Sayings of great people about feelings, mind, mind and ego. Quotes and phrases about silence and restraint
Love is a feeling that everyone can experience loving hearts. B. Voltaire
Some, falling in love, consider their soul mate as property, others cease to belong to themselves. A. Kruglov
I feel now that I am succeeding, moving forward all the time and enjoying life. Erich Fromm
For one who is devoid of feelings, it is easy to be unshakable. Germaine de Stael
On the staircase of my own feelings, I prefer to be somewhere below. And all because often, against my will, I stay for a long time on its upper steps, where a piercing wind often blows and there is too much light from which I want to hide. Friedrich Nietzsche
Probably, in order not to worry about anything, you need to completely abandon feelings. George Eliot
It is easy to confess a love feeling when it is absent. A. Carr
Love can be compared to the wind in own hands. It is easy to feel it, but, alas, not everyone can tame it.
You always get lost in the presence of a loved one, and as usual, when you meet, you forget to tell him the most important thing. M. Cervantes
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Love one another, but don't turn love into chains. Let it rather be an exciting sea between the shores of your souls.
The feeling of affection comes with the rope. Gennady Malkin
Among the fields, near the vast expanses of the sea, feelings become higher and purer. Anatole France
Often there are icy hearts under ardent heads, but rarely cold heads under ardent hearts. Pierre Buast
Who is sensitive to trifles, shows a petty soul. Baltasar Gracian y Morales
You can be the master of your actions, but in feelings we are not free. Gustave Flaubert
What we do, we could do without the participation of feelings - feelings only accompany our actions. Alfred Adler
A person who is prone to elevated feelings usually deceives himself and others. Erich Maria Remarque
If you give free rein to feelings, they can go to another. Boris Krutier
Feelings of guilt have nothing to do with the events that actually happened. Louise Hay
There is no love that is not mixed with a certain amount of sensuality. Anatole France
Grief can be experienced alone, but joy - in order to fully know it - must be shared with another person. Mark Twain
Sentimental people are the most senseless of mortals... Thomas Carlyle
It is difficult to be smart and sincere at the same time, especially in feeling ... I.A. Goncharov
To ruin a relationship, it is enough to start sorting it out. Unknown (Humor)
Passion is not so dangerous as the destruction it causes is terrible. Romain Rolland
Suffering only makes the strong stronger; it makes the weak even weaker. Lion Feuchtwanger
Don't drag your feelings with you! Gennady Malkin
Desire is no less sweet than accomplishment. Lion Feuchtwanger
Understatement causes a feeling of anticipation of a pleasant, but it is not clear what. Yolanta Smith
Beauty is like a hedgehog, every needle finds its prey Iolanthe Smith
To measure the depth of feelings, you do not need to lower yourself. Boris Krutier
I liked our elevated feelings. Lidia Smirnova
Feelings are given to a person in order to lead his consciousness away from the truth. Stepan Balakin
She is subject to the whole gamut of feelings from A to B. Dorothy Parker
And then a strong feeling filled Stepanida's heart to the brim, and the lands there were completely uninhabited and little-groomed. Mikhail Genin
If resentment knows no end, then with its help you can transport all the waters of the World Ocean. Yolanta Smith
Feelings cannot be captured. Konstantin Stanislavsky
I think with feeling and I feel with thought. Miguel de Unamuno
The only good thing is that restlessness, thanks to which we subsequently find peace. Unknown (Humor)
We are always afraid to offend other people's feelings, no one is afraid to offend our feelings.
How to translate sigh into other languages? Stanislav Jerzy Lec
It is known that a fiery feeling is expressed briefly, but strongly. Gavrila
The sense of touch is painfully irritated to such an extent that the touch of any hard object makes one shudder. Friedrich Nietzsche
No feeling is born as quickly as antipathy. Alfred de Musset
To feel means to understand and comprehend. Miguel de Unamuno
Reason never cries, it's none of its business; but the heart never reasones - it is not given to us for this. George Sand
You can't see the most important thing with your eyes, only the heart is vigilant. Antoine de Saint-Exupery
The sensing organ is at the same time the understanding organ. Oswald Spengler
I don't think poetry expresses feelings. It awakens feelings in the reader, which is another matter entirely. As someone said: If you want to express your feelings, cry. Margaret Atwood
Master the passions, otherwise the passions will take possession of you. Epictetus
Reason is the sum of our best feelings. P. Shelley
If a person did not fall in love before the age of forty, then it is better for him not to fall in love after. B. Show
He carried his love like a banknote - which no one wanted to exchange. G. Malkin
How often the embrace of love is enclosed space. T. Kleiman
A honeymoon is good when honey is not fake… V. Sumbatov
“In love and in war, it’s the same: the negotiating fortress is half taken.” — Marguerite Valois
Prudence and love are not made for each other: as love grows, prudence decreases.
