Non-verbal communication of a woman.

Non-verbal sexual signals of men are quite primitive - so learning to recognize them is not so difficult.

Not so long ago, summer finally began to resemble summer, and with the heat comes the time for a lot of pleasant things, including sexual or near-sexual adventures. The sexual activity of human organisms increases in direct proportion to the ambient temperature and inversely to the distance to the nearest beach.

The human body is so arranged that it needs to signal its states and intentions to the surrounding universe. Especially when it comes to marriage games and concerns the choice of a sexual partner. Each region of our planet has its own differences in courtship rituals. But if we omit the variations of cultural norms outside the brackets, then in the bottom line we get a fairly typical set of sexual signals that is characteristic of almost all nations and nationalities.

But first you need to answer three simple questions, and then move on to practical examples.

Question 1. Why do we need sexual signals?

The fact is that sexual courtship is energetically very expensive process. And in conditions of strict natural selection, this may turn out to be too dangerous an investment. He spent a lot of energy on seduction - there was not enough energy to escape from the saber-toothed tiger. I did not get reciprocity from the female, and your individual gene recipe is derived from the cookbook of evolution without the right to renew. In other words, individuals who poorly read sexual signals and made a mistake in choosing a sexual partner eventually died out without leaving offspring.

Question 2. Are they hidden, these same sexual signals?

Sexual signals are designed to let others know about their intention. Nature is wise; it will not create an unnecessary system. But nature is one thing, and personal individuality is another. Not all individuals are equally savvy. And not all participants in the mating season transmit their signals with equal strength and certainty. This is affected by:

- age features. In childhood, we simply don’t notice these signals, in youth we can misinterpret, taking what we wish for reality, and in old age ... However, we will not talk about sad things.

- current hormonal state. The young human male, whose last sex was a few years ago, will perceive any gestures of individuals of the opposite sex as the most frank invitations.

- individual characteristics. Like it or not, but there are people who have a more or less developed instinct for the nuances of human communication. Communication in every sense, including sexually. And only experience can help here, but it also has a very limited range of possibilities.

Question 3. Why the presence of sexual signals does not mean guaranteed sex?

In fact, a sexual signal has a wider range of purposes than just inviting anyone to sex. Conditionally sexual signals can be divided into three groups. For simplicity, we call them signals of the first level, second and third. And the signals of the first and second levels do not aim at sex as such. Their task is to maintain the context of sexual conversation and move on to the third level of signals. Which is designed for further continuation of contact in bed.

1. Level 1 Signals created to show that a person of the opposite sex is seen. These are the simplest and most harmless signals. Such as pulling the abdomen in men or adjusting hair in women. The purpose of such signals is to fix themselves in the focus of attention of a potential partner. Often these are completely unconscious impulses and there are no intentions behind them.

2. Level 2 Signals talk about the desire to stand out from other sexual competitors. The goal is to show your attractiveness and stand out against the general background.

3. Signals 3 levels. The most unambiguous and challenging behavioral signs. They speak of a clearly defined intention to satisfy sexual arousal.

Let's start with men, as their language of sexual signals is more primitive and it will be easier and faster to overcome it (in the sense of learning).

First Level Sexual Signals

1. Pose

As soon as a man notices a woman whom he liked and wants his attention, he immediately tries to acquire the external contour of a viable male. The stomach is pulled in, the back is straightened, the chest is straightened, the shoulders rise and get apart to the side. A man becomes taller, slimmer and looks more significant. The key task is to become, if not the largest male, then at least larger than usual.

2. The motion vector

The man’s body turns in the direction of the woman who interested him. Men prefer to look directly into the eyes of danger, and in this case this is true. The man turns around to face the woman to see her better.

But there are cases when it is inconvenient to turn around for various reasons (the organization of space or the rule of morality does not allow). However, even here the subconscious mind finds a way out - in the direction of the desired woman, the feet unfold. One or both.

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3. The need to tidy clothes

Men most often straighten a tie. Although the range of signals related to clothes is wider - men unconsciously shake off dust particles, fiddle with shirt cuffs, straighten jackets - nevertheless, an attempt to straighten a tie is a leader among gestures.

4. Work with hair

Another common symptom is when a man straightens his hair. Usually this is expressed in smoothing the hair with your hand, which indicates a man’s plans to reduce the distance between him and the woman who liked.

Signals of the second level contact.

1. Reducing the distance. The very first sign that a man is trying to stand out among his own kind and attract the attention of a woman he likes is an attempt to get closer. In this case, men use any reason for this.

2. The mating roar of the male. Usually a man begins to speak louder than usual and so that the most successful jokes, sayings, tirades reach the dear ears of the chosen one. Often men in such a situation begin to laugh too loudly, even if the joke is pretty bearded.

3. Change the pose. Men either try to spread their legs wider and take a more stable position (flirting and seduction is a man’s fight with fate, and during the fight you need to stand firmly on your feet), or vice versa they demonstrate frank imposingness and relaxation. Their postures are either too stable-symmetrical, or openly relaxed-relaxed.

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4. A long look. This sign speaks for itself. A man is trying to attract the attention of a woman by looking at her. Maybe he just has poor eyesight, but usually a long look speaks of the desire to receive reciprocal eye contact. By the nature of the response, the man can conclude whether the woman is ready for further measures for rapprochement or whether it is necessary to look for another victim.

5. Demonstration of the thumbs. This gesture is most often seen when a man hides his hands in his pockets during a conversation with a woman, but his thumbs stick out. We all know what Dr. Freud could say about protruding elongated objects. And he is right, but only partially: the demonstration of the thumbs, like the demonstration of any oblong subject, is not so much erotic as hierarchical in nature. Thus, men express their aggressiveness, dominance, authority. It is no coincidence that such a gesture is often found during a purely male conversation. Are they not preoccupied with sexual issues at this time?

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Another common option is to put your thumbs on the belt. But in general, any gestures in the genital area indicate the intimate nature of the conversation. And if the conversation takes place between a man and a woman, then they definitely have a sexual connotation. They can discuss futures prices or talk about environmental issues or modern education, but if their gestures are formed in the lower abdomen, then they really speak exclusively of mutual sympathy. It’s just that they use the wrong words for this.

Signals of the contact of the third level.

Here we will talk about signals that have frankly sexual subtext.

1. Copy gestures. At a certain stage of communication, a man begins to copy the non-verbal behavior of a woman. He becomes a kind of her mirror. He repeats her movements, the inclination of the body, the nature of the posture and muscle tone. Even their breathing, timbre and speech speed become identical.

