I can accurately determine by one glance at a woman whether she is sexually satisfied, or whether her soul is rushing about in search of a real man.
It is in your power, dear men, to awaken the sensuality of your partner and create a new woman.
Guy - girl:
- Have you ever had a sixty-second orgasm?
- How is it?
- Do you have a free minute?
Joke
Oral sex is a full-fledged way of sexual satisfaction
“Kissing the genitals of a loved one, some partners experience deep sexual pleasure,” writes the coryphaeus of sexology K. Imelinsky.
In modern sexology oral caresses are designated by the term "oroaltruism". The term was first introduced by the Polish sexologist Eva Braun. The term quite accurately reflects the essence of these caresses. This is truly altruism - that is, the desire to care for the welfare of a loved one, even neglecting their own personal interests. But in this case, we are not talking about neglecting one's own interests, since the oroaltruist also experiences satisfaction from the realization that it is thanks to caresses that the partner (sha) experiences unusually strong sensations.
Oral caresses enrich sexual life and give a lot of new indescribable sensations.
The ancient Greek poetess Sappho sang of oral sex, as there is nothing in the world more tender than the touch of the tongue. So did all the ancient Greeks. Cunnilingus was also highly favored by ancient Chinese women.
In terms of the intensity of sensations and their duration, the pleasure given by oral caresses is immeasurably higher than during sexual intercourse.
“The genitals are extremely sensitive to the touch of the tongue, sucking, kissing and biting. Most women are aroused by oral clitoral stimulation, which involves lightly touching the body and head of the clitoris with the tongue, as well as quick licking and sucking movements. both cautious and stronger.” (A.Bova and E.Savina).
A woman comes to the priest:
- Father, the sin is on me!
- What sin, my daughter?
- I took it in my mouth.
- How much did you keep, my daughter?
- 10 minutes...
The priest counted something in his mind and said:
- Three times "Our Father", three circles running around the church and the sin is removed.
Another woman comes. Similar conversation. The priest counted for a long time, moving his lips and bending his fingers, then he says:
- Come on, my daughter, hold it for another three minutes, otherwise I get a very complex fraction!
Joke
The famous Casanova always conquered women precisely with skillful oral caresses and his ingenuity, and by no means with the gigantic size of his manhood. His genitals were of the most ordinary size. He said: "... I understood the nature of a woman, I learned the laws of female love and the fact that the whole sexual essence of a woman is based on caresses, without which her uterus may not open."
M.Kinessa writes: “Why should kissing the genitals of a loved one be considered a shameful act? And what is better than cheeks, lips, a hand, on which there are many times fewer erogenous nerve endings? And there should not be any shame, even signs of shame. On the contrary, in a loving family, this should become the norm of sexual life, a sexual delicacy, the first sign of deep respect for partners from each other. What is there to be ashamed of? Why is a woman not ashamed when she spreads her legs and allows a man to insert his cock into her vagina and lay down on her? Why should she know only the rough sexual intercourse, reminiscent of the mating of animals? Why shouldn't she experience the sweetest caresses associated with kissing her clit? Kissing by a man and a woman of each other's genitals is the most beautiful and best means of inciting passion in the genitals.”
At the 22nd World Conference of Sexologists in 1969, the English sexologist Gray, in his report “On the state of modern sexual culture in Europe,” said that sexual culture in the West has advanced significantly - wives use oral sex, but husbands also successfully use the tongue caresses of their wives. According to statistics, families where wives use mouth and tongue caresses are listed as the most durable families today. And it is absolutely certain that women who receive oral sex are absolutely faithful to their husbands and are not prone to adultery under any circumstances.
At an international oral sex competition, Madame won first place, who collected a Rubik's cube in her mouth with her tongue.
Joke
All modern sexologists approve and recommend kissing the genitals of a beloved partner, rightly considering them the most physiological and tender in the entire arsenal of sexual sophistication. There is no damage to morality with the mutual caresses of two loving people, everything that causes tenderness and affection of spouses to each other is all moral. This is beneficial not only in the spiritual sense, bringing together partners who give each other pleasure, but also in terms of health benefits, because in the absence of sexual satisfaction, both men and women experience various disorders.
Oral caresses are especially important for a woman. A man can regularly experience an orgasm during normal sexual intercourse, since a woman's vagina gives him all the necessary stimulation, and oral sex for him is a “sexual delicacy” and variety.