“When you drink the wine of love, something must be left in the glass.” – I. Shaw
If a person can say what love is, it means that he did not love anyone.
Love is an insight about the indispensability of everyone, revealed to you in this person for you personally. A. Kruglov
The less we love a woman, the easier she likes us. A.S. Pushkin
“There is no pain greater than that which lovers inflict on each other.” – S. Connolly
Falling in love is the firm knowledge that happiness exists. A. Kruglov
Lovers inspire, lovers feed. T. Kleiman
Jealousy is treason by suspicion of treason. V.Krotov
A woman loves a man because he loves her. A man loves a woman because he loves them in general.
Real intimacy usually starts from afar. V. Zhemchuzhnikov
Women have the whole heart, even the head. Jean Paul
All love is true and beautiful in its own way, as long as it is in the heart and not in the head.
Not looking at each other, but looking in the same direction - that's what it means to love. Antoine de Saint-Exupery
If old love doesn't rust, why does it begin to creak? T. Kleiman
Sex is the most that unloving people can give each other, and the least that loving people can give each other. E. Panteleev
A man who speaks intelligently about love does not love very much. J. Sand
They love each other very much: he - himself, she - herself. M. Genin
Voluptuousness is the occupation of people who are not busy with anything else. Diogenes
If a wife saws her husband, then she wants to make a beautiful half out of him.
Anyone who has ever been in love is not without imagination. V.Borisov
Only love bought with money is worth nothing. E. Tarasov
When a woman falls in love for the first time, she loves her lover;
Separation for love is like wind for fire: it extinguishes the weak, and inflates the big one. R. Bussy
“Love and doubt will never get along.” – D. H. Gibran
Love is the desire for rapprochement, caused by the appearance of beauty. Zeno of China
Treason is a whip that hits you only once - at the moment when you found out about everything. All the following time you cut yourself with it yourself. E. Panteleev
In love, the spiritual is controlled by nature - but it is enriched with all its colors and power. A. Kruglov
The happiness of love is in action: love is tested by the willingness to do for others. L. Wallace
They love not for something, but in spite of. A. Vasiliev
A woman only then believes the word “love” when it is said quietly and simply. I. Galan
Marriage is a sea of responsibility in which you can only stay afloat by holding hands tightly.
Who stopped loving and making mistakes can bury himself alive
To know a person, you need to love him. L. Feuerbach
Once in love, let him repeat what he did. T. Kleiman
How often the affections of the heart keep us on a short leash. T. Kleiman
Saying "I love you" will take a few seconds, showing how - a lifetime.
If you're going to love someone, learn to forgive first. A.Vampilov
For lovers, as for birds, not only a nest is necessary, but also the sky. E. Panteleev
Love is omnipotent: there is no grief on Earth higher than its punishment, no happiness higher than the pleasure of serving it. W. Shakespeare
Women are made to be loved, not understood.
The lovers invent each other. Those who love know. A. Koryakovtsev
Love is eternity given in time. G. Malkin
Falling in love is an intoxication with the possibility of love. V.Krotov
If he is the first thing you think about when you wake up; the only thing is when you are awake; and the last thing you think about before you fall asleep - it means he really is special!
in the future, she loves only love. F. La Rochefoucauld
How important it is that far-reaching relationships bring people closer! T. Kleiman
Love dies of fatigue, and oblivion buries it. J. La Bruyère
Love is just not enough. She has happiness, but she wants heaven, she has heaven - she wants heaven.
Love can change a person beyond recognition. Terence
The first breath of love is the last breath of wisdom. Anthony Bret.
Unrequited love is always big and whole. V. Konyakhin
O lovers! All this is in your love. Just try to find.