2. Touching and stroking. At the level of contact of the third level, men open their arms. A man will try to touch either his chosen one, or himself, or simply some object. Touching and stroking speak of the excitement that has arisen and the desire to realize this excitement. The fact is that with sexual arousal, our skin becomes more sensitive, and we begin to get more pleasure from touching and stroking. We feel sharper and deeper feel all the pleasure of this process. Therefore, it is no coincidence that men begin to stroke the leg of a glass of wine. They really would like to stroke the other leg, but until it comes to the final, you can get pleasure from the glass.

3. Removing clothes. Almost literally. If at the first level a man straightened his tie in order to look better, then at the third level the tie begins to really interfere. From excitement, the blood circulates more, and the clamped collar of the shirt creates an unconscious feeling of discomfort. At this stage, the tie is no longer being corrected, but they are trying to loosen its knot.

Another of the conspiratorial gestures is a clock game. Men take off their watches and play with a bracelet. Or buttons, zippers and fasteners on clothes. In other words, a man subconsciously hurries to get rid of clothes, since the body requires that morality prohibits.

A man is a polygamous hunter by nature. He needs as many sexual victims as possible - and regularly. But this happens not because he can do much, but because he wants a lot. In general, their non-verbal sexual signaling is rather primitive and one does not need to have a deep knowledge of behavioral psychology in order to understand which of the men is more strongly covered by the hormonal wave.

Of course, male sexual signaling is more diverse than described on the blog, but it is not possible to describe absolutely all the nuances and interpretations within our format. However, the most key and common symptoms are named and described.

The division of sexual signals into three levels, by and large, is rather arbitrary, since individual characteristics (age, experience and condition of the body) also leave their mark here. Experienced seducers who know sexual signals can use them in practice, swapping places, using them sooner or later as laid down by nonverbal psychology, making women feel bewildered, and therefore more vulnerable.

But women also do not remain in debt and respond to men with a much more sophisticated, complex and unpredictable system of sexual signals. Which, admittedly, men read with great difficulty.

I will talk about these female secrets in the second part of the blog about hidden sexual signals.

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Non-verbal communication is a non-verbal form of communication, including gestures, facial expressions, postures, visual contact, the timbre of voice, touch, and conveying figurative and emotional content.

The language of non-verbal communication components

Non-verbal language is a type of communication when words are not used: facial expressions, gestures, intonations - the most important part of communication. At times, you can say a lot more with these tools than with words. The Australian specialist in “body language” A. Pease claims that words transmit 7% of information, sound means (including tone of voice, intonation, etc.) - 38%, facial expressions, gestures, postures (non-verbal communication) - 55 % In other words, we can say that it is important not what is said, but how it is said.
It consists of: tone of voice, timbre, pitch, speed, intonation and other various characteristics of non-verbalics, song, your appearance, your clothes, your pose, expression of your face, your smile or lack thereof, your look, your movements, dances, your gait, depth and speed of your breathing, your gestures during a conversation, nodding and shaking your head, the direction of your arms and legs, applause, touching during a conversation, shaking hands and hugs, behavior.

Non-verbal means of communication

First - it is necessary to show interest in the upcoming conversation, your willingness to cooperate, your openness to new ideas and suggestions. When communicating, one should pay attention to posture, view, gestures - as these are the most obvious methods of non-verbal communication. Your behavior should be natural, not tense, should not cause your interlocutor to strain and wait for a dirty trick.

When communicating with the interlocutor, you should not take a pose that shows your closeness to communication and aggressiveness: these are frowning eyebrows, elbows widely spread on the table, clenched into fists or fingers joined together, crossed legs and arms. Do not wear glasses with tinted glasses, especially at the first meeting, if there is no urgent need for it - bright sun, strong wind, because, without seeing the communication partner’s eyes, your interlocutor may feel uncomfortable, since a significant amount of information is for him closed, and the person begins to involuntarily strain. As a result of all this, the atmosphere of direct communication can be disturbed.
The main non-verbal means of communication are gestures. Symbol gestures, illustrator gestures, control gestures, adapter gestures.

Gestures-symbols - are very limited by the framework of a particular culture or locality, and are the simplest methods of non-verbal communication.

Illustrator gestures - used to explain what was said (for example, pointing by hand), are also simple tricks of non-verbal communication.

Gestures-regulators - play an important role at the beginning and end of a conversation. One of these regulatory gestures is a handshake. This is a traditional and ancient form of greeting. These gestures are more complex non-verbal communication techniques.
Gestures - adapters - accompany our feelings and emotions. They resemble children's reactions and manifest themselves in situations of stress, excitement, become the first signs of experiences - nervous sorting out of clothes, tapping with a foot, pen, etc.
So, facial expressions, postures and gestures and the language of his body will help to talk about his interlocutor.

Facial expressions

Most often, the main object of research is the face of a person. The study of basic facial conditions, such as joy, anger, fear, disgust, surprise, suffering, has developed a unit of analysis of facial expression - a mimic sign. The combination of these features forms the structure of various facial expressions. Consider the most typical emotional states.

The first and often main impressions of a person can be made from observing the grimaces of his face.

Pleasure - arises when relishing the taste experience. The most pronounced facial expressions occur in those people who have developed kinesthetic perception abilities.

The grimace test (lips are extended forward, can be parted or loosely closed) occurs during assessment, examination.

The protest (the corners of the mouth are slightly raised, the mouth may be slightly ajar) is often accompanied by wide-open eyes.

Surprise - the mouth is open as much as possible. If this grimace is accompanied by wide-open eyes, eyebrows raised up, horizontal folds on the forehead, it expresses the highest degree of surprise - astonishment.

Concern (lips stretched into a "tube") is often accompanied by an evaluative look, stared at nothing.

An open mouth (a "sagging" jaw) means not only surprise, but also the inability to make a decision at the moment, the inability to volitional efforts. This grimace can also express relaxation, passivity.

An emphasized closed mouth (strained) indicates a firmness of character, often a lack of desire to continue the conversation, and a denial of the possibility of compromise.

A compressed mouth (often whitened lips are pulled in, a strip of mouth is narrow) means rejection, denial, perseverance and even cruelty, stubbornness and frustration.

An “elongated" face occurs when the hanging corners of the lips are relaxed. Such a relaxation indicates disappointment, sadness, longing, lack of optimism. The degree of relaxation, complemented by dull eyes, ajar mouth, vertical folds on the forehead indicates the depth of such an emotional state, up to suffering. The lowered corners of the lips with a tense mouth (the gap between the lips is closed) characterizes an active-negative position, anger, neglect, disgust, annoyance, ridicule, mockery.