The vast majority of women without clitoral caresses cannot experience orgasm during normal intercourse, since sexual satisfaction in many women is directly related to the stimulation of this organ of sexual pleasure, so caresses on the clitoris become of paramount importance for them. And this has nothing to do with sexual coldness, this is the normal reactivity of most women.
Even after the mutual cooling of the spouses, the use of oral sex can restore their attraction to each other and sexual harmony. It happens that even after many years, when there is no intimate relationship between spouses, harmonious relationships can be restored.
Galina and Maxim met when she was 18 years old, he was 26. Maxim had no erection problems then, but he did not refuse cunnilingus either.
Before him, Gali had two sexual partners, but the closeness left her indifferent. She has a clitoral version of orgasm, so the hasty frictions of her former inept partners left her indifferent. With Max it was different. Having barely met, they left for his parents' dacha and spent two weeks together, happy and in love. From the very first time during cunnilingus, Galya had a long orgasm, and while, in her words, she was “shaking all over” from the experienced sensation, Maxim had sexual intercourse, and it seemed to Galya that her pleasure continued and even intensified. Her excitement did not subside, and if Maxim, after sexual intercourse, again caressed her with his tongue, then Gali again had an orgasm. And so it happened several times.
She recalls that period as a “celebration of the body”, a complete unity of bodies and souls. She liked everything about Maxim, she considered him handsome, the most intelligent and attractive of all the men with whom she had a chance to communicate. Upon returning, they immediately applied to the registry office and three months later became husband and wife.
They lived well for 14 years, but from about the age of 40, Maxim had problems with erection. Not with every sexual intercourse, but sometimes the erection was sluggish, and Maxim could not insert the penis and carry out intercourse. He used to do cunnilingus to his wife before intercourse, because otherwise Galina could not achieve orgasm. But several times after cunnilingus, Maxim was unable to have sexual intercourse. For some reason, he decided to refuse the help of his wife, and if he felt that his erection was sluggish, he would tell his wife that he was already satisfied that she was well and did not want intercourse.
Galina had no idea about anything, since he had never had such problems before. She was grateful to her husband for the pleasure she had brought, kissed and hugged him, whispered kind words to him, and Maxim considered himself the most unfortunate person in the world. Most of all, he was afraid that his wife would guess everything, feeling his weak erection. Because of this, more and more often, under various plausible pretexts, he began to avoid intimate relationships.
Maxim constantly thought that he was probably already old, and his wife was still young (she was six years younger than him) and was in the prime of her sexuality; sooner or later she will understand that her husband has already “been out of print”. He lost his peace and sleep, he couldn’t concentrate at work and caught himself thinking that he was constantly wondering if his wife had a lover, why she didn’t show initiative, because before Galya was much more active in bed and began to caress him first, and now she kisses him before going to sleep and calmly falls asleep.
Tormented by jealousy, he even tried to follow his wife, waited for her near work and quietly followed her, but she calmly drove home or stopped by shops on her way. He told her that he was leaving on a business trip, but that same evening he came home with a falsely cheerful smile, saying that he had canceled the trip. Convinced that his wife did not have a lover, he, however, did not calm down. It seemed to him that Galina would not endure for so long without an intimate relationship and sooner or later she would find a replacement for him. Maxim became absent-minded, thoughtful, and answered the questions of his colleagues inappropriately. After suffering like this for two years, he asked for help.
Later, his wife came to the reception. Galina had long noticed that her husband was depressed, did not seek intimacy with her, and suspected that he had taken a mistress. Upon learning that he was worried about a weak erection and that is why he avoids intimacy, fearing to fail, Galina laughed: “Yes, why do I need his erection! I can do without sexual intercourse at all. For me - even if Maxim were a castrato, but he was just as gentle with me and caressed me just as before, then I don’t need anything else: ”
The problem of this couple was solved. It turned out that Maxim, although he had a fairly wide range of acceptability, for some reason did not practice fellatio. He told me that with his former mistresses he had experienced fellatio, but either the mistresses were inexperienced, or he had a prejudice against fellatio, but with Galina he did not want to have oral sex. “Not that I was a hypocrite, but it just seemed to me that in my situation asking my wife for oral sex would mean admitting my complete failure. I still wanted to be a man and be able to have a normal sex life.”