All lovers swear to do more than they can, and do not even do what is possible. W. Shakespeare
It has always been so that the depth of love is known only in the hour of separation.” – D. H. Gibran
“Equality is the strongest foundation of love.” – G. Lessing
That heart will not learn to love that is tired of hating. ON THE. Nekrasov
Life is arranged so devilishly skillfully that, without knowing how to hate, it is impossible to sincerely love. M. Gorky
Women love the man in themselves, and men love themselves in the woman.
There was love without joys, separation will be without sorrow. M.Yu. Lermontov
If your heart and your mind are restless, what else do you want?
A living being cannot stop desiring or feeling, he just needs to change the quality of his desires.
Bhagavad-gita 2.71 comm.
Virtue does not consist in the absence of passions, but in the control of them.
George Bernard Shaw
QUOTES ABOUT THE MIND
A short mind has a long tongue.
Aristophanes
The liveliness of the mind does not paint a person too much if it is not accompanied by the fidelity of judgments. Not those watches are good that go fast, but those that show the exact time.
L. Vauvenargues
The ability to raise reasonable questions is already an important and necessary sign of intelligence and insight.
Lower your mind into the depths of knowledge - you will raise your heart to heaven.
To be delighted with oneself and to maintain an unshakable confidence in one's own mind is a misfortune that can only befall one who is either not endowed with a mind at all, or endowed with it in a very small degree.
J. La Bruyère
How often do people use their minds to do stupid things.
F. La Rochefoucauld
The world will be transformed by those who have been able to transform themselves, knowing that the greatest mastery comes from the control of the mind. When the mind becomes an obedient servant of man, the whole world will lie at his feet.
Inayah Khan Hidayat
Mind without reason is a ship without ballast and rudder.
W. Wicherly
While the heart is still nourished by desires, the mind retains illusions.
F. Chateaubriand
It is better to be simple and honest than smart and deceitful.
If you want to be smart, learn to ask intelligently, listen carefully, answer calmly, and stop talking when there is nothing more to say.
L. Tolstoy
People who, not having their own mind, know how to appreciate someone else's, often act smarter than smart people who lack this skill.
V. Klyuchevsky
You cannot live without a conscience and with a great mind.
Russian proverb
The bliss of the body consists in health, the bliss of the mind is in knowledge.
The main thing in a person is not the mind, but what controls it: character, heart, good feelings, advanced ideas.
F. Dostoevsky
The acquisition of any kind of knowledge is always beneficial to the mind, for it can subsequently reject the useless and retain the good. For nothing can be loved or hated unless it is first known.
Leonardo da Vinci
Only the smartest and the most stupid can't change.
Confucius
Usually, the more intelligent a person is, the less importance he attaches to it.
L. Mercier
The mouth is the gate of the mind. If you keep them open, the mind will slip out. Imagination is the legs of the mind. If it is not curbed, it will lead the mind astray.
Hong Zicheng
In the hours of idleness, the mind becomes dull. Use peace to understand the light of the mind. In the hours of preoccupation with affairs, the mind is lost. Use the beacon of reason to achieve peace.
Hong Zicheng
The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that a person, by changing the inner frame of mind, can change the outer aspects of his life.
William James
QUOTES ABOUT MIND
The mind enlightens the senses.
If a blind man has knowledge, it is better than an ignorant one who sees.
From the book "Avesta"
The mind is more precious than all the riches of the world.
From the book "Avesta"
Only those who dare to remain ignorant are ignorant.
Discretion is the ability to curb one's desires and passions.
Whom God wants to destroy, He first deprives of reason.
A. Aurelius
Reason is the gaze of the soul, by which it itself, without the mediation of the body, contemplates the true.
A. Aurelius
Reason is the bright light of the Divine Beginning, casting its guiding rays on the mind.
Inayah Khan Hidayat
The triumph of reason is to live in peace with those who have no reason.
F. Voltaire
There are three ways for a person to act rationally:
The first - the most noble - reflection;
The second - the easiest - imitation;
The third - the most bitter - experience.
Confucius
The mind, once expanded its boundaries, will never return to the former.
A. Einstein
A healthy mind sees only one path and follows it; the mind sees ten roads and does not know which one to choose.
We are all the more free the more we act according to reason, and the more enslaved the more we give in to passions.
G. Leibniz
It is not easy to convince people to use reason instead of eyes.