Emotions are usually associated with facial expressions as follows:
   . surprise - raised eyebrows, wide open eyes, the tips of the lips down, open mouth;
   . fear - raised and flattened eyebrows, wide open eyes, the corners of the lips are lowered and slightly retracted, the lips are extended to the sides, the mouth can be opened;
   . anger - eyebrows down, wrinkles on the forehead, eyes narrowed, lips closed, teeth clenched;
   . disgust - the eyebrows are down, the nose is wrinkled, the lower lip is protruded or raised and closed with the upper lip;
   . sadness - eyebrows are reduced, eyes are extinguished; often the corners of the lips are slightly lowered;
   . happiness - the eyes are calm, the corners of the lips are raised and are usually laid back.
   Look at the left half of the face

Artists and photographers have long known that a person’s face is asymmetrical, as a result of which the left and right sides of our faces reflect emotions in different ways. Recent studies have explained this by the fact that the left and right sides of the face are controlled by different hemispheres of the brain.

The left hemisphere controls speech and intellectual activity, the right controls emotions, imagination and sensory activity. The control connections intersect: the work of the left hemisphere is reflected on the right side of the face and gives it an expression that lends itself to more control. Therefore: everything that a person tries to demonstrate to others is displayed on the right half of his body, and what he really experiences is displayed on the left.

Since the work of the right hemisphere of the brain is reflected in the left half of the face, it is more difficult to hide feelings on this side. Positive emotions are reflected more evenly on both sides of the face, negative emotions are clearly expressed on the left side. However, both hemispheres of the brain function together, therefore, the described differences relate to the nuances of expression.

Symmetry in displaying feelings on the face usually speaks of the sincerity of human emotion, while the stronger the falsity, the more the right and left halves differ. In a word, if one side of the face is curved more than the other, then the person is definitely lying.

If the face of the interlocutor expresses a certain emotional state - anger, fear, joy - for more than ten seconds, know: this is false. Sincere expressions give way to lightning fast. Genuine surprise, for example, lasts no more than a second.

If in a conversation a person more often shows you the right half of his face, he hides his feelings or lies.

Involuntary reactions

These reactions are usually poorly controlled (although they try to mask them using various techniques) and are therefore very informative. Some of them are detected during hardware diagnostics of fraud, carried out by devices known under the generalized name of "lie detector" (as well as "polygraph").

A standard reading of these reactions is as follows:
   . redness of the face (sometimes spots) - shame, anger;
   . whitening of a person - fear, a sign of guilt;
   . dilated pupils - interest, pleasure, consent, severe pain;
   . narrowing of the pupils - displeasure, rejection;
   . increased heartbeats on the veins of the hands or arteries of the neck (twitching a tie on the neck due to an active heartbeat ...) - anxiety, fear, shame, deception;
   . decrease in heart rate - increased attention;
   . quick or shallow breathing - internal stress;
   . short breathing through the nose - anger;
   . respiratory failure, spasmodic throat movements and reflex swallowing of saliva - anxiety, shame, deception;
   . drying out of the mouth (swallowing, licking lips, thirst ...) - fear, deception;
   . sudden exposure of teeth - a sign of rage, aggressiveness;
   . perspiration, sweat - anger, embarrassment, nervousness, deception;
   . trembling (in fingers and toes, facial muscles ...) - internal tension, fear, deception;
   . frequent blinking - agitation, deception;
   . rumbling in the stomach - fear (not always, of course ...);
   . gritting his teeth - severe nervousness, stress, lack of ability to carry out his plan.
   Such reactions are usually easier to detect in men than in women, who are also more likely to cheat.

Gestures and poses

You can distinguish gestures and poses of openness, protection, reflection and evaluation, doubt and insecurity, disagreement, confidence, indicating the end of the meeting or a drag on time.
Gestures of openness
They testify to the sincerity of the interlocutor, his good-natured mood and the desire to speak frankly. This group of signs includes gestures "open hands" and "unbuttoning the jacket."

Open arms
The speaker made a gesture with his hand (or two) towards the listener, while the palm for a moment was turned up. This gesture is especially evident in children: when they are proud of their achievements, they openly show their hands. When they feel guilty, they hide their hands either behind their backs or in their pockets.

The gesture "open hands" demonstrates a desire to meet and establish contact. It is best to start this gesture, as it were, from the depths, from the level of the abdomen, with your hands pointing slightly up towards the interlocutor. It shows "nothing is hidden here" This gesture emphasizes the phrases "We are ready to cooperate with you", "You can trust us."

A gesture is more emotional and warm when the hands describe the trajectory from their "heart" to the "heart" of the interlocutor. This gesture emphasizes the relationship of interests, for example, the seller and the client. It can enhance the impact of phrases such as "We have specially prepared such a contract in your interests", "Our concern is to make you feel comfortable"

Unbuttoning his jacket

People who are open and friendly to you are often unfastened and even take off their jacket in your presence. Observations show that agreement between interlocutors in unbuttoned jackets is reached more often than between those who remained buttoned. The one who changed his mind in a favorable direction unclenched his hands and automatically unfastened his jacket.

When it becomes clear that an agreement or a positive solution to the issue under discussion is possible, as well as in the case when a positive impression of collaboration is created, the people unfasten their jackets, straighten their legs and move to the edge of the chair closer to the table, which separates them from the person sitting opposite them .

Gestures of suspicion and stealth
They testify to distrust, doubt about your innocence, about the desire to conceal something, to hide from you. In these cases, the interlocutor mechanically rubs his forehead, temples, chin, seeks to cover his face with his hands. But more often than not, he tries not to look at you, looking away to the side. Another indicator of stealth is the inconsistency of gestures. If a hostile or defensive person smiles, this means that he is trying to hide his insincerity with an artificial smile.

Gestures and protection poses
They show that the person in question feels a danger or threat. The most common gesture of this group are arms crossed on the chest. Hands can occupy three characteristic positions.

Simple cross arms

It is a universal gesture indicating the defensive or negative state of the interlocutor. In this case, you should review what you are doing or saying, For the interlocutor will begin to move away from the discussion.