They tried fellatio, it didn't work right away. Maxim did not leave the feeling of some kind of artificiality of this type of stimulation. It seemed to him that Galina herself, who had no experience of fellatio before, did not like it, and maybe even disgusted, and she agreed to it only to help him achieve an erection. Maxim tried to hide his embarrassment with joking words: “Well, let's start treatment, as the doctor told us.” At first he was constrained, all the time looking at his penis, waiting for an erection. Galina tried very hard, but her husband's attitude interfered with her. She felt his reaction, and since she herself was not aroused at that moment, she also treated the oral stimulation of her husband's penis as a “treatment”.
After trying several times, they came to the reception discouraged. Conducted a course of sex therapy and then they reversed the order of sexual satisfaction. At first, Maxim brought Galina to orgasm with the help of cunnilingus, and then the grateful Galina did fellatio in a completely different way. She herself said that she felt such boundless tenderness and gratitude for her husband, which she did “with inspiration”.
Oral sex can solve many problems. It happens that with manual (hand) or other stimulation, an erection in a man is insufficient, but oral stimulation causes a good erection.
The artist, completely unaware of the role, goes on stage, sits down on a chair.
The prompter tells him the words of his role:
- Yes, Fedor, my hands are not the same.
Actor:
- Yes, Fedor, my working hands are not the same, these hands are not the same.
Prompter:
- And the eyes too.
Actor:
- And my eyes, Fyodor, are also not the same, my eyes are not the same ...
The prompter takes a glass of tea. The actor repeats his movements. The prompter waves his hands, showing that this is not necessary, and whispers what the actor should do: “Get up slowly ...”. The actor looks at the prompter in bewilderment. He makes movements with his hands, trying to explain that the actor should get up from his chair.
The actor, continuing to sit, puts his hands on his lower abdomen:
- And finally, about the main thing, Fedor ...
Joke
Among modern young people there are no ardent opponents of oral sex. In any case, among mentally healthy men, I have not met such people. Only people with repressed sexuality or mental disorders vehemently oppose fellatio.
But among the representatives of the older generation there are many ardent opponents of fellatio. In fact, they simply did not try, and therefore reject.
Once I gave an interview to a journalist, and she said: “No, I will not write this. The editor-in-chief will have a heart attack if I write that you teach patients how to give blowjobs.” Recently, I talked to a young, advanced journalist and said that I do live sex therapy, perhaps the only sexologist in Russia, and I brought up a conversation with the above-mentioned journalist, of course. without naming either her name or publication. We talked with him “for life” for more than two hours, moreover, he came to interview me as an author of detective novels, and not as a sexologist. However, in an interview, he published these words of mine, and many people of advanced years regarded this as shocking. Yes, what shocking can it be if this is my work! As well as any other sexologist! People with repressed sexuality and a narrow range of acceptability need to seek help from a professional, and not impose their hypocritical views on society, condemning what is not available to them.
A woman comes to church.
- Father, the sin is on me ... I took it in my hands.
- Go to the river on Sunday, put your hands down, your sin will be washed away by water.
On Sunday, only male parishioners came to church, without wives. The priest sends the deacon to find out where the women are.
- Father, all the women stand near the river, wet their hands in the water, and mother rinses her mouth.
Joke
It is worth a man, no matter how old he is, to experience fellatio at least once, and he will not only cease to be an opponent of oral sex, but will also beg that his partner pamper him with this exquisite caress.
“A man will never exchange his sexual partner, skilled in oroaltruistic caresses, for any other woman,” writes Polish sexologist M. Kinessa.
The same is true for women. Many, having tried it once, then prefer oral sex to ordinary intercourse, or oral sex becomes an integral part of foreplay.
Even after cooling or betrayal of one of the spouses, as a result of which the changer acquires a certain experience, it is possible to restore harmonious sexual relations.
- Have you heard scientists claim that Eve was unfaithful to Adam?
- Yes, it can not be! There were no other men besides Adam then!
- And here are “other men”! Didn't they teach you at school that man descended from a monkey?!
Joke
At first, Marina's family life with Mikhail was going well. Her husband loved her, she considered him a decent person, a good husband and father, appreciated her husband for his kindness and attention. After the second birth, she experienced severe bleeding with a threat to her life (she had multiple fibroids). Given that she already has two children, the gynecologists decided to amputate Marina's uterus.
After that, something broke in her. She hid from her husband that her uterus was removed, fearing that he would not receive satisfaction - like many people, Marina believed that such an operation affects the feelings of a man. It seemed to her that intercourse would be painful for her; during sexual intercourse, the woman tensely waited for the fact that she was about to be hurt. For some reason, she decided that if she had pain, then the question of a second operation might arise and she was very afraid of this.