B. Fontenelle
To understand what is right, to feel what is beautiful, to desire what is good - this is the goal of intelligent life.
A. Platen
Reasonable and moral always coincide.
L. Tolstoy
Explore everything, let your mind come first; let him guide you. And then, when you leave your mortal body, you will become immortal, and death will have no power over you.
Reason, becoming a servant of vice, an instrument of passions, a defender of lies, not only becomes perverted, but becomes sick, losing the ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood, good and evil, righteous and unrighteous.
W. Channing
Only that which is born of the mind and appeals to the mind can become a spiritual force for all mankind.
A. Schweitzer
We can expect the correction of evil not from a change in the form of our life, but only from the spread of kindness and rationality.
L. Tolstoy
The heart can add intelligence, but the mind will not add heart.
A reasonable person does not pursue what is pleasant, but what relieves troubles.
Aristotle
He is prudent who does not grieve over what he does not have, and, on the contrary, is glad for what he has.
Democritus
We all float on the waves of the ocean; reason serves as our compass, and passions as the wind that drives us.
The prudent seeks the absence of suffering, not pleasure.
Aristotle
Reason is given to man so that he lives rationally, and not just so that he simply understands that he lives unreasonably.
V. Belinsky
Generosity of the heart is the best inspirer of the mind.
A. Bestuzhev-Marlinsky
We don't even have enough intelligence to appreciate our ignorance.
B. Werber
Look for love that comes not so much from the heart as from the mind - it is she who is worthy of the individual.
Balthazar
Virtues can also bring harm if they are not illuminated by the light of reason.
O. Balzac
Reason is an incomparably higher ability, but it is acquired only by victory over the passions.
N. Gogol
The purpose of the world is for reason to reign.
What passion decides is short, fleeting; what the mind determines, in that age you will not repent.
E. Rotterdam
The human mind is a sign of the higher life as we know it.
You can give in to force, but meekly submit only to reason.
Explore everything, give reason the first place.
Our age is such that it prides itself on machines that can think, and is afraid of people who try to show the same ability.
Mumford Jones
Understand to believe.
Augustine
Absalom Underwater
Faith inquires, reason discovers.
Absalom Underwater
Stupid mind lets the world.
Russian proverb
The foolish will judge, but the wise will judge.
Russian proverb
A wise man does not expose himself to the light, therefore he shines; he does not talk about himself, therefore he is glorious; he does not glorify himself, therefore he is deserved; he does not exalt himself, therefore he is senior among others.
He who knows people is reasonable, and he who knows himself is perspicacious.
Who, knowing a lot, behaves as if he knows nothing, he is a moral man.
The untrue appears to be true, and the true untrue - such is the diversity of being. Be reasonable!
Confucius
A wise man evaluates according to his own judgment, a fool trusts rumors.
Confucius
The prudent is restrained in his words, and the prudent is cold-blooded.
Proverbs of Solomon (ch. 17, v. 27)
If a wise word is heard by a prudent one, he will praise it and apply it to himself.
Proverbs of Solomon (ch. 21, v. 18)
There is no faster way to mastering knowledge than sincere love for a wise teacher.
You cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created the problem.
A. Einstein
QUOTES ABOUT FEELINGS
To be sensual is to be suffering.
If the feelings are not true, then our whole mind will be false.
Lucretius
Never act in the heat of passion - you will do everything wrong. Who is not in himself, he is not responsible for himself, passion drives out the mind.
Balthazar
Everything is permissible for me, but not everything is useful; everything is permissible to me, but nothing should possess me.
Apostle Paul
The passions in man are constantly awake, looking out for their prey; the mind sleeps until it is awakened.
I. Herder
Feeling and thought, if well weighed, are like a blind man carrying a lame man.
Fr. Grillparzer
Who wants to rule over himself,
He must restrain his feelings at times.
Man becomes poorer in thoughts as he becomes richer in feelings.
F. Chateaubriand
To trust unreasonable sensations is a property of coarse souls.
Heraclitus
People who live only by their feelings are animals.
L. Tolstoy
Senseless feelings are the lot of animals, they humiliate a person.
V. Belinsky
Impulses and emotions do not explain anything, they always result either from the power of the body or from the weakness of the spirit.
K. Strauss
Every feeling tends to turn into lust or aversion.