It should also be taken into account that this gesture affects the behavior of others. If in a group of four or more people one crossed his arms, then soon you can expect others to follow suit. True, this gesture may simply mean calm and confidence, but this happens when the atmosphere of the conversation is not in conflict. If, in addition to arms crossed on the chest, the interlocutor still clenches his fingers into a fist, this indicates his hostility or offensive position. In this case, you need to slow down your speech and movements, as if inviting the interlocutor to follow your example. If this does not help, then try to change the topic of the conversation.

Arms crossed shoulders

Sometimes the hands stick into the shoulders or biceps so tightly that the fingers turn white. This means containing the negative reaction of the interlocutor to your position. He is ready to rush into battle and is having difficulty restraining himself so as not to interrupt you.

This technique is used when the interlocutors polemicize, trying at all costs to convince the other of the correctness of their position.

The pose of arms crossed is often accompanied by a cold, slightly narrowed look and an artificial smile. Such a facial expression says that your interlocutor is "at the limit". And if you do not take operational measures to reduce tension, a breakdown can occur.

Crossed arms with thumbs upright

This gesture transmits a double signal; the first is about a negative attitude (arms crossed), the second is a sense of superiority expressed by the thumbs. The interlocutor resorting to this gesture usually plays with one or both fingers, and the standing position is characterized by swinging in heels. The gesture is also used to express ridicule or disrespect for a person who is pointed with his thumb as if over his shoulder.

Gestures of reflection and evaluation
Reflect the state of thoughtfulness and the desire to find a solution to the problem. A pensive facial expression is accompanied by a “hand on the cheek” gesture, when the interlocutor takes the pose of “The Thinker” by Rodin, resting his hand on the cheek. This gesture indicates that he was interested in something. It remains to find out what prompted us to focus on some problem.

Pinching the nose, usually with eyes closed, indicates deep concentration and intense thought.

When the interlocutor is busy with the decision-making process, he scratches his chin. After the decision is made, scratching stops. Slightly narrowed eyes usually correspond to this gesture on the face; he seems to be looking at something in the distance, looking there for an answer to his question.

When the interlocutor puts his hand to his face, resting his chin on his palm, and the index finger extends along the cheek (the other fingers are below the mouth), this is an eloquent evidence that he critically perceives your arguments.

Gestures of doubt and uncertainty
Most often expressed by scratching with the index finger of the right hand places under the earlobe or the side of the neck. Touching or rubbing your nose lightly is also a sign of doubt. When it is difficult for your interlocutor to answer your question, he often begins to touch or rub his nose with his index finger.

True, a warning should be made here: sometimes people rub their nose because it itches. However, those who scratch their nose usually do it energetically, and those for whom it serves as a gesture only touch slightly.

Grudge pose

The interlocutor raises his shoulders and lowers his head ("accustomed"). Such a pose is often accompanied by drawing on a piece of paper (arrows, circles, etc.).

You should switch the conversation to another (preferably neutral) topic. When you see that the interlocutor has calmed down, carefully find out the reason for his resentment.

Unwillingness to listen, desire to end the conversation
If your interlocutor lowers his eyelids, then you have become uninteresting for him, or just tired, or he feels his superiority over you. When you notice such a look from your interlocutor, keep in mind that you need to change something if you are interested in successfully ending the conversation.

Scratching the ear is caused by the desire of the interlocutor to isolate themselves from the heard words. Another option for touching the ear is rubbing the auricle, drilling in the ear with your fingertip, sipping the earlobe in an attempt to cover it with the auditory opening. This gesture indicates that the interlocutor has heard enough and may want to speak out himself.

In the case when the interlocutor clearly wants to finish the conversation faster, he noticeably (and sometimes unconsciously) moves and turns towards the exit door, while his legs turn to the exit. The turn of his body and the position of his legs indicate that he really wants to leave. An indicator of such a desire is also a gesture when the interlocutor takes off his glasses and defiantly puts them aside.

In this situation, you need something to interest the interlocutor or give him the opportunity to leave.

Time lag

One way to take the time to think about a solution is to bite the temples of the glasses, as well as constantly remove and put on glasses, wipe the lenses.

When you observe such a gesture immediately after asking a person about his decision, it is best to be silent while waiting.

If the partner puts on the glasses again, this means that he wants to once again "look" at the facts.

A sign of the desire to slow down is pacing. Many interlocutors resort to this method trying to “stretch time” to solve a difficult problem or make a difficult decision. Those who walk around should not be distracted. This can disrupt their thinking and interfere with decision making.

Language of the body

Evidence of a lie

During a conversation, it is very important to detect the gestures that accompany the lie. Unconscious gestures and body movements can betray a deceiver with a head. During deception, our subconscious mind emits nervous energy, which manifests itself in gestures that contradict what is being said.

Psychologists say that no matter how hard he tries to hide his lie, he can still be recognized, because he is betrayed by the lack of correspondence between the micro-signals of the subconscious, manifested in gestures, and the spoken words.

Gestures related to bringing hands close to face

They should alert: apparently, your interlocutor has something unpleasant or bad on his mind. It can be doubt, uncertainty, gloomy foreboding. But most often this is some exaggeration of a fact or a clear lie. To begin with, what gestures can the interlocutor give out if he is clearly lying.

When we watch or hear others tell a lie, or lie ourselves, we try to close our mouth, eyes or ears with our hands. Protecting the mouth with your hand is one of the few outright gestures that clearly indicate lies. The hand covers the mouth and the thumb is pressed to the cheek, as it sends a signal to restrain the spoken words. Some people try to pretend to cough in order to disguise this gesture.

If such a gesture is used by the interlocutor at the time of speech, this indicates that he is telling a lie. However, if he covers his mouth with his hand at the moment when you speak, and he listens, it means that he understands that you are lying.

Touching your nose is a subtle, disguised version of the previous gesture. It can be expressed in several light touches in the dimple under the nose or can be expressed in one quick, almost imperceptible touch on the nose.

The explanation for this gesture may be that during a lie, delicate urges appear on the nerve endings of the nose and I really want to scratch it.

The rubbing of the eyelids is caused by the desire to hide from deception or suspicion and to avoid looking into the eyes of the interlocutor who is being told the truth.

Men usually rub their eyelids very energetically, and if the lie is very serious, they look away or even more often look at the floor.

Women very delicately make this movement, swiping a finger under the eye.

Lies usually cause an itchy sensation in the muscle tissue of not only the face, but also the neck. Therefore, some interlocutors delay the collar when they lie or suspect that their fraud has been uncovered.

When you see that the interlocutor is lying, you can ask him to repeat or clarify what was said. This will force the trickster to refuse to continue his tricky game.