Because of all these fears, Marina began to avoid intimacy. She never experienced orgasm, so abstinence did not bother her. Mikhail always treated his wife with care, and after several of her refusals under the pretext of pain and ill health, he no longer insisted. Recently, Marina has been depressed and sad all the time, this also affected Mikhail.
Once, when his wife and children were resting in the country, Svetlana, Marina's cousin, came to visit them. At the request of his wife, he took the guest around Moscow, and in the evenings they drank a little, chatted about trifles and told each other about their lives. He immediately liked Svetlana. Affected and prolonged sexual abstinence. And, as often happens when a man and a woman spend a lot of time together, they were drawn to each other, and they became lovers.
Svetlana is 6 years younger than her cousin and turned out to be an experienced lover. After the first time, she told the newly-made lover that it was high time for him to abandon such a primitive technique, which is practiced only by "dense scoops", and taught him all the tricks of oral sex.
Mikhail did not dare to immediately try everything he had learned with his wife. After seeing off his mistress, he went to the dacha that same evening and, hugging his wife, whispered that during these two weeks he missed her very much, caressed his wife for a long time and was happy to make sure that he managed to excite her. She did not guess anything, deciding that her husband really missed being apart. For the first time in many months, Mikhail again spoke affectionate words to his wife. Later, Marina told me how she was worried about her fullness, it seemed to her that she had become so ugly that her husband was no longer attracted to her. But Mikhail was not embarrassed by her fullness. Gradually, he taught his wife to oral sex. She never found out who taught him this technique, and was sure that her husband learned himself, wanting to please her.
Marina began to regularly experience orgasms. She immediately cheered up, took care of herself, lost weight and got prettier. Many years have passed since then, but now she looks much better than when she was depressed and sad. I remember her former expression, with the corners of her lips downturned and the crease between her eyebrows. Now this is a completely different woman, blooming and happy. The fact that her uterus was amputated, Marina has long forgotten, and for her feelings it does not matter.
Married couple after a cool party.
- Darling, didn't you give me a great session of oral sex in the bathroom?
- Look at what time, dear.
Joke
In the preface to his book The Eroticization of Marriage Life and Sex Therapy, Dr Janis Zalitis quotes a letter from one of his patients with the title: Why didn't I kill my wife? The patient, seeing how his wife was caressed in all intimate places by her lover, how she blossomed under his caresses, had already picked up a gun, deciding whom to kill first, but changed his mind in time, realizing that he himself had never caressed his wife like that; she agreed to his demands with silent obedience and lay down with him as if on a chopping block. Realizing this, he and his wife turned to Dr. Zalitis, and although at first the couple sat in his office, hating each other, the doctor’s recommendations helped them save the family, the wife experienced an orgasm with her husband for the first time, and both spouses did not even think about looking for new ones. partners. Ten years later, this patient writes a letter of thanks to his doctor. There are many such cases in the practice of any sexologist.
Oral caresses are recommended for partners of any age, and, with age, their importance increases due to a decrease in physical activity and illness, when heavy physical exertion is contraindicated. In these cases, oral sex is indispensable. And sexual discharge after oral sex has a beneficial effect on the general well-being of a person.
Mutual oral sex can be used if, for some reason, normal intercourse is undesirable, for example, it is painful for a woman.
Everything that happens between two loving people during intimacy, everything that brings them spiritually closer and brings them pleasure, everything that happens in the marital bedroom and does not go beyond the bed of love - everything is completely natural and necessary. Hypocritical views on the behavior of partners during sexual games and caresses are completely inappropriate.
A young, inexperienced spermatozoon asks an experienced veteran:
- How to distinguish an egg?
Look for the black dot. As you see, immediately fly to her and ask: “Are you an egg?” If the answer is “yes”, immediately merge with her!
The young man immediately jumped into the subject. It got to the point. He flies in, looks - a huge black dot. Headlong flies to her, asks:
Are you an egg?
- No, I'm caries!
Joke
Conditions for oral sex
Wash the forbidden fruit before eating.
The first necessary condition for orogenital contacts should be the hygiene of the genitals.
If you take a shower once a week and have oral sex in the stairwell or in the attic, then this is really absolutely unacceptable. In a car or other inappropriate place, oral sex without preliminary hygiene measures is also unlikely to cause aesthetic and sensual pleasure.
For partners who have no idea about the hygiene of the genital organs, oral sex is not only not recommended, but contraindicated.
An unpleasant smell can completely discourage desire and interest not only in oral sex, but also in sex in general and in such a slut partner. And even more so, it is unacceptable when a woman is such a slut.