V. Dilthey
The man who can do whatever he wants will soon do what he shouldn't.
Velez de Guevera
Feelings are unreliable.
I. Saikaku
Passions not only do not allow us to see the given object from all sides, they also deceive us, showing us the object where it is not.
Helvetius
If there were no reason, we would be overwhelmed by sensuality.
W. Shakespeare
If a man is never in control of his feelings, he must be in control of his expressions.
Aristotle
Lots of emotion, little intelligence.
Only an ascetic who has curbed his senses can fast at a feast, be sane and cold-blooded alone with his wife, and sacrifice when he is rich.
Chanakya Pandit
Master your passions or they will master you.
The wall of emotions blocks the external and inner world simultaneously.
Absalom Underwater
Muhammad Azzahiri As-Samarkandi
Sad is the end of all passions.
The moment we begin to feel, we cease to indulge in wise reflections.
E. D. Bulwer-Lytton
All passions are good when we own them; everyone is bad when we obey them.
J.-J. Rousseau
People follow pleasures, rushing from side to side, only because they feel the emptiness of their lives, but do not yet feel the emptiness of the new fun that attracts them.
B. Pascal
O happiness of knowledge! How much higher it is than the joy of imagination and feeling.
J. Borges
He loves because he loves, does not love because he does not love - the logic of feelings and passions is short.
J. Borges
Illusion is, in essence, not the sensible world, but its evil, which, however, for our eyes constitutes the sensible world.
Free yourself, O heart, from the captivity of earthly feelings, from the joys of love, from empty sorrows.
Go to the dervishes, heart, sit on their threshold, and you may become a saint among saints.
Omar Khayyam
Patience and time give more than strength or passion.
J. La Fontaine
A person caught in the captivity of his passions cannot be free.
Prudence enlightens, passion blinds.
J.-B. molière
Our emotions are inversely proportional to our knowledge: the less we know, the more we inflame.
B. Russell
The passions are reptiles when they enter the heart, and wild dragons when they have already entered it.
Helvetius
The quick-tempered will never know the truth.
There is no sin heavier than passions.
Avoid frivolity, avoid passion and pleasure, for only a serious and thoughtful person achieves great happiness.
Eastern wisdom
A reserved person has fewer misses.
Confucius
The driving force behind the development of modern civilization is pleasure, but the principle of pleasure ultimately destroys itself.
The more a person strives for pleasure, the more he moves away from the goal of being happy.
V. Frankl
There is no pleasure that does not eventually lead to satiety.
Pliny the Elder
QUOTES ABOUT EGO
One who is in love with himself cannot be capable of true love. Egoism is terrible vice poisoning love. If you are selfish, it is better not to create a family.
V. Sukhomlinsky
Egoism is the root cause of cancer of the soul.
V. Sukhomlinsky
Selfishness is such a disgusting vice that no one will forgive in another person and no one recognizes in himself.
The ego is not your enemy, it is an illusion of who you think you are.
Upanishads
It is impossible to find peace until you embark on the path of service to others and self-sacrifice.
G. Van Dyke
It is not given to a person to understand if there is no love in him, and it is not given to recognize if he does not sacrifice himself.
A. Lenormand
The main and greatest ignorance consists in ignorance of oneself.
Egoism writes down in ink the evil done to it and in pencil the good done to it.
Everything that surrounds the egoist seems to him only a frame for his portrait.
J. Petit San
He who loves himself very much is not loved by others, because out of delicacy they do not want to be his rivals.
V. Klyuchevsky
By seeking the happiness of others, we find our own.
Of all human passions, the strongest is pride, which, when offended, never forgives.
B. Belinsky
Selfishness makes us strive to please others.
C. Brentano
To live only for oneself is an abuse.
W. Shakespeare
He is good for nothing who is good only for himself.
F. Voltaire
The most honorable victory is that won over selfishness.
Living only for yourself is a shame.
A. Ostrovsky
A person who thinks only of himself and seeks his own benefit in everything cannot be happy. If you want to live for yourself, live for others.
If a person loves only himself, then with the advent of difficult life trials, he curses his fate and experiences terrible torment.
F. Dzerzhinsky
Selfishness kills generosity.
F. Dostoevsky
Brotherly love lives on in a thousand souls, selfishness in only one, and a very pitiful one at that.