Gait

She, according to Balzac, is "the physiognomy of the body." Its components are: rhythm, step dynamics, amplitude of body transfer during movement, body weight. These indicators appear in different people in different ways. By the walk you can judge the well-being of a person, his character, age. To master the skills of "reading" gait, we indicate their characteristic forms and explain what each of them means:
   . preoccupied person - walks in the pose of a “thinker”, head lowered, hands clasped behind his back;
   . depressed - hands in motion or in pockets, legs volomit and, as a rule, looks under the legs;
   . confident - walks quickly, waving his arms, has a clear goal and intends to realize it;
   . arrogant - chin high, arms moving emphasized vigorously, legs like wooden ones - "walking the leader".
   To create an attractive appearance, the walk of a confident person is most preferable. The correct posture also creates the impression of confidence, moreover, good posture makes any person slimmer. On the contrary, poor posture gives the impression of slackness, lack of concentration and uncertainty.

To create a more favorable impression about yourself, the posture should not be numb, but light, springy and always straight. The head is slightly raised, the back is straightened. Try to always stand and sit straight.

Confidence and Confidence

A self-confident person with a sense of superiority over others is given by clasping hands behind his back with a grip on his wrist.

From this gesture should be distinguished gestures "hands behind his back to the castle." He says that a person is upset and is trying to pull himself together. The more angry a person is, the higher his hand moves on his back. It is from this gesture that the expression "pull yourself together" came out. This gesture is used to hide his nervousness and the observant partner will probably understand this.

An indicator of complacency and arrogance is the position of the hands "house".

A gesture of self-confident people with a sense of superiority over others is also putting their hands behind their heads. This gesture is also characteristic of know-it-alls. Many interlocutors are annoyed when someone demonstrates it in front of them.

There are several ways to interact with the interlocutor who used this gesture. If you want to find out the reason why the interlocutor demonstrates his superiority, lean forward and say: "I see, you know this. Could you clarify something?" Then sit back and wait for an answer.

Another way is to make such an arrogant interlocutor change his position, which will contribute to a change in his attitude. You need to take some document, ask: “Have you not seen this?”, Forcing him to lean forward.

Gestures of disagreement

Gathering, plucking non-existent villi from a suit is one such gesture. Did this, the interlocutor usually sits, turning away from others, and looks at the floor. This is the most typical gesture of disapproval. When the interlocutor constantly picks up villi from his clothes, this is a sure sign that he does not like everything that is said here. Even if in words he agrees with everything.

Gestures of readiness

They signal a desire to end the conversation. Manifested by feeding the body forward, while the hands lie on their knees, or hold on to the edges of the chair. If any of these gestures appears during a conversation, you should take the initiative in your own hands and be the first to propose to end the conversation. This will allow you to maintain a psychological advantage and manage the situation.

Manner of smoking

Indicates how the interlocutor relates to the prevailing circumstances: positively or negatively. First of all, you need to pay attention to the direction in which it releases smoke from the mouth - up or down.

A positively tuned, confident and contented person will constantly smoke upward.

On the contrary, a negatively minded person, with hidden or suspicious thoughts, will almost always direct a stream of smoke down.

Blowing the jet down from the corners of the mouth indicates an even more negative attitude and secrecy.

Whether a person is positive or negative can also be judged by the rate of smoke release. The faster the jet is released upward, the more confident a person feels, the faster it is blown down, the worse the person is configured.

Observations of the gestures of smokers in the conditions of sale show that if you ask a smoking client about his decision, those who made a positive decision exhale smoke, while those who decide not to buy direct the jet down.

Exhaling smoke through the nostrils is a sign of an arrogant, self-confident person. The smoke stream in this case goes down only due to the location of the nostrils, and a person often raises his head up, which makes him look even more arrogant. If a person’s head is tilted down when he blows smoke through his nose, it means that he is angry.

Attention! The attempt to “read” fraudsters at a presentation using sign language is hindered by the following circumstances:
   . being loaded with the flow of information that has fallen upon him, the client is not able to follow the pantomimics of those who “blabber” the client;
   . politicians and presenters are taught sign language, and they rarely make blunders.
   Interviewer Poses

It is very useful to monitor the position of the shoulders, arms and head of the interlocutor, as this provides important information that helps to better understand him. These details convey true thoughts and moods much better than words. The most characteristic poses we will now decipher.

Typically, a person raises his shoulders when he is tense, and lowers when he is relaxed. A person who intends to make some kind of message or report can receive significant information about the mood of the audience by observing the position of the shoulders and heads of the audience. The more unfriendly and tense the audience, the more there are raised shoulders and lowered corners of the mouth.

A raised head and lowered shoulders can mean openness, interest, a mood for success, a sense of control over the situation.

A bowed head, raised shoulders can express isolation, a feeling of defeat, contempt, dissatisfaction, fear, uncertainty.

A head tilted to one side may indicate interest, curiosity, and possibly courtship (flirting).

Very expressive postures, fixing only the position of the body, which can also be used to judge the internal state of a person. If a person says what he thinks, his body sends signals that we call unambiguous. In such cases, the body, as a rule, keeps straight, without special bends, and can be described by a straight line connecting the head with the feet. When the correspondence between thoughts and words is broken, the body begins to send double signals, and a line repeating the contour of the body becomes a broken line.

Handshake

By shaking hands you can determine the mood of the partner towards you.

An imperious handshake gives little chance of establishing an equality relationship. Such a handshake is characterized by the fact that the hand extended for a handshake covers the partner’s hand from above. This gesture of dominance is typical of many prosperous and high-ranking people.

There is a way to neutralize this technique: grab the supplied hand from above the wrist and shake it. This shows the reluctance to take a dependent, subordinate position. This, of course, is the moment of the psychological struggle for a favorable distribution of roles, so you need to be prepared for a possible confrontation. So you have to choose - or give a fight right away, or try to replay the partner who wants to dominate in the future due to better preparation in the subject of discussion.

There is a milder way to neutralize the dominant handshake: the right hand at the time of the handshake takes the position proposed by the initiator, but the left hand is placed on top of the partner’s hand. This gesture is both friendly and neutralizing the position of superiority.

Equal or friendly handshake - the hand moves vertically.

A long handshake - installation to seize leadership. The winner is the one who removes the hand last.

A weak, sluggish handshake characterizes a person who is ready to be a victim.

If the partner quickly removes his hand, then he is practical or suspicious.

Avoids handshakes - timid, closed, fears embarrassment.