A shower before intimacy, no matter what method of sexual satisfaction the partners choose, is strictly required. No need to pour half a bottle of perfume on yourself, it is not necessary to spray the genitals with deodorant.
The genitals should be simply clean, and then their natural smell is very pleasant. Many men talk about this, and it even excites them.
The holy place must be clean.
Kostya and Natasha, both 19 years old. Students. They live together for six months, they are going to get married. Kostya was the first to come with a naive question - is it normal that he wants to have oral sex with his girlfriend.
“I love kissing her so much, I love the way she smells,” Kostya said, “but when I try to do this, she shrinks all over, moves her legs tightly, pulls the sheet over herself and pushes me away. I can’t forcefully caress her, but I don’t know how to explain that I like it myself. It got to the point that we began to quarrel because of this, and Natasha called me a “pervert”. To prove to her that I'm not a "pervert," I put on a porno cassette, where a man kisses his partner downstairs in the same way, and she squealed: "Turn off this abomination immediately! And I know that this is not a perversion, only we are so notorious, but you can’t prove this to Natasha, when I try to talk to her, she covers her ears with her hands and says that she doesn’t want to hear anything.
The most remarkable thing is that when Kostya persuaded his beloved to come for a consultation, it turned out that Natasha was not only well aware of oral sex and that it was not a “perversion”. She dreamed of trying with Kostya, but was shy, believing that Kostya would compare her with beautiful porn stars, and she didn’t like her own figure at all - her breasts were supposedly too small. And she generally considered her genitals disgusting.
Since Kostya had already attempted cunnilingus more than once, Natasha hoped that someday this would come true, but for some reason she was sure that a woman should desperately resist this, otherwise he would think that she was “lecherous” or had already tried with someone -something else.
In the evening, Natasha always took a shower, washed herself thoroughly with soap, including her genitals, and nevertheless, she was very afraid that there might be some kind of unpleasant smell, Kostya would be disgusted to touch her genitals with her tongue, because of this he would stop loving her and quit. She even wanted to spray her genitals with perfume, but she was afraid that Kostya would misunderstand her and decide that she perfumed herself on purpose - supposedly she herself offers him cunnilingus.
“I won’t even give this one a sniff!”
Helping this couple was not difficult, but you can see how much prejudice exists even among young people due to false ideas about what is allowed and what is not. And for other couples, such prejudices and a narrow range of acceptability can be a serious obstacle not only to oral caresses, but to any form of sexuality in general, except for primitive intercourse in a normal position.
Patients often ask me questions related to the fear of an unpleasant smell, which, in their opinion, can cause a negative attitude of a partner. They do not neglect the shower and personal hygiene, they are just afraid that the vagina may have a specific smell that the partner will not like. According to doctors, the vagina of a healthy woman is self-cleaning, and there is no unpleasant odor. If there is one, then the woman has gynecological diseases that need to be treated.
So, the first necessary condition for orogenital contacts, as in general with any intimacy, should be the hygiene of the genitals.
By their purity, the genitals of a man and a woman before oral sex should be as clean as the face.
In the West, some women use special deodorants to irrigate the vagina and ask doctors if they can or should use them. Do not use any deodorants to irrigate the vagina.
The natural smell of a woman is very attractive to a man. Of course, the genitals must be perfectly clean.
Moreover, the problem of smell for some reason confuses women much more often than men. Men do not ask about this at all, therefore, this does not bother them.
Some women irrigate the hair on the genitals with perfume or other substances to give the genitals a pleasant, slightly stimulating smell. If a man likes any light smell of perfume, then this is not contraindicated, the only condition is that perfume should not get on the genital mucosa, as this can cause a burn. You can irrigate only the pubic area or the inner thighs. But it is important not to overdo it, as perfumes containing alcohol and aromatic components can get on the mucous membrane of the glans penis, which will cause burns or irritation.
Many men do not like any perfume, preferring the natural smell of a clean body.
“Vaginal deodorants can be used, but only the deodorant must be sprayed no closer than a hundred meters from a woman,” jokes American sexologist Marty Klein.
Women as a whole pay much more attention to genital hygiene than men. Of course, there are exceptions here and there, but here I mean general trends. Not every man performs daily ablutions with soap, pushing the foreskin aside. And for a woman, similar events are familiar, and every self-respecting woman performs them several times a day.
The second necessary condition for effective oral sex should be the experience of a partner (partner) who caresses her loved one's mouth.