M. Ebnereschenbach
What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and destroy himself?
Luke (chap. 9; v. 25)
Egoists are capricious and cowardly in the face of duty: they have an eternal cowardly aversion to bind themselves to some kind of duty.
F. Dostoevsky
As long as our temporary self strives for eternal life, we will fail, just like a cancer cell. A cancer cell differs from the usual one by an overestimation of its Ego.
Why did the lamp go out? - I covered it with a cloak from the wind. Why did the flower wither? I greedily hugged him to my chest. Why is the stream shallow? - I dammed it to serve me. Why did the string on the harp break? - I tried to extract from her a sound that exceeded her strength.
D. Frawley
There are many faiths, and all are not the same.
What does heresy, sin, Islam mean?
I chose to love you, God.
Everything else is worthless rubbish.
Refusing to live for yourself, do not give in to doubt. If you allow doubt to take hold of you, you will be ashamed of your lofty intentions. Doing good to people, do not demand gratitude from them. If you demand gratitude from them, your desire to do good will cause harm.
Hong Zicheng
In order to successfully carry out our mission, we must help other people in every possible way on their way. By helping others, we help ourselves. Establishing and maintaining relationships with other people is blocked when we cherish our own uniqueness to the point where we become completely absorbed in our egocentric world.
M. Newton
To love means to consciously learn to love yourself, that is, your true spiritual essence. Those who cannot take care of themselves cannot give anything to others.
D. Favors
Illustrations
If we consider the scheme of development of the consciousness of modern society, we will see that all human activity is based on the needs of the senses, and only a small place is given to the mind, where it tries to warn that excessive drinking will harm your health.
The mind comes up with more and more options for sensual pleasures, developing manic tendencies. Gradually, he goes crazy under the influence of desires intensified by him. So, a man who has raised a lion in his house is killed by his own pet. "Cultivating" its madness, the mind creates disgusting spectacles with the help of high-quality technology in prestigious "highly cultured" premises.
Martti Larni
Entering a new gross body, creature receives new ears, eyes, tongue, nose and skin (organ of touch). All these senses are located around the mind, and through them the living entity enjoys the sense objects available to him.
Bhagavad-gita, 15.9
The thirst for pleasure makes cruel.
"Free" feelings make a person be more and more frank in their vicious desires. This is a culture of naked bodies, fights, sex, debauchery and violence, a culture that generates degradation of the individual.
The moon, reflected in the water, acquires the quality of water. Reflected in ghee, it acquires the quality of oil, similar to golden mist. And reflected in the marble, it acquires a pattern of a marble pattern.
Likewise, the soul, entering the sense organs, is enveloped in these senses. Entering the atmosphere of the mind, she feels his thoughts and moods. And having entered the mind, the soul can finally see the difference between itself and its reflection and know itself.
One of the most common questions asked by a psychologist is something like this:
“What should I do if I tell him/her and he/she does not understand / does not hear / continues to do it in his own way?”
The people who ask this question are in very different situations, but the essence of the problem is the same: you can’t get your thoughts across. loved one so that he can understand them. He does not seem to hear the words that you say to him, and yet you sincerely wish well. He does not see your feelings, but you are hurt and lonely. He is also trying to tell you something, but only reproaches and accusations come out.
If communication fails, it is helpful to look at the form in which you put your thoughts. The form can be such that it will cause a desire to object even though your interlocutor is internally ready to agree with you. You should not start a conversation by trying to tell the other person what is wrong with him and what he did wrong.
It is better to let him know how his act aroused in you. A statement about one's feelings, without accusations and reproaches against the other, is called "I-statement". It is a constructive alternative to the "You-statement", which usually contains a negative assessment of the behavior of another.
Much has been written about "I-statements" in the psychological literature on communication. On one forum on the Internet, I read this definition:
“I-statements are crutches for those who do not know how to communicate in a human way. The simplest technique, following which allows you to avoid conflicts or get out of conflict situations without going to a massacre.
Unfortunately, if we consider the way that the majority uses as human, then " human way communication” just involves the exchange of mutual reproaches and accusations. And learning how to use I-statements will not be harmful at all.
You-saying: You only think about your work!
Me-statement: I feel sad when I sit at home alone in the evenings.
You-saying: You always hide my things so I can't find anything.