"Dead" grip - the desire for victory in any situation.

The talkativeness of the left hand

Gestures that give out insincerity are largely associated with the left hand. This is due to the fact that the right hand, as a more developed one (for most people), is more controlled by consciousness and does as it should.

The left one, less developed and controlled by the right hemisphere of the brain, does what the subconscious wants, thereby giving out the secret thoughts of man. If the interlocutor gestures with his left hand, then this should alert you: it is very likely that he is cheating or taking an unfriendly position.

Listing gesture

One of the gestures that sellers recommend mastering is a "listing gesture." It is good for a visual listing of the merits of the goods. You say, “Firstly, it is perfectly erased”, and bend one finger, “secondly, you can erase it countless times, and it will remain the same,” and bend the second finger, “thirdly, your the wife will simply be happy when he appears in the house, "and bend your third finger. This technique can be continued further - well, if you can hold all fingers on both hands in favor of your product.

But you should not overdo it. The buyer may lose interest already on the seventh finger. Sometimes this gesture helps to work with a doubting buyer. On one hand we can pinch our fingers, counting the "cons" of the purchase, on the other - the "pluses" What do you think should outweigh?

Sexual gestures

To convince a person of the opposite sex is much easier if the persuader is attracted precisely as a representative of his gender. In this case, the listener often sends signals that indicate their desire to please.

Since this is an extremely important circumstance, it is necessary to be able to decipher these signals.

Sexual gestures in men
   In men, signals of sexual interest are:
   . begins to preen: smoothes hair, straightens a tie, cufflinks, shirt, pulls on a collar, jacket, smacks a dust particle from the shoulder or dandruff;
   . looks with an intimate gaze (translates it to the chest and below) and delays the gaze a little longer than usual;
   . pupils when looking at a woman expand;
   . lays his thumbs behind the belt in the abdomen to focus on the area of \u200b\u200bhis genitals;
   . standing with his hands on his hips, turning his body to the woman, the toe of the foot is pointing in her direction.
   Sexual gestures in women

Well, if it comes to “seduction”, then men's tricks compared to women are reminiscent of the successes of a fisherman standing knee-deep in water and trying to catch the fish either with his hands or with a stick basting in the water.

Gestures and signals sent by a woman, on a subconscious level perceived as enticing, are incomparably more than male ones. They are:
   . touch to hair;
   . clothing correction;
   . prolonged gaze and rapid eye contact;
   . dilated pupils and blush on the cheeks;
   . shaking hair;
   . a demonstration of the smooth tender skin of your wrists (for example, while smoking, keep a cigarette at the level of the neck or shoulders, exposing the wrist in the direction of the man that interests her);
   . swaying hips (emphasizing the delights of the pelvis);
   . squint, furtively;
   . slightly open mouth, wet lips;
   . bright lipstick, "drawing" of swollen lips;
   . wiggling the slipper on the toes;
   . the interlacing of the legs, in which they seem to line up on the same line, aimed at the object of interest of a woman;
   . Slowly throwing legs on foot in front of the man’s eyes and slowly returning her to the opposite position;
   . gentle stroking of the hips with the hand, often while the woman speaks in a low, low voice.
   There is such an observation: if a man in the company gives a woman a light and, as if by chance, gently touches her hand with his hand or makes a subtle movement towards it, this usually means her willingness to flirt or even to romance.

Gestures of aggression
Aggressive and aggressive warning gestures need to be monitored especially carefully, because they warn that the situation is starting to get out of control.

So, if the edge of the index finger taps on the table, then this means the following: "I warn you again - then blame yourself!" If the surface of a finger taps, then this corresponds to something like this: “What are you talking about ?! Wait a minute, darling, wait a minute!”

"I can hit you!" - This more frank threat arises from the following gesture: the index, middle and ring fingers stroke or scratch the joints of the fist of the second hand. The gesture illustrates the readiness for physical aggression.

A less noticeable, but more dangerous gesture of aggression is scratching or stroking the edges of the palm with the fingertips. It illustrates the willingness not only to fight with an opponent, but literally wipe it into powder. The hands are most often raised to chest level.

If the interlocutor’s fingers linked to the chest levels are sharply thrown forward like a fan (the palm of this opens up), this means that the person is not looking for reconciliation, he has enough strength to defend his position. Through this lunge towards the enemy there is a powerful release of energy concentrated on the fingertips. It is as if a man attracts not only the strength of his arguments, but also the energy potential of the body.

The weak can easily be "jinxed" by such a gesture. A person will feel malaise, a decline in will and strength. But the blessing is that this gesture is quite rare in private conversations, more often it appears in the dispute of one person with several worthy rivals.

The finger pointing or blaming is appropriate, perhaps, only on the poster "Have you signed up as a volunteer?" In real communication, this gesture of aggression interferes with normal open interaction.

If you notice that your interlocutor is increasingly using such gestures, be on your guard, try to do everything to return the conversation to a calmer course. Change the subject, show your friendly mood, openly find out the real cause of annoyance, or, finally, postpone the conversation until better times.

Final rules:

. Do not make hasty conclusions on one single body movement of the interlocutor.
   . Wait for other signals to “say” it.
   . Pay attention primarily to the so-called "little things."
   . Do not adjust the observation to the already established first impression.

Non-verbal communication, contrary to all our efforts, reveals our secrets. Girls take advantage of this and think that they know everything about men. And how to get to them? How to win a girl you like?

The answer is before my eyes. What matters is not what, but how. Anyway, what you say matters how do you say that. Girls feel masculine insecurity, and in most cases, because of it, failure will follow. Be natural, watch, and the girl herself will tell you how and in which direction to move.

1. Take a closer look at the girl you liked and try to draw conclusions: what mood she may have, tired or peppy, what she does, etc. The more information you find, the easier it will be for you to communicate and find topics for conversation.

Usually a girl captivates with her appearance, but this does not mean that she will be good in communication. It is important to look closely at her movements in order not to accidentally disappoint. If the girl’s manners, gestures, behavior are similar to yours, then your interests will most likely coincide. Sign language in non-verbal communication, in contrast to words and appearances, never lies.

2. Look at her: if she sees your gaze and looks away, then she saw a man in you and acted like a woman. If she again, furtively looks up at you - she likes you. And in this case - what to expect? You can safely go get to know each other, otherwise at the moment when you have the courage to come up, she will get up and leave.

3. To get sympathy - smile when you approach the girl. When you say - look at her, and not to the side, you will betray your insecurity more quietly. Flirt - women love to flirt.