Even such a flexible and delicate organ as the tongue can cause not only pleasure, but also pain.
The pressure of the tongue on the erogenous zone should be minimal, light and gentle. Any rudeness or haste, strong pressure or excessive suction will lead to the exact opposite effect - the partner (partner) will experience pain, not pleasure, and his (her) excitement will quickly fade away.
Conditions of oral caress: tenderness of pressure, constant movement and variety of touches.
Two Georgians solve a crossword puzzle.
- The female genital organ of five letters.
- Vertically or horizontally?
- Horizontally.
- Then the mouth.
Joke
Many men don't practice cunnilingus because they don't know how. Some tried - it did not work, the partner did not experience an orgasm, and they refused this method of sexual satisfaction, they say, why try, since the woman does not experience anything.
So, dear men, there are no women who do not experience pleasant sensations with this caress, if it is used by a skilled partner.
The prejudice of the stronger sex regarding cunnilingus was influenced by the conservative views of sexually retarded people: they say that sexual intercourse is normal, and oral sex is almost a perversion, and a woman is supposed to be satisfied with intercourse if her partner has a normal erection, and if she does not enjoy it, then frigid. And women themselves sometimes consider themselves sexually inferior if they cannot experience an orgasm during intercourse.
The opinion is fundamentally wrong.
I repeat once again that oral sex (cunnilingus and fellatio) is a complete way of sexual satisfaction.
The vast majority of women cannot experience orgasm without additional clitoral stimulation. Previously, the female orgasm was divided into clitoral and vaginal, and even now sex therapists traditionally use these terms, but only to emphasize which of the main erogenous zones is the most excitable - the vagina or the clitoris. The work of the luminaries of sexology has established that even during coitus - in certain positions and with a certain anatomical structure of the female genital organs - indirect stimulation of the clitoris by the root of the penis is possible. In this case, a woman, if her vagina is excitable, does not require additional stimulation of the clitoris. However, there are few women with such a structure of the genitals, and the positions of sexual intercourse necessary for such stimulation are not known to all men (see the section “Non-boring” sexual intercourse positions”).
The same is true for women. Some do not practice fellatio, because they believe that a man is quite enough and sexual intercourse. In general, this is true, but why not diversify the sexual menu? Black bread is loved by many people, but this does not mean that you need to give up cakes.
There are women who, unable to overcome their aversion to the penis, are pre-set negatively and become indignant when a partner asks for fellatio. The most important thing here is to overcome your prejudice. I assure you, when you try, you will give up false installations.
Giving pleasure is much more pleasant than receiving.. And for a loving woman, God himself ordered to pamper her beloved.
More than once I heard from my patients: “No way, doctor! I can’t even think!” And then it turned out that there was nothing to worry about. Moreover, a woman may like it. At the same time, some themselves experience pleasant sensations, while others are pleased to give pleasure to a partner.
I also heard the opposite statements: “What a pity that I did not try this before! How much we have lost because we did not know!”
So, until you try it yourself, you should not tune in negatively in advance.
Here I write mainly for older people. Young people do not need to be persuaded to have oral sex, they are without a complex and prejudices, and so they constantly practice it.
Among my patients were people of very old age who believed that they had long overcome the sting of the flesh. For example, the spouse has problems with potency, and the wife put up with it. Or the spouse no longer (as it seems to her) desires to have sex.
Neighbor to neighbor:
- You don't work anywhere, men go to you. How do you earn your living?
- Oral sex.
- What? You suck, don't you?
- What is your salary?
- 600 rubles.
- So it's you sucking, and I'm doing oral sex.
Joke
“What sex! one of my patients told me. - I am grandmother already!" So what? And grandmothers, too, should not deprive themselves of carnal joys. And by the way, when I nevertheless convinced my grandparents to try it, they were transformed and rejuvenated. Even with a reduced potency of the spouse and both, it is possible to have oral sex.
It is also useful for women who have long gone menopause. At the same time, the glands of the vestibule do not secrete enough lubrication, the genitals are dry, the mucous membranes become thinner and cracks easily occur, and therefore ordinary intercourse is painful for a woman. And there are no contraindications for cunnilingus. Even at sixty years of age and later, a woman can experience an orgasm. In one of my books, I wrote about a young bisexual man who, for the soul, had sex with men, and for earnings - with ladies of advanced years. And then I received a lot of letters asking: “Dilya Derdovna, please give me the address of this young man...” Is the hint clear, dear women?
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