Me-statement: It annoys me when I don't find my things where I put them.
As you can easily imagine, the You-statement evokes a desire to defend and even attack in response and usually causes a reaction in the spirit of “look at yourself” and “you yourself are a fool”, emotions heat up, conflict intensifies, mutual insults and discontent accumulate.
I-statement allows you to express your feelings in a form that is not offensive to another person and therefore will be heard more likely. It does not cause any desire to object, because it is true by definition: you talk about your feelings, and no one knows better than you exactly how you feel. When you simply communicate your feelings, you do not require anything from the other and leave him the freedom to decide what to do. This is more likely to cause a desire to sympathize and change their behavior than "collision" and reproaches.
Of course, I-statements are not a panacea for all communication problems, but this is a certain minimum that will be useful both in child-parent relationships and in relationships between adults.
Great feeling prevents sensitivity.
Wilhelm Fischer
The fullness and depth of feelings and thoughts do not allow frantic impulses.
M.Yu. Lermontov
When we are ready to succumb to the dictates of feelings,
Shyness always prevents us from admitting it.
Know how to recognize behind the coldness of words
The excitement of the soul and heart is a gentle call.
J. Moliere
When you reach the end of what you should know, you will be at the beginning of what you should feel.
D. H. Gibran
If there were no reason, we would be overwhelmed by sensuality. That's what the mind is to curb its absurdities.
W. Shakespeare
Only a combination of circumstances reveals our essence to others and, most importantly, to ourselves.
F. La Rochefoucauld
We are often indulgent towards those who burden us, but we are never condescending to those who are burdened by us.
F. La Rochefoucauld
Worthless is the feeling that has a price.
N. Chamfort
A person suffers not so much from what happens, but from how he evaluates what happens to him.
M. Montaigne
To see and feel is to be, to think, is to live.
W. Shakespeare
Light feelings often last a very long time, nothing crushes them, for nothing strains them; they follow the circumstances, disappear with them, while deep attachments are completely torn, leaving painful wounds in their place.
Anna Steel
Feeling prevails over reason, but not over reason.
A. Blok
Feelings are the color of thoughts. Without them, our thoughts are simple, dry, lifeless contours, but not pictures.
Nikolai Shelgunov
The worst feeling is the feeling of being powerless.
T. Carlyle
A person without self-love is worthless. Self-love is an Archimedes lever that can move the earth from its place.
I. Turgenev
We all have one anchor from which, if you do not want to, you will never break: a sense of duty.
I. Turgenev
It is easy to hide hatred, the hardest is love, and the hardest thing is indifference.
L. Berne
We are more sincere towards others than towards ourselves.
F. Nietzsche
When I try to discern people's true feelings, I rely on my eyes more than my ears.
F. Chesterfield
The only way to get rid of temptation is to give in to it.
O. Wilde
It is not given to a person to understand if there is no love in him, and it is not given to recognize if he does not sacrifice himself.
Lenormand
Own your passions, which rule if they do not obey.
Horace
If a man is never in control of his feelings, he must always be in control of his expressions.
P. Buast
B. Auerbach
Beliefs are feelings. Feelings are not analyzed, they are not discussed.
O. de Badzac
The sense of right and wrong is the basis of the ability to acquire knowledge.
mencius
Feelings are only truer and clearer than reason when we are looking for the truth.
Wilhelm Fischer
Feelings do not deceive. Deceives the judgment made on them.
V. Hugo
Feeling precedes knowledge. He who did not feel the truth did not understand, did not recognize it.
V. Belinsky
People only understand feelings that are similar to theirs. own feelings; others, no matter how beautifully expressed, do not affect them: the eyes look, but the heart does not participate, and soon the eyes turn away.
I. Ten
If the senses are not true, then the whole mind will be false.
Lucretius
It is very difficult to force yourself to speak. The hardest thing is to force yourself to be silent. Even harder is to force yourself to think. But the hardest thing is to make yourself feel.
D. H. Gibran
Nobility of feelings is not always accompanied by nobility of manners.
O. Balzac
You will never reach mutual understanding between people otherwise than with the help of feelings.
Germaine de Stael
If a person did not succumb to feelings, he would hate life and would like it to end as soon as possible or never begin.
D. Swift
A sensitive person is as if unarmed among the well-armed.