Non-verbal communication with a girl: Learn to see interest:

- often looks in your eyes;

- corrects the hairstyle, any item of clothing or handbag;

- turns the whole body to you;

- smiles at you;

- listens carefully;

- She's a little tense.

The girl does not want to get acquainted:

Turns away from you;

Often looks the other way;

Constantly yawning.

I'm not talking about such frank gestures as I deliberately do not answer, gets up and leaves.

You must speak naturally, and most importantly - confidently.

4. Do not forget about the distance at which you should stand so as not to scare her. Girls do not tolerate intrusion into their personal zone, without their consent. The girls' personal zone is an oval: on the side you can come closer than behind or in front.

5. If she has warmed up to you, you can begin to invade your personal zone. Move to her, try to touch her more often, so that she perceives you not as a "girlfriend", but as a man. Do not forget to monitor the reaction and adjust your behavior.

6. If you have little time, then end the conversation at a time when she is very interested in you, then she will want to see you again.

Signs of a girl’s sympathy for you in non-verbal communication

It’s good if the girl displays your posture and changes in your position (adjustment / guidance). [By the way, even if she teaches NLP, then still she will not adapt to those who are not interesting to her, huh?]
In your presence, the skin of the face or exposed areas of her body turns red
With you, a girl starts to get nervous or make stupid mistakes, drop things, make a reservation, etc. Especially when you are not yet very familiar.
Keep track of the distance between you when communicating. If she is standing next to you closer than other girls in conversation, this may indicate that she wants to stand near you. At a party or disco, she may accidentally appear near you, then again be near you when you move to another place. “By chance” touches you, “by chance” touches you, looks in your direction (that is, at you).
Does the conversation go smoothly or does she answer in monosyllables? The paradox here is that a girl can imitate indifference if she really liked you. In conversation, if a girl likes you, she can either look in your mouth, “as if you are saying prophecies,” or, conversely, exaggerate (BZ). Look at non-verbal reactions. More indicative are body reactions that are difficult to control (eye gloss, dilated pupils, redness of the skin, erection of the nipples).

When communicating, it doesn’t hurt to give yourself answers to the following questions:

Does it concern you?
Does she respond positively to your touch?
Does the girl laugh at your jokes? By the way, raising your mood in your presence is a good sign.
Is there any dynamics? Is there an increase in the intensity of signs or an increase in their number? “The most common mistakes are the loss of the process - for example, a girl with shiny eyes, nipples, a smile and a bunch of sexual non-verbal - you are nearby and conclude that it’s PORA, and after all, she sat like this before your appearance and will sit like that after you leave because recently she had a hot guy and she’s still all there .... "

In "Secrets of Sexual Body Language" it was written that there should be at least 4 signs at once and they should be directed at you. There are options when people flirt with everyone except the object of their interest. Look carefully at everything in the complex.

Nonverbal Communication: Details

Principles are good, but the details are all salt. So, we will analyze our sympathetic girl in parts.

Nonverbal Communication: Lips

The face is relaxed, smiles broadly, showing teeth [if she has ugly teeth, this may not be]
He bites his lip or licks his lips (some lick one lip, others hold the tongue on both lips).
Shows the tongue or touches the tongue of the front teeth.
Biting her nails [may just be a habit, see how she behaves with others]
Slightly protrudes lips (they swell when excited).
When smoking, exhales smoke in your direction
Passionately answers your kisses (OL)

Nonverbal Communication: Eyes

The more you look into your eyes, the better. The longer you hold your gaze, the better.
He looks into your eyes with interest, the pupils are dilated [pupil enlargement can be in the dark - you can compare with your own by looking in the mirror; even the pupils dilate with some drugs]. First, look at the diameter of the pupils of people in normal communication in different lighting conditions. At the bar, on the street in the evening. So you imagine the normal diameter of the pupils in different lighting conditions. Over time, it will be on the machine.

A small remark about the diameter of the pupils. I liked this sign. It can be seen easily (except for people who have very dark irises, such as blacks and Indians). It reflects the state of the body, as well as redness of the skin, that is, it is harder to fake than posture, intonation, and so on.
It happens that a girl pretends that she likes you to have something to fuck you. I had it. Great sympathy is depicted, it concerns you, it stands close, and the pupils are very ordinary, not a bit dilated. There is no redness of the skin. Disorder ;-)

There are only problems with the reliability of this symptom: girls sometimes instill atropine in their eyes to dilate the pupils. Beladonna, from which it was received, is called in translation: "beautiful woman." Beladonna tincture was buried in the eyes for a very long time. Even the pupils may dilate with certain drugs, such as cocaine.

What I noticed from my experience. The diameter of the pupils depends on the topic. Sometimes you see how ordinary he is when you talk with a girl about serious topics, about work or study, but it increases as soon as the conversation turns to non-working topics (as yet without vulgar anecdotes). Sometimes a girl speaks with one guy, her pupils are normal, and when she speaks to another, they immediately expand.

Another interesting point. When you want to find out which girl’s pupil diameter is normal, you look right into her pupils, right? Such a look in itself can be regarded as a sign of sympathy on your part, so that by calibrating the girl you can run her interest. But we, in general, need this, right?

The eyes are sparkling. The brighter the better.
Exaggeratedly, and then lowers her eyebrows, sometimes this is combined with a smile and a look in your eyes.
Winks when talking or from a distance
When talking, blinks more often than usual, eyelashes flutter
Looks first in the eye, and then evaluatively starting from the legs, higher, and again in the eye. (IK)

Non-verbal modes of communication: Hair

Corrects the hairstyle.
Twists hair around a finger when looking at you.
Shakes hair back with a movement of the head (Pease: even with a short hairstyle)

Non-verbal Ways of Communication: Clothing

If nipples are visible through the clothes, they begin to stick out (a sign of arousal).
Raises the edge of the skirt to show the leg
Corrects clothes. (wants to like :-)
He wears red shoes.

Non-verbal modes of communication: When sitting or standing

Moves to the beat of the music, looking at you
He begins to sit very evenly, with his shoulders straight.
In noisy rooms, leans towards you to better hear what you say
Itself offers to change the place, go somewhere in a less noisy environment or agrees to your proposal (no, I'm not talking about “to you or to me?” :-))
If you say in the club / bar / at the disco, “Now I’ll leave for a couple of minutes and return,” then when you return, you will find her in the same place or she will return there, seeing you.
Sits with legs apart [depends on upbringing]
Rubbing foot on foot (guess what else rubs there ;-)
Rub the foot on the table leg
Cross-legged to show the thigh.
If he crosses his legs, the sock points in your direction or sways towards you - from you.
If you are sitting nearby (in a movie, for example) - it touches you with your shoulder
Watch the distance between you. If she tilts the case towards you - well, from you - not so much. Although you may have a bad breath, for example. Therefore, if there is a smell, for the purity of the experiment it will not hurt to go to the dentist, check the teeth and gums and to the ENT - check the glands.
She does not deviate when you reach out to take something behind her (she is comfortable near you).
If standing in a company, the toe of the exposed foot points to you (Pease). ”The direction of the toe of the shoe is very important, and if both socks are looking at you, it's even better! (She often does not see her legs, so the signal is quite subconscious and poorly controlled) ... It is very important - this is to pay attention to the Dynamics, that is, changes! If you take the socks of the shoes, then in this case - a certain, albeit minimal, turn in your direction is enough every time you try to attract her attention - the more she reacts, the better .... "

Another moment with legs that I noticed quite often. An unsupported leg can be turned with the inside of the foot toward you so that the support and non-support legs are at right angles to each other, forming a letter T. It’s more difficult to describe this than to show, if you see it yourself. Here it turns out that the girl turns the inner surface of the thigh of the unsupported leg towards you. Turns so as to show the figure in the most favorable perspective, especially on the dance floor

Girl's non-verbal behavior. When walking

Touching you with your shoulder (hints that you take her hand)
When it turns out that you are walking (or sitting) from behind - periodically looks as if to the side, but in fact tries to catch you with an eye-catch.

Girl's non-verbal behavior. Hands

In conversation, shows palms during gestures.
Stroking himself: rubs his hands up and down, rubs his cheek or chin. It’s bad if it pinches itself.
Sitting with hand on chest
When talking, puts one hand palm up in the palm of the other
He plays with any objects (keys, jewelry), strokes a glass.
It touches your arm, shoulder, hip, knee, back (if you did not start the first;)
When you pass by, he pretends to look at his watch
If the arms and body are motionless, this is good (she feels comfortable). Worse if drumming with your fingers [but she may be nervous, look at other signs].
When he takes something from you, he touches your fingers with his fingers.
If he shakes your hand, holds your hand in his own for a little longer. By the way, you can also apply this technique.

Girl's non-verbal behavior. Speech

Raises or lowers the voice after you (tuning)
Speeds up or slows down speech after you (same thing)
Laughs in tune with you
Laughs at your stupid jokes (she improves her mood in your presence)
Chest laughter, low
Compliment you
In a crowd or company speaks only with you and focuses on you

Sometimes it happens. Some time after the girl liked you, she tries to show you, they say, I’m not talking to you alone, I like the others. Then she is curious in front of your eyes with other guys, laughs, etc. What is the purpose here, I don’t know, to test your feelings, cause jealousy or something else.

It is very interesting here to watch how she kind of flirts with another, and the socks of BOTH legs are looking at you at this time or the body is turned in your direction. Non-verbal communication is led by the right hemisphere, and it gives out all these signs.

The psychology of communication between men and women is a special topic that interests many, this knowledge is necessary to build harmonious relationships. The main secret is that men and women are very different at the genetic level, they differ in their perception of the world, reaction to life, and ways of interaction. Our mistake is to equate, to hope and to demand the same attitude, understanding in everything.

Communication problems in psychology have always been relevant, the emergence of misunderstanding, confrontation has clear grounds, factors. Communication arises as a process of human interaction in order to exchange information, understand, establish communication between people.

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The structure of communication in psychology involves ways of expressing thoughts in verbal (words, speech) and non-verbal form (gestures, facial expressions). Moreover, it was noted that women often use non-verbal methods of interaction. Information is presented in various forms, encoded - written, oral.

In the article, we analyze the main differences between men and women that should be taken into account in communication, in meeting people, in family life. Information will be the key to the world of the opposite sex, to people "from another planet." What do men and women need? Why are we so different? These questions concern people for many centuries.

In the course of biological evolution, development from ancient times, nature laid the differences in structure and perception at the physiological level. To establish mutual understanding between men and women, it is necessary to understand the features laid down by nature; let us turn to the studies of science and psychology. As a result of observations, experiments, scientists noticed the following facts:

The psychology of communication between men and women takes into account differences at the physiological level. Moreover, the characteristics of the body are inextricably linked with mental reactions, the perception of the world. In the next section, we pay attention to the characteristics of behavior, psychological characteristics.

The psychology of communication between men and women involves understanding each other, our differences in the perception of life, reactions, special rules of the female and male world.

Psychological features of women:

perceives the world at the level of feelings, emotions, lives experiences, is completely immersed in love;
has a need to discuss his problems, issues, shares with friends, loved one;
love to give advice, help with their knowledge;
needs care, understanding, as a manifestation of love;
feels the need for hugs, displays of tenderness, affectionate words;
it is important for a woman to be the only, beloved, so that a person is faithful;
woman’s confidence is often determined by the man’s attitude; he maintains the status of “beloved, desired, most beautiful”;
a woman loves more when she feels care, and behaves in the same way in a state of falling in love - shows care, attention, affection.

men are focused on business, action, less prone to emotional outbursts;
rarely discuss their problems, try to solve themselves or with close friends;
give advice when asked;
need trust, a beloved woman must believe him;
they don’t like when they are remade, taught to live;
need admiration, recognition of merit;
approval of action, praise necessary for them, like air;
encouragement of good deeds, gratitude for help stimulate new aspirations;
a man expresses love through concrete deeds (helping a loved one), helping to solve complex problems, through intimate relationships;
men are inspired by feats, feeling that their woman needs.

Thus, the psychology of communication between men and women is based on mutual understanding, respect, recognition of the presence of special reactions of the opposite sex to life, emotions, manifestations of feelings; understanding of this issue positively affects the establishment of effective interaction, the creation of a strong family.

The psychology of communication between men and women involves the establishment of special rules of behavior, the rules necessary to maintain good relations, establish contacts. The recommendations are based on the differences in the psyche of men and women. From childhood, we notice features in behavior, hobbies, reactions, but rarely understand ways to establish trustful, honest relationships for many years.

An important truth - the psychology of good relations between a man and a woman is based on an understanding of physical and mental differences. Historically, the formation of thinking, attitude to life, life, family. A man is not always able to understand the emotionality of women, and women - the vulnerability of pride and the desire for self-realization of men